expressing romantic feelings to a Gemini...

is there a right way to go about it?

Just be honest and truthful about how u feel, we know if ur sincere or not

Posted by angiedbc457
Just be honest and truthful about how u feel, we know if ur sincere or not

I can't really imagine someone being insincere when expressing their feelings to another person. What do you take as insincerity?

Does your HUSBAND know you're secretly trying to

have an affair with another man? LOL

Oops sorry I creeped your profile 😛

I'm a nosy Gemini after all 😛

Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Does your HUSBAND know you're secretly trying to

have an affair with another man? LOL

Oops sorry I creeped your profile 😛

I'm a nosy Gemini after all 😛

if I wanted your input on that subject in my life, I would've asked! 🙂

Posted by glamazon

Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Does your HUSBAND know you're secretly trying to

have an affair with another man? LOL

Oops sorry I creeped your profile 😛

I'm a nosy Gemini after all 😛

if I wanted your input on that subject in my life, I would've asked! 🙂

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Well, people have a right to know you're a lying two-faced bitch

before they decide to waste their time replying to your thread. 🙂

You fooled those poor Aries people into thinking

you're an innocent "distressed cancer wife"

suffering at the hands of her controlling husband

who had every right to be suspicious of you LOL

The Gemini guy will be her next victim lol Sucks to be him lol

Posted by size zero superhero
I mean, sometimes $ h!et happens without any prior underhanded motives, but this incidence of backstabbing is so obviously premeditated.
Nobody here was born yesterday and if you're THAT comically messy with putting your business out there, why act like naysayers are meddling into your life?

The OP's userpic is a self-photo, for one, and she tends to play the victim card one day and the role of predator the next...but how dare you call it out?! Doesn't even bother covering her tracks LOL. Now I know to avoid taking 'glamazon'-threads surriously 😛

I know, right?!

This bitch has some serious nerve LOL

If she wants to fuck with us Geminis,

we'll give her a run for her money

Cancers...

Expressing romantic feelings towards a Gemini is a bit tricky, he will fuck you rough on the first date but that doesnt mean u can win his heart. Just show him you are very much interested in listening to his bullocks thoughts, dont talk just about yourself, your clothes or shoes he dont give a shit about it. Mind stimulation is the key to win his heart, if you are clingy jealous or possessive then he will run a mile. You will never see him again.

Posted by JennGem
Oh, man! All of the cancer women I know have been cheaters and the men just can't imagine their sweet cuddly woman doing such a thing. Anyways, if the Gemini you want to cheat on your husband with is into you, you will know. Do NOT say anything you will run him off, he will feel like the chase/fun is over. Idk, I could be wrong, I like the build up and the unspoken. I get pretty scared once feelings are out out there before its time. I can tell when a man wants me or is trying to connect with me. I also can tell body language, and eye contact.

lol thanks for the response... sincerely. my husband and I have been separated for five months now but not until recently we're working on our marriage. never once have I "cheated" on him while we've been together. We were BOTH seeing other people, and we have BOTH been truthful about our actions. NOT that I need to explain to myself to a stranger, but thanks I appreciate the advice.

the gem I was seeing while we were separated couldn't really understand why I had just cut him off. truth be told, my feelings for him were (are? it's confusing but it doesn't matter anymore anyway) running hot. I just feel like it'd be fair to him if I told him about how I had felt since he's always poured his out to me. not that I can ever pursue those feelings anymore since I am trying hard to bury it. HOWEVER, the gem told me I was "cold" and didn't know how to communicate or express my feelings. it's true, I don't know how to express my feelings especially when I'm in a conflicted situation. with every other gem, I'd be worried about running him off with expressing how I felt without knowing how he in turn feels himself. not that I KNOW how he truly feels about me, I can't find the right words to tell him.

i mean now*** that I know how he truly feels about me, I can't find the right words to tell him.


by the way, all you other "gems" with nothing else to do but indulge in your ignorance and spare time, you amuse me. 😛

Posted by geminidude
Expressing romantic feelings towards a Gemini is a bit tricky, he will fuck you rough on the first date but that doesnt mean u can win his heart. Just show him you are very much interested in listening to his bullocks thoughts, dont talk just about yourself, your clothes or shoes he dont give a shit about it. Mind stimulation is the key to win his heart, if you are clingy jealous or possessive then he will run a mile. You will never see him again.

that much I do know. the gem already made his romantic feelings obvious to me, but we're such great friends and at this point in life that's all we'll ever be. sadly, I do feel the same way about him but I'm in no position to move forward with it. I've told him all we could ever be is friends, but it's almost like he refuses to accept that as the truth and believes I'm withholding my real feelings just because of my situation. he demands to know more, but I don't know the right words to say. i've never dealt with a demanding gem before. not to mention getting scolded for being cold due to my lack of emotional expression COMING from a gem seems a bit absurd. I've only held back because I know whatever I feel is irrelevant to our friendship. if he wants me to lay it out there, I guess it's fair. but what's the point? I thought gem males tend to avoid these situations.

