Gemini and Pisces

What do y'all think? Lately I have really been wanting to kill myself over lack of connection with a Gemini. Right now I am Pisces drunk. Why can't Gemini and Pisces work?

Sometimes we Pisces think that it will make us love everyone since life is so pointless making an example of getting out of it is the most loving thing anyone can do for another human being,

Killing yourself won't impress a Gem, ok? I understand that it seems very romantic in your Piscean head, but Gems truly are not into over-the-top emotional displays and/or emotional blackmail. If she decides you're trying to make her feel responsible for any part of your life or actions, she's liable to think you're a jerk (which I don't believe is the response you're looking for).

A lil positivity goes a LONG WAY....

With that being said, I think ANY and ALL sign combos can work out!! 🙂

It majorly depends on the maturity and the willingness to compromise of both parties. 🙂

Yea. She is a Gem Sun with a Capricorn moon and Libra Ascendant. She is really girly, like the type that wears bows in her hair and pink a lot. She seems really innocent and I have kind of a dark/sinister image. We met at work. And yea I think she's a little scared of me 😢 When I look at her my heart feels so light and warm. Oh, and we both have foot fetishes 😉

Well like I said in another post. I like having relationships with air signs because they are challenging. And also I want to say to Vixy that she has a Virgo ascendant so I don't see how she can say she is such a bad match with Pisces. Virgo and Pisces is like almost as good as Scorpio and Pisces.

+1 misslissa

...I LOOVVE pisces heart...it scares me and excites me at the same time..don't force it, just let it flow naturally...if she's into you she gets it..we have a knack for looking at the good while observing the bad...I think you may have frightened her with your deep emotions and intensity...and trying to take her to the dark/deep side so quickly...remember gems fly high, we don't dive deep...

Gems and Pisces---Noooooooooooooo! A fling? Possibly...anything else...nooooooooooooooooo!

Ok! Brief advice!

You = Cancer Rising
That Girl = Libra Rising
Too different bodies = different minds.

Sounds like a very destructive relationship for me.

Maybe she is like a challenge for you, and that might be a turn on. You have to be man enough to stay away from her. Believe me, you will hurt her.

Air signs don't have deep feelings.
They are idealistic people.
If you hug her with all your love/feelings, she will feel asphyxia.

As I said, be man enough, she's not meant for you.

Posted by ShyCapLady
Ok! Brief advice!

Air signs don't have deep feelings.
They are idealistic people.
If you hug her with all your love/feelings, she will feel asphyxia

Huh.....

being in a pisces/gem relationship is hard on the soul sometimes.
14 months strong here though.
Many, many arguments leading to no where
and lots of miscommunication.

my pisces and I do smoke together//recreationally take pills about.. once every six months or so.
im not even sure why drugs are involved in this ( i just saw that on one of your other posts )
I would definitely take halluc. with him if he did not have a bad experience. I am a little unsure of my mental stability enough to be able to fuss over doing it. I agree, I do think taking drugs together can be romantic.

anyways. PM me if you ever want some priceless knowledge on how to navigate a gem girl being a male pisces.

although, if i was a pisces man I wouldnt fiddle around with geminis.
virgos are basically geminis especially made for pisces imo. js

Posted by Tornadoday16
What do y'all think? Lately I have really been wanting to kill myself over lack of connection with a Gemini. Right now I am Pisces drunk. Why can't Gemini and Pisces work?

trust me brotha you dont want a gemini their very shallow in love. Very moody and bipolar. Its too much for your in depth emotional perspective. If you want that gemini treat her like garbage thats the way to any difficult signs heart. 😉

She will never like you until you start playing with her head if you can do that you will appear more intellectual. my gemini is a dick because he has leo rising.

^ lol
I guess I would accept that

dese aries though

Posted by duchessedenemours
Yet you beat up animals when you are pissed at your bf.... so you are the expert on love.

What is this about?

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Posted by duchessedenemours
Yet you beat up animals when you are pissed at your bf.... so you are the expert on love.

What is this about?

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I am guessing it has to do with one of chachacha's crazy girl posts ? lol

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Posted by duchessedenemours
Yet you beat up animals when you are pissed at your bf.... so you are the expert on love.

What is this about?

I am guessing it has to do with one of chachacha's crazy girl posts ? lol

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Im a little concerned about it cause I have a big problem with it unless its some kind of metaphorical statement.

Seriously what is this beating animals bullshit. I mean seriously?

I need to know about this, too.

Posted by duchessedenemours
Yet you beat up animals when you are pissed at your bf.... so you are the expert on love.

yet you give false information. How can you retain information from my experience? I don't recall using those words you fvcktard :O oh look a new word to add to your asshole dictionary

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Posted by duchessedenemours
Yet you beat up animals when you are pissed at your bf.... so you are the expert on love.

