Gemini confesses he is crazy inlove but...

I posted here last yr. Met this gemini guy in my travels,we clicked and I'm a leo girl. We never lost communication,he always initiates it. When we saw eaxh other again in bkk after 3months, I then confessed I like him and he said he really liked me too but doesn't want tk commit and he wants to do a lot of things. That was tragic but understandable,,so I moved on. Then fast forward to June 2016 he suddenly confessed that he is crazy inlove with me and misses me so bad. We talked for two hrs,he is in the states and I'm in singapore. Two hours of confessions full of emotions. He then said the 'iloveyou' phrase. It was ok for a couple of days then after he disappeared. I didn't txt him as always,then he txted after a month then it was a different air. He said he need to have a talk therapy with a professional so he can have an unbiased insight as to who he wants to be his partner in life..I was like,you just confessed your inlove with me,why like this suddenly? 😢 gemini what's up with the emotional rollercoaster? U don't want to get hurt but u end up hurting people 😢

@explicit thanks for your reply. He is really annoying. I already moved on when he said he wasn't ready last year...then after a year he confesses he loves me?? For what? To drag me to his sinkhole of confusion 😢( true that. I think he doesn't know what he wants. Exactly,the therapy and disappearance *sigh* true again,he contacts me when he doesn't hear from me..I did ignore him last yr but then he really searched for me and contacted me on skype 😢 I didn't even commit to him..he lives in the states and I'm in singapore...but Idk why he drags me all the time..

@explicit you sound like you've dealt with loads of geminis. I didn't give in because I already confessed that I like him since last yr,he wasn't ready so i moved on. But it is really true when you said he doesn't know what he wants,he really does. He even said that he doesn't want to live a lonely life but is too scared to let anyone in coz he's afraid of getting hurt. But you are so spot on! Here today gone tomorrow is his jam. As a leo, I just feel bad if I block him..I think he doesn't even know he is hurting me...what do u think will happen or what would he think if I block him?

@explicit yeah,I'm like that. I always think of how the other person might feel before I consider how I feel. But you are right, he shouldn't be confused if he's really inlove. And yeah,he's taking a toll on me 😢 I also can't see him changing soon, we were supposed to meet up once I go to the states in october,but with this happening..I don't think I want to meetup with him anymore. I'm tired really of being dragged from his confused sinkhole.

I am very much tempted to copy paste on what you said,haha and just txt it to him,but he is traveling to belgium now and I'm in asia 😢 it's like I just want to disappear from him like what I did last year.

The other day I was sad and posted something on fb,he instantly whatsapp me,but I ignored him and he messaged me again the day after and I still ignored him.

That is what I am scared of,this cycle he is doing. I just want to disappear but I don't want to block him, I just want him to feel what he is making me feel.

Thank you for your straight forward advice, I really need these frank insights. I did stop communicating to him but he just won't stop,he finds his ways which idk why..I wish I was strong as you

@explicit yeah,that's always my question-get in contact for what?! Always the "for what?!" question. Exactly my point,why did he say he's inlove with me during the time I already moved on?! And now he wants therapy? But this week he is going to Belgium to tomorrowland which he didn't tell me and he already went there last year..

Yeah I think he just needs the feeling of being wanted..but why me? I am miles away from him. do you think he is insecure?

Wow! How did you drop them? Was it easy?

I am seeing other people, I just don't like him popping in and out. After last year, I decided to talk to him as a friend,it just became complicated coz of his confession. Ugh! I hate him.

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@explicit yeah,that's always my question-get in contact for what?! Always the "for what?!" question. Exactly my point,why did he say he's inlove with me during the time I already moved on?! And now he wants therapy? But this week he is going to Belgium to tomorrowland which he didn't tell me and he already went there last year..

Yeah I think he just needs the feeling of being wanted..but why me? I am miles away from him. do you think he is insecure?

Wow! How did you drop them? Was it easy?

I am seeing other people, I just don't like him popping in and out. After last year, I decided to talk to him as a friend,it just became complicated coz of his confession. Ugh! I hate him.

I've kinda been through this with a Gem before. I think the simple answer is they just like knowing you still like them, it's almost like you are part of their collection they have and they like knowing you still like them on some level. Geminis thrive on being liked by others, and they like options. Not all Gems but a lot Gem guys like this :/

@LonerLoop haha thanks. I am already ignoring his txts and will start from there. This cycle has to stop already, yeah I think he doesn't know what love is. Such a selfish person he is

@Moonbutter thanks for your reply,but I don't want and ofcourse nobody wants to be an option. And Geminilikes the thought of knowing you still like them sounds very childish,then again,they are a kid-always a kid. *sigh*

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@Moonbutter thanks for your reply,but I don't want and ofcourse nobody wants to be an option. And Geminilikes the thought of knowing you still like them sounds very childish,then again,they are a kid-always a kid. *sigh*

Yes, that's why you are making the right choice of moving on. Find the man who can't live life without you, or better yet let him find you. He's out there.

Ask him if you make him happy and see what he says lol... But there you go that will be all u need to know that some I'm in love with you crazy shit. You want to be with a guy who feels happiness with you or someone just says they in lone with you? Which u think will prove in actions... What do people do when they are happier? They show it and they want to make you happy.

@Moonbutter yeah,spot on!! Thank you for your insights everyone. I think I'll be moving on for good,even as friends I don't think I can be friends with him after all this but I cannot block him. I'll just disappear and ignore him totally. I just feel sad for him,why is he like this..like he doesn't have any direction for his life. It is always "a new chapter" everytime,yet he is scared and maybe full of isecurities like @explicit said..

It just sickens me why certain people exist. Says something inspite of how good you've treated them and they're just being selfish. I was always there as a friend for him and then he does this love thing just to toy with me, 😢 hope karma hits him hard

@jjpinki hi,sorry for the late response but I think you are right as well. Sorry for what happened to you and your gemini.

Mine still updates me eventhough I haven't replied to him in weeks already. I just ignore his messages. I don't think they are really aware of the emotions thwy are giving out to people 😢