Posted by size zero superhero
I mean, sometimes $ h!et happens without any prior underhanded motives, but this incidence of backstabbing is so obviously premeditated.
Nobody here was born yesterday and if you're THAT comically messy with putting your business out there, why act like naysayers are meddling into your life?

The OP's userpic is a self-photo, for one, and she tends to play the victim card one day and the role of predator the next...but how dare you call it out?! Doesn't even bother covering her tracks LOL. Now I know to avoid taking 'glamazon'-threads surriously 😛

honey, I don't MIND at all exposing my business to an online forum. I have nothing to hide and I certainly don't blame people with not much else to do in their mundane lives for going off topic and giving their two cents about my marriage. People like you and the bitch above making assumptions about my REAL life situation based on vague internet posts and an online profile, your ignorance shines. my question was simple and needed a simple response. sure, you have every right to make your own judgements about me as a person, but again, it isn't what I asked for and I really... don't care. You don't know me. That's all it is. Lol.

Posted by size zero superhero

Posted by glamazon
honey, I don't MIND at all exposing my business to an online forum. I have nothing to hide and I certainly don't blame people with not much else to do in their mundane lives for going off topic and giving their two cents about my marriage.

People like you and the bitch above making assumptions about my REAL life situation based on vague internet posts and an online profile, your ignorance shines. my question was simple and needed a simple response. sure, you have every right to make your own judgements about me as a person, but again, it isn't what I asked for and I really... don't care. You don't know me. That's all it is. Lol.

Never once claimed I knew you; non-issue.
And since you have nothing to conceal, that habit of hiding posts(BTW where'd the avatar go? LMAO)is awfully misleading. My alleged ignorance clearly isn't so monumental that it renders me incapable of smelling BS.

Why get huffy after people aren't as oblivious as you'd hoped? If their/our lives are mundane in contrast to the brilliant existence you lead, why bother requesting the council of beings so inferior? Otherwise, you'd have all the answers and nobody would know you were full of it. That's all it is. LOL.

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huffy and puffy? I'm actually laughing at how ludicrous the likes of you take this "community" so seriously, that if one person writes something seemingly contradictory, it must mean they're full of BS and they must be shunned! get the facts straight before posting what you THINK you know. your ignorance clearly renders you an idiot-- nothing more. lol. I'm assuming your social life includes the majority of the interaction from these forums... and needless to say, that's a little pathetic. I'm over it. PEACE! 😛

Posted by glamazon

Posted by geminidude
Expressing romantic feelings towards a Gemini is a bit tricky, he will fuck you rough on the first date but that doesnt mean u can win his heart. Just show him you are very much interested in listening to his bullocks thoughts, dont talk just about yourself, your clothes or shoes he dont give a shit about it. Mind stimulation is the key to win his heart, if you are clingy jealous or possessive then he will run a mile. You will never see him again.

that much I do know. the gem already made his romantic feelings obvious to me, but we're such great friends and at this point in life that's all we'll ever be. sadly, I do feel the same way about him but I'm in no position to move forward with it. I've told him all we could ever be is friends, but it's almost like he refuses to accept that as the truth and believes I'm withholding my real feelings just because of my situation. he demands to know more, but I don't know the right words to say. i've never dealt with a demanding gem before. not to mention getting scolded for being cold due to my lack of emotional expression COMING from a gem seems a bit absurd. I've only held back because I know whatever I feel is irrelevant to our friendship. if he wants me to lay it out there, I guess it's fair. but what's the point? I thought gem males tend to avoid these situations.

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Yes you are withholding your feelings so tell me the truth. We all Geminis are the same, not demanding but curious. Communication is the key. If you dont open up its never gona solve. We never judge but helps to get out of the situation. I know water signs are quite discreet, always keep things them-self and worry about it for nothing.

Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx

Posted by glamazon

Posted by xxPinkFerrarixx
Does your HUSBAND know you're secretly trying to

have an affair with another man? LOL

Oops sorry I creeped your profile 😛

I'm a nosy Gemini after all 😛

if I wanted your input on that subject in my life, I would've asked! 🙂

Well, people have a right to know you're a lying two-faced bitch

before they decide to waste their time replying to your thread. 🙂

You fooled those poor Aries people into thinking

you're an innocent "distressed cancer wife"

suffering at the hands of her controlling husband

who had every right to be suspicious of you LOL

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Lol

Posted by JennGem

Posted by geminidude

Posted by glamazon

Posted by geminidude
Expressing romantic feelings towards a Gemini is a bit tricky, he will fuck you rough on the first date but that doesnt mean u can win his heart. Just show him you are very much interested in listening to his bullocks thoughts, dont talk just about yourself, your clothes or shoes he dont give a shit about it. Mind stimulation is the key to win his heart, if you are clingy jealous or possessive then he will run a mile. You will never see him again.

that much I do know. the gem already made his romantic feelings obvious to me, but we're such great friends and at this point in life that's all we'll ever be. sadly, I do feel the same way about him but I'm in no position to move forward with it. I've told him all we could ever be is friends, but it's almost like he refuses to accept that as the truth and believes I'm withholding my real feelings just because of my situation. he demands to know more, but I don't know the right words to say. i've never dealt with a demanding gem before. not to mention getting scolded for being cold due to my lack of emotional expression COMING from a gem seems a bit absurd. I've only held back because I know whatever I feel is irrelevant to our friendship. if he wants me to lay it out there, I guess it's fair. but what's the point? I thought gem males tend to avoid these situations.