Also getting the police called on her.

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So i also work for the police so that didnt and doesnt hurt me. As long as i am not a snitch im good

Whats the matter you think you're better than me? Cuz you got both your nuts?

Posted by pisceanpisces
We are too deep for a gemini.

lol...is that why pisces are associated with drugs and delusions....😉

Posted by gemeliorist

Posted by pisceanpisces
We are too deep for a gemini.

lol...is that why pisces are associated with drugs and delusions....😉

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I know some geminis associated with drugs and delusions 😉

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Posted by pisceanpisces
We are too deep for a gemini.

lol...is that why pisces are associated with drugs and delusions....😉

lol back.. no, a gemini woman told me today that I am thinking too deep and advised me not to do that. We have to be careful about our feelings - gets too overwhelming. But we do not like that if it is negative. Not good for us.

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Uhm....Yeah....and who isn't careful of their feelings? Everyone's defence mechanism manifests differently. Why is it alright to dump your "feelings" on someone's doorstep just cause it's your way, yet you aren't accepting of their way.....again, yeah 😉

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Posted by pisceanpisces
We are too deep for a gemini.

lol...is that why pisces are associated with drugs and delusions....😉

I know some geminis associated with drugs and delusions 😉

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WOW...so it's not just about sun signs....after all....hmmm. I guess that could apply to other things as well.... smh.....brilliant🙂

Posted by pisceanpisces
and Pisces can see through gemini's tricks...

Now, you're over thinking things lady....Paranoiahhhh.... (eye roll)...don't let this gem guy get to you, seriously 🙂 A gem's playfulness is more about making everyone comfortable and showing you acceptance for the most part. Reinforcing that there is always a silver lining in each cloud. Others deal with things in different ways and it doesn't mean that one if better or worse than the other, although another's method might be appreciated more than the other at times. IMO

Unless a gem is really messed up and anyone regardless of their sign and placements can have issues...seriously, a gem's mo is usually not about harming.

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Posted by pisceanpisces
and Pisces can see through gemini's tricks...

Lol this is exactly why I'm guessing someone said don't think so deeply.

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Aren't we showing our bias...until.....you can go and cheer them on elsewhere, thanks for coming out....

It's interesting that you should say that, because one of the biggest gripes I had with my Pisces lover was that he was always reading into everything. I could make the most simple statement, and he would go on a mission to twist things around to extract a deeper meaning. I think that sort of thinking can be extremely useful, but in day-to-day, ordinary, conversation it can get maddening! LOL. I would be very interested to know if the Pisces guy had been thinking the same thing about me at the time. We definitely didn't communicate in the same way at all.

Posted by Tornadoday16
What do y'all think? Lately I have really been wanting to kill myself over lack of connection with a Gemini. Right now I am Pisces drunk. Why can't Gemini and Pisces work?

Never mind, Tomado. Enjoy the challenge for a few more days and move on to a Libra!

I've been actually dating a Gem for the past three months and it's going on well. He even initiated the relationship talk a few weeks ago.

He's very intelligent and articulate, and has a few hobbies to protect him from becoming clingy. We both know interesting things that the other one doesn't, so we could learn from each other. What's not to like by a Pisces?

Do we connect emotionally? I think so. I find cool men fascinating. He uses the tone of his voice to "manipulate" me emotionally, lol. Not really manipulate, but something vibrates (resonates) in my soul when he says things in a certain way (it could be due to his Cancer Mercury, though).

I know a Gemini woman and Pisces man who are celebrating their 40th wedding anniversary this year. I don't know what other signs make up their charts, though.

They're both mutables, which means no one can make up their fucking mind. Sorry to say...not a good combo...but there may be other aspects...and I believe with enough love & respect, any combo can work. but you've got your work cut out for you here. Good luck. Go slow.

Posted by Este8
They're both mutables, which means no one can make up their fucking mind. Sorry to say...not a good combo...but there may be other aspects...and I believe with enough love & respect, any combo can work. but you've got your work cut out for you here. Good luck. Go slow.

I see mutable signs as flexible and adaptable, not indecisive. I'm triple mutable, thanks to Pisces sun and moon and Sag rising and could make my mind up. So does the Gem. In fact, his job is taking decisions affecting 300+ people 🙂.

Posted by Undine

Posted by Este8
They're both mutables, which means no one can make up their fucking mind. Sorry to say...not a good combo...but there may be other aspects...and I believe with enough love & respect, any combo can work. but you've got your work cut out for you here. Good luck. Go slow.

I see mutable signs as flexible and adaptable, not indecisive. I'm triple mutable, thanks to Pisces sun and moon and Sag rising and could make my mind up. So does the Gem. In fact, his job is taking decisions affecting 300+ people 🙂.

