Ask a Gem

Ok I am bored tonight. Ask your questions for a Gem and I will answer all questions good or bad lol

1. Looks are important, I would say me personally want both but the ability to hold a good conversation with me ranks higher! Good question!

2. I'm very open minded, people need to worry less about conforming to society standards, instead do what makes YOU happy not everyone else life is way to short!

3. Yes they are

4. Idk, maybe cause we enjoy doing things that make no sense like pronouncing our sun in a way that makes people question it lol

5. It only takes one but we need a few extra around to gossip how we could do it when do and so couldn't lmao

So and so I mean

what's the best way to play hard to get with a Gem guy without making him feel that you are intentionally doing it?

Gems want to be the center of attention, play hard to get by not making him the focus of your attention. Give him a little....to show your interested but not the whole thing. He will admire you have a life of your own and be very curious about what takes up your time when he's not there.

Are Gems the best for Libra men? And if so what's the best way to deal with Libra men as a Gem?

You do NOT want my opinion on Libras married to one for 18 years, massive egos and he sucked the life right outta me....my advice RUN

Are you related to JennGem, do we have twins on DXP?

1- If you confront a Gem about a big lie, what will his reaction be?

2- If a Gem cares a lot about someone, will they do everything they can to keep this person?

No not related to JennGem didn't know there was so done with that name lol

Lies, depends if we are straight busted we will admit or at least I will, if there is room to wiggle out of it I will try. I'm not a huge liar by any means in fact don't like that quality. But white lies I do those good!

Keeping someone you love, absolutely....sometimes to the point I compromise myself I'm working in that but I will fight for what want for sure....great question!

I meant didn't know there was someone with that name

Posted by GemJenn
I meant didn't know there was someone with that name

You have a twin then!

How fitting too, considering Gemini is represented by the symbol of Twins!

(never mind me, its the strange Stinger humour)

1- Do Gems tend to say things that they regret after because they couldn't keep their mouth shut?

2- Do they tend to be selfish only to realize what they did after it's too late?
How would they fix a situation such as hurting someone by being selfish (if they care about the person that is)

Well I am a Gem and yes we do regret hurting people, we will talk it out with that person and try to resolve the conflict.

How do you get a gemini to call you a lot

do gems really quickly move on?

wont they ever settle with anyone..as everyone gets boring for them?

how you react if someone you know closely ignores you because of being rejected?

Posted by AnnaPhototaker
1- Do Gems tend to say things that they regret after because they couldn't keep their mouth shut?

2- Do they tend to be selfish only to realize what they did after it's too late?
How would they fix a situation such as hurting someone by being selfish (if they care about the person that is)

Yes I say stuff I INSTANTLY regret, I am very prone to gossip and I will admit that. NOT a good trait!

I can be selfish but not with people I care deeply about, I will be anything but, if I do it and realize I was wrong I will simply apologize.

Posted by JennGem
Haha I am jennGem, I didn't even think to see if there was another one. Yes I would agree with her about running from Libras. They are life suckers and perfectionist, very passive aggressive. IMO!

Nice to meet ya my sister!!

Posted by Peachpeaches
How do you get a gemini to call you a lot

Agreed, ignore BUT if the Gem isn't into you ignoring wont work cause they won't care!!

Posted by krebbsmann
do gems really quickly move on?

wont they ever settle with anyone..as everyone gets boring for them?

how you react if someone you know closely ignores you because of being rejected?

Yes, we will settle down.....my Cap has made me a smitten kitten lol but I do good bored easy which he knows and keeps me interested!! Caps are intriguing to me!!

I don't like being ignored but I know the difference between coy ignoring and I don't give a f*ck about you ignoring!

Posted by BlackIndian22
plus the last two geminis i met were soo mean. They left me hanging in the middle of our conversations too. I seem to be a magnet for em lol. If i do meet another gemini, i hope she be nice & actually be sensitive to my feelings. I don't hate gemini women, it's i would like it to work it out.

You just haven't met the RIGHT Gem my friend......

