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Gem man introduces only certain gfs to friends but not others.. why?
Becuz one clicked well with him and the other didn't. This isn't a gem thing.... I think it's a man thing
Some you just don't bring home to mom/dad/friends.....
Some you just don't bring home to mom/dad/friends.....
Posted by misslissaI don't think it's even a man thing .... it's a human thing.
Becuz one clicked well with him and the other didn't. This isn't a gem thing.... I think it's a man thing
Some you just don't bring home to mom/dad/friends.....
All women I know, make decisions on when she's going to introduce her new squeeze, as well ... so, this just seems normal.
This guy likes the one better than the other.
OP, if you are the other ... then step aside and let it pass.
Thanks for your input everyone.
What about if this gem guy is so insistent upon marriage and/or kids with you, that he even says he'll end the relationship when he realised I may not be open to the possibility of those things.. surely if he was only looking for a fling, why would it matter to him whether I wanted those things or not? & agreeing to not going "all the way" physically before marriage, etc. why would anyone agree to those things if they didn't think this was going somewhere?
Talk about mixed signals :/
What about if this gem guy is so insistent upon marriage and/or kids with you, that he even says he'll end the relationship when he realised I may not be open to the possibility of those things.. surely if he was only looking for a fling, why would it matter to him whether I wanted those things or not? & agreeing to not going "all the way" physically before marriage, etc. why would anyone agree to those things if they didn't think this was going somewhere?
Talk about mixed signals :/
Posted by aj123Maybe he wasn't sure till now. Maybe the connection isn't there. Stating to you what he wants out of a relationship doesn't necessarily mean he wants it with you. You sound like you're grasping at straws here. Just move on.
Thanks for your input everyone.
What about if this gem guy is so insistent upon marriage and/or kids with you, that he even says he'll end the relationship when he realised I may not be open to the possibility of those things.. surely if he was only looking for a fling, why would it matter to him whether I wanted those things or not? & agreeing to not going "all the way" physically before marriage, etc. why would anyone agree to those things if they didn't think this was going somewhere?
Talk about mixed signals :/
Posted by P-AngelThat is true. I guess I didn't see past the man part. Lol!Posted by misslissaI don't think it's even a man thing .... it's a human thing.
Becuz one clicked well with him and the other didn't. This isn't a gem thing.... I think it's a man thing
Some you just don't bring home to mom/dad/friends.....
All women I know, make decisions on when she's going to introduce her new squeeze, as well ... so, this just seems normal.
This guy likes the one better than the other.
OP, if you are the other ... then step aside and let it pass.click to expand
As a Gem I am prone to creating two worlds in my life. I have two social groups (as do many non gem people). I don't ever want the people from these two worlds to meet as I need them for healthy "air" space. Its very typical for gem to categorise everything including people into different groups according to which twin their own personality works best with. And so i have friends who i am mostly silly with and friends who I'm mostly serious with. As gemini develops over years I've read and experienced that the struggle and goal is to integrate the two worlds into one. however, for gems its challenging.
Ive dated woman and not wanted to introduce her to my serious group, as I categorised her as better fitting in with my other group.
Ive dated gemini too who have not wanted me to meet certain friends of theirs too. being a gem myself i could understand. I didn't take offence. its important for gems to have a second world and unfortunately it may not be one your inttroduced to (or perhaps not for awhile) but your gem will very much appreciate you giving him or her space. in return you'll get space and more importantly 2 things
trust and happiness. your gem will be able to bring nothing but positivity if he has healthy variety in life.
Ive dated woman and not wanted to introduce her to my serious group, as I categorised her as better fitting in with my other group.
Ive dated gemini too who have not wanted me to meet certain friends of theirs too. being a gem myself i could understand. I didn't take offence. its important for gems to have a second world and unfortunately it may not be one your inttroduced to (or perhaps not for awhile) but your gem will very much appreciate you giving him or her space. in return you'll get space and more importantly 2 things
trust and happiness. your gem will be able to bring nothing but positivity if he has healthy variety in life.
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Thank you.