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Hi Undine, Oh yes, I agree that mutables are flexible & adaptable but indecisiveness can be their shadow. Mutables will know how to go with the flow and have that in common. But I do think this is a challenging combo b/c of the air vs water dynamics. If one were fixed or cardinal, I think it might have a better chance. Then again, I really do believe all is possible with (the right) love, regardless of sign. Astrology can just give you potential insights into how that energy is playing out. The "can't make up their fucking mind" is me just trying to funny about it.

I'm sorry to say it Gemini and Pisces not the best match. I wish you the best of luck. Gemini man best match Virgo, Gemini girl, best match either Libra, Aries or sags.

Posted by Whimsy
It's interesting that you should say that, because one of the biggest gripes I had with my Pisces lover was that he was always reading into everything. I could make the most simple statement, and he would go on a mission to twist things around to extract a deeper meaning. I think that sort of thinking can be extremely useful, but in day-to-day, ordinary, conversation it can get maddening! LOL. I would be very interested to know if the Pisces guy had been thinking the same thing about me at the time. We definitely didn't communicate in the same way at all.

ughh. Its so annoying when pisces do this.
I am slowly seeing the deterioration of us, sadly enough.
The Pisces and Gemini mind is lacking in compatibility. So much so, it makes this entire experience depressing and unfufilling.
Female pisces are easier for me to like.
With my Pisces, I start talking about something that would be random, lighthearted and fun with anyone else.. but unfortunately everything has deeper meaning to pisces and therefore it is vital that it be taken to a dark place. legitimately, the worlds most annoying pessimist.... A dark, unnessessary place. Pisces always read into whats being said or done too much and turn a good thing into a bad thing. Legitimately cannot eat a bagel in the morning because that in turn means that i did not think about him enough to make him something ...and he "doesnt eat shit" so.... lol. Good to know that I will be spending my life constantly being questioned about things I do, things I dont mean to do ( but still have to go through the bullying nature, atleast thats how I see it, of the pisces mind ), or anything I say about anything.
I am a generalizer. sorry. and I do not have time to analyze and break apart everything I say or do all through-out the dayand I sure as shit do not want someone else to do that for me all the while making me feel like a worthless piece of shit.
In my mind, sometimes things dont need to be broken down to understand how someone is feeling.
Im not sure if this is every pisces man but, mine is really hard on himself when he makes a mistake. He gets so mad if someone points out his mistake because he is already so hard on himself. However, when it comes to me, he is harder on me than himself. constantly with the jabs... followed by the immediate dismissal of any words I am saying because he "knows what im going to

... followed by the immediate dismissal of any words I am saying because he "knows what im going to say" which he almost certainly never does.
Now I know that he would respond to everything I said. He would have a response for every last word. thats just how pisces guys are. they are incapable of taking things at face value. I realize that the details do matter sometimes, but PICKING your battles is something he is incapable of. Sometimes, it is better to go the more understanding route and realize this is not worth the hurt.
dont get me wrong, he does have good qualities... but jesus....
talk about two minds that are alien to each other.
communication sucks.. and girls .. forewarning: If you are going to date a pisces.. prepare for the most confusing and frustrating arguments. My pisces and I start talking about something, pretty soon about something else, arguing about the something else, followed by the pisces always needing to be right.

UGH. Happy friggen valentines day.

Geminems, are you dating my ex? 🙂

Posted by Whimsy
Geminems, are you dating my ex? 🙂

lmao.
ugh.

Posted by ShyCapLady
Ok! Brief advice!

You = Cancer Rising
That Girl = Libra Rising
Too different bodies = different minds.

Sounds like a very destructive relationship for me.

Maybe she is like a challenge for you, and that might be a turn on. You have to be man enough to stay away from her. Believe me, you will hurt her.

Air signs don't have deep feelings.
They are idealistic people.
If you hug her with all your love/feelings, she will feel asphyxia.

As I said, be man enough, she's not meant for you.

LMAO!! ^^^ "Air signs don't have deep feelings!! HILARIOUS!!!

Posted by Tavrine
Is there any Gemini with earth/water sign to have an capable relationship of pisces/water sign? (Or earthsun/moonwater?)

I would love to know. 🙂

I do better with water signs, I can't connect on the deeper subconscious level with the other Air signs. I have a dominate water and earth chart.

Posted by Tornadoday16
What do y'all think? Lately I have really been wanting to kill myself over lack of connection with a Gemini. Right now I am Pisces drunk. Why can't Gemini and Pisces work?

Dude, STOP.

Just STOP........

As a Veteran of the zodiac dating scene (dated all 12 signs and even several of each sign), there is no way in hell that a Pisces-Gemini relationship will ever go ANYWHERE long term.

There might be a few booty calls or whatnot here and there, but there is absolutely NO STABILITY in such a match.

You need to consider water signs (Cancer and Scorpio), since you seem to have some great emotional depth to yourself.