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Posted by angiedbc457
Are Gems the best for Libra men? And if so what's the best way to deal with Libra men as a Gem?

They are Perfect for us in my opinion! Plus we are suppose to go great in marriage with them. One of my best relationships was with a Libra!

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NO NO NO NO NO.......Libra men suck the life outta you, then jump on your dead lifeless corpse while telling you how it's all your fault!!

Posted by xdimplez
so whats it like being a gemini... being 2 people in 1?

I love being a Gem....most people don't see my "evil side" but if you mess with my kid, my sis, my man or my money your gonna see a crazy bitch that will throat punch you without thinking twice....

GQOTD (Gemini question of the day!)

Because Geminis prefer having fun, and they prefer new things, do they tend to make bad life decisions?

(My Gemini best friend sometimes ditch me to go hangout with girls he barely knows he met online, and he also decided to go see a movie today rather than going to job interview I arranged for him.)
(I'm a Cap, I've been helping him get job interviews because I know that what he needs)

GQOTD #2:

If you're upset at a Gemini, what is the best way to handle it IF talking to him and explaining to him clearly and rationally doesn't give results?
(Ignoring him just turn into said Gemini calling me 30 times in a row looking for attention and texting me things: "Fine I'll go get a tattoo just to piss you off")

Posted by AnnaPhototaker
GQOTD (Gemini question of the day!)

Because Geminis prefer having fun, and they prefer new things, do they tend to make bad life decisions?

(My Gemini best friend sometimes ditch me to go hangout with girls he barely knows he met online, and he also decided to go see a movie today rather than going to job interview I arranged for him.)
(I'm a Cap, I've been helping him get job interviews because I know that what he needs)

I ??_ new things but don't tend to ditch people I have plans with, I will try to change where we are going to incorporate what I want to do at times....

Bad life decisions? Yep, like marrying a tree trunking Libra and wasting 18 years of my life with him when I should have found my Cap then and spent all those years happy!

Posted by AnnaPhototaker
GQOTD #2:

If you're upset at a Gemini, what is the best way to handle it IF talking to him and explaining to him clearly and rationally doesn't give results?
(Ignoring him just turn into said Gemini calling me 30 times in a row looking for attention and texting me things: "Fine I'll go get a tattoo just to piss you off")

Tell them point blank what they did that upset you, if its easier write a letter. I would rather someone be straight up with me then ignore me! That drives me insane!

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Posted by angiedbc457
Are Gems the best for Libra men? And if so what's the best way to deal with Libra men as a Gem?

They are Perfect for us in my opinion! Plus we are suppose to go great in marriage with them. One of my best relationships was with a Libra!

NO NO NO NO NO.......Libra men suck the life outta you, then jump on your dead lifeless corpse while telling you how it's all your fault!!

GemJenn sounds like we had similar experiences with the dear libra men. Most of my guy friends are libra but I won't ever date or marry one again. Lol.

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Sounds like it!! I wouldn't touch another Libra if my life depended on it!

do you look out for a guy apologising to you for his absence from your life or you no longer want to take the initiative and move on?

Posted by cunninglinguist
1. How do Gems move on so quickly when blown off by someone for no good reason?

2. Also, what do you do to keep your skin so glowy? lol

I think it's because we get bored easy!! Easier to move on to the next!

My skin, I have been asked that alot on here, I don't think I have gooey skin but thank you! Honestly lots of SPF and I use Bath & Body Works I scented moisturizer?? Maybe lots of good sex lol

Posted by krebbsmann
do you look out for a guy apologising to you for his absence from your life or you no longer want to take the initiative and move on?

Depends on how I feel about them but I don't take no well for an answer so I would have pursued them and if they kept on with the not interested bit, then I would be out!

TELL GEMJENN (CUTE NAME FOR A CUTE GIRL BY THE WAY)
IS IT TRUE THAT FOR PRESSURE ON THE BRAIN YOU GEMS CUT YOURSELFS AND DO A BLEEDING THUS REDUCING THE PRESSURE?