Yes you are withholding your feelings so tell me the truth. We all Geminis are the same, not demanding but curious. Communication is the key. If you dont open up its never gona solve. We never judge but helps to get out of the situation. I know water signs are quite discreet, always keep things them-self and worry about it for nothing.

But she wants to work it out with her husband. If she tells him she feels the same that will make it worse. That's not truly caring for him and his feelings. Ya know?

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Gotchaaaa

Posted by cunninglinguist
A bunch of Geminis yelling at a Cancer for cheating....— 😛

Need some lube for this mindfuck. Where's my beer.

You Aquas dont make gossips hehe. Cheating thing never seen on your list.

Oh I see. So now you are trying to blame US for

YOUR lack of explanation regarding your situation.

This is what WE saw:

YOU: "My Aries husband is so possessive. I give him NO reason to worry or be suspicious."

(You totally played the victim here and was even lucky enough to receive the sympathy you were no doubt after)

And then a few days later.....

YOU: "How do I tell this Gemini guy I have romantic feelings for him—"

Anybody with a heart would look at this and go, "WTF?!"

And it sure doesn't appear like you are "working on your marriage".

You're already over here preparing to get with another man.

Save the sob story for your friends who might actually give a shit.

YOU are the one who caused this misunderstanding by not providing enough information.

And yes, it is not your job to give us every detail of your life however this is a PUBLIC forum.

People are going to notice shit and comment on it whether you like it or not.

Stop acting like you are a victim in this and like we pounced on you for no reason.

People who agree with her and praise her = people with a life.

People who disagree with her and call her out on her BS = people with NO life.

LOL

Delusional victim mentality bitch.

@glamazon What I take as insecurity is when a person is lying to me and not being honest with me. I hate a person to lie to me and to my face. If a man love me tell me don't beat around the bush about it. And if u gonna cheat then just up and leave me alone, don't string me along.

Im a Gemini..I understand the power of words. I may be a good speaker and be able to talk myself out of handcuffs but even Im not buying what anyone says to me. SHOW ME you care, dont say it and then do the opposite. Thats why I never tell a girl I like her unless I really have to, I rather spend my time thinking of ways to show it so it stays with her longer and has a bigger effect. fuck words.

Im a Gemini..I understand the power of words. I may be a good speaker and be able to talk myself out of handcuffs but even Im not buying what anyone says to me. SHOW ME you care, dont say it and then do the opposite. Thats why I never tell a girl I like her unless I really have to, I rather spend my time thinking of ways to show it so it stays with her longer and has a bigger effect. fuck words.

NONE IF EITHER OF U ARE TRULY MARRIED

Us Gems might come across as home wreckers since we like to flirt.. but we are Not home wreckers. I'm sorry but I don't condone what you are doing.. therefore I cannot answer your question. Good luck and watch out for Karma.. she can be a bit check sometimes..

Oh for goodness sakes, leave the poor girl alone. You all do not know what her intentions are, or situation. She is on the fence about continuing the marriage which also has to do with her hubby's actions/heart/head. So she has fallen for a Gem guy, who hasn't? Things happen, she did not cheat. Glamazon is just in a weird predicament with her hubby and things are up in the air. Sorry if we all can't live in a black and white world, but grey shit happens and unfortunately a lot of times out of our control. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" So happy for you all leave suck morally righteous lives!

Posted by Moonbutter
Oh for goodness sakes, leave the poor girl alone. You all do not know what her intentions are, or situation. She is on the fence about continuing the marriage which also has to do with her hubby's actions/heart/head. So she has fallen for a Gem guy, who hasn't? Things happen, she did not cheat. Glamazon is just in a weird predicament with her hubby and things are up in the air. Sorry if we all can't live in a black and white world, but grey shit happens and unfortunately a lot of times out of our control. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" So happy for you all leave suck morally righteous lives!

Damn Moonbutter.. lol.. jeez.. okay, fine.. I'll leave her alone, can't speak for the rest of me fellow Gems hehe

Haha Geminieyevixen...my comment was mostly directed toward the Gemini bullies. As I have recently come under attack for something similar and unjustified, I thought it only due diligence to stick up for someone in same situation.

Posted by Moonbutter
Haha Geminieyevixen...my comment was mostly directed toward the Gemini bullies. As I have recently come under attack for something similar and unjustified, I thought it only due diligence to stick up for someone in same situation.

Who attacked you? I didn't feel anyone attacked you.

As for this OP I don't judge her, she and her husband have been on and off. It doesn't sound like a marriage to me. Plus, I don't judge someone when they are separated from their spouse b/c they aren't actually together.