Posted by GemJenn
Gems want to be the center of attention, play hard to get by not making him the focus of your attention. Give him a little....to show your interested but not the whole thing. He will admire you have a life of your own and be very curious about what takes up your time when he's not there.

This is true, I've tested this before with my Gemini male friend. I wasn't purposely trying to ignore him, just chose to give him his room to talk to others as I had my room/space to roam around and talk to others as we watched the Races. I left before he did and didn't even tell him I was leaving. Next thing I know he texted me and wanted to meet up with me.
So far, everything I've read about my Gemini male friend has matched to how he is, but you also have to take into consideration a Gemini's upbringing as a child.
Sadly to say, he's also been off and on for going on 8 years with an ex-girlfriend who's a Cancer (probably bi-polar at that), she lives just down the street from him.
They fight all the time and break up all the time - we all think it's just the s*x that he/they keep getting back together all these years. He doesn't want to marry and she does want to get married- so, when she mentions marriage to him, within the next two weeks they break up again.

Posted by semeshell

Posted by GemJenn
Gems want to be the center of attention, play hard to get by not making him the focus of your attention. Give him a little....to show your interested but not the whole thing. He will admire you have a life of your own and be very curious about what takes up your time when he's not there.

This is true, I've tested this before with my Gemini male friend. I wasn't purposely trying to ignore him, just chose to give him his room to talk to others as I had my room/space to roam around and talk to others as we watched the Races. I left before he did and didn't even tell him I was leaving. Next thing I know he texted me and wanted to meet up with me.
So far, everything I've read about my Gemini male friend has matched to how he is, but you also have to take into consideration a Gemini's upbringing as a child.
Sadly to say, he's also been off and on for going on 8 years with an ex-girlfriend who's a Cancer (probably bi-polar at that), she lives just down the street from him.
They fight all the time and break up all the time - we all think it's just the s*x that he/they keep getting back together all these years. He doesn't want to marry and she does want to get married- so, when she mentions marriage to him, within the next two weeks they break up again.

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...and then one day...the end.

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Posted by semeshell

Posted by GemJenn
Gems want to be the center of attention, play hard to get by not making him the focus of your attention. Give him a little....to show your interested but not the whole thing. He will admire you have a life of your own and be very curious about what takes up your time when he's not there.

This is true, I've tested this before with my Gemini male friend. I wasn't purposely trying to ignore him, just chose to give him his room to talk to others as I had my room/space to roam around and talk to others as we watched the Races. I left before he did and didn't even tell him I was leaving. Next thing I know he texted me and wanted to meet up with me.
So far, everything I've read about my Gemini male friend has matched to how he is, but you also have to take into consideration a Gemini's upbringing as a child.
Sadly to say, he's also been off and on for going on 8 years with an ex-girlfriend who's a Cancer (probably bi-polar at that), she lives just down the street from him.
They fight all the time and break up all the time - we all think it's just the s*x that he/they keep getting back together all these years. He doesn't want to marry and she does want to get married- so, when she mentions marriage to him, within the next two weeks they break up again.

...and then one day...the end.

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Why? Do they get married?! 😢 LLOOLL!!!!!

1) You got beautiful eyes and curiosity killing this Gem so how old are you.

2) For us Gems I heard the best match is Aqua and do you have any experience with them? But what I heard is just in mind stimulation, not much in sexual side. For me I think the best sexual partner is the worst match of us and its Pisces lol.

Posted by geminidude
1) You got beautiful eyes and curiosity killing this Gem so how old are you.

2) For us Gems I heard the best match is Aqua and do you have any experience with them? But what I heard is just in mind stimulation, not much in sexual side. For me I think the best sexual partner is the worst match of us and its Pisces lol.

That was sweet, you made my night! I will be 39 in a month!

Sexually best match is my Capricorn but your right polar opposites=great in bed!

Posted by krebbsmann
do you look out for a guy apologising to you for his absence from your life or you no longer want to take the initiative and move on?

Posted by james tate
TELL GEMJENN (CUTE NAME FOR A CUTE GIRL BY THE WAY)
IS IT TRUE THAT FOR PRESSURE ON THE BRAIN YOU GEMS CUT YOURSELFS AND DO A BLEEDING THUS REDUCING THE PRESSURE?

WHAT??

JUST AS I THOUGHT CAN'T COMPERHIND THE QUESTION.

Posted by james tate
JUST AS I THOUGHT CAN'T COMPERHIND THE QUESTION.

Nope dumb as shit here....??

I am a Leo, in love with a Gem...can you give me some pointers on how to understand him best? I have my opinions, but I would love to hear yours 🙂

GemJenn: This is one personal to you.
What made you realize that a Capricorn is your best match?
What did he bring to you that made you happier than any other signs?

Posted by slickcat
I am a Leo, in love with a Gem...can you give me some pointers on how to understand him best? I have my opinions, but I would love to hear yours 🙂

Well I would say man sure you give them lots of attention, understand the need for Gems to have time with their friends....make them a priority in the relationship....understand if we stretch the truth sometimes it's usually because we want to impress you,... Know that we do sometimes try to make you jealous cause it makes us feel like care.....that we are highly sexual creatures and want it alot.....even though we can move on to another person easily when it's over, when we fall we fall hard! Know that we have a driving need to talk ALOT about whatever, stimulate our minds....know that we analyze everything and almost always are never gonna be able to answer NOTHING when you ask us what we are thinking about.

Good luck with your Gem!

Posted by james tate
JUST AS I THOUGHT CAN'T COMPERHIND THE QUESTION.

At you asking with so much going on in our heads do we need to 'cut' ourself to somehow let it escape?

If so, no to the cutting but yes to blowing off steam, mind blowing sex or something with adrenaline will do.

Posted by AnnaPhototaker
GemJenn: This is one personal to you.
What made you realize that a Capricorn is your best match?
What did he bring to you that made you happier than any other signs?

GREAT QUESTION!

Well he kinda balances me...he is grounding when I can be airy and superficial about things, and I can make him lighten up. He is protective of me physically and he protects my heart. I went through a horrible 18 year marriage with a verbally abusive man. My Cap while we have had 2-3 disagreements has never once tried to hurt me with his words. He is faithful and holds high value to being loyal. Another thing missing from my marriage. He's good to my child, that's such a big deal. He loves her when she's not easy to love sometimes. We connect sexually on almost a soulful level. I can't imagine my future without him in it. We both want to travel, same taste in music, food, movies etc...he can be content going out or holding me in his arms watching a movie at home. Lol, sorry didn't mean to ramble....

I think regarding his sign, he is mysterious and challenging mentally and physically enough to keep me hooked and wanting more and his calming confident precise way about things make me feel less scattered and more secure!

AQUAGEM
AND GEMJEN
ITS GOOD TO BLOW OFF STEAM THAT IS WHY I COME HERE TO FUCK WITH PEOPLE AND BLOW OFF STEAM.
ONE MUST REMEMBER WHEN TATYE POST NEVER EVER TAKE IT TO HEART ITS ALL B/S.

Ok from one Gem to another:

What element do you think is the best paired with us (sun sign wise)? Because in a previous post I see that you made a comment on a Capricorn. This is not true for all of us. Actually it's not even supposed to be one of our matches so I guess this is mostly how the rest of your charts match up. With that said what is complementary about your charts? Venus? Mars?

Would you take a look at my chart and tell me what you think would be complementary? And which aspects do you usually look at first when it comes to relationship/companionship?

Posted by james tate
AQUAGEM
AND GEMJEN
ITS GOOD TO BLOW OFF STEAM THAT IS WHY I COME HERE TO FUCK WITH PEOPLE AND BLOW OFF STEAM.
ONE MUST REMEMBER WHEN TATYE POST NEVER EVER TAKE IT TO HEART ITS ALL B/S.

No worries love....