Gemini DON'Ts

Let me go ahead & say this...I DO NOT expect for everyone (whether you're a Gemini yourself or know alot of Geminis) to agree with me. This is my personal opinion from an Aquarian point of view about the Gemini I've personally observed. I'm in NO way labeling all Geminis or saying that how I feel about this topic will be the same way others feel or the same thing others have observed. But, I am doing what this site allows me to do & that's to state my opinion

DON'T:
-Tell your Gemini to stop flirting. Gemini is a natural social butterfly, and won't understand why you want to repress their instinct. A Gem can flirt with others & still be entirely commited to their partner at the same time.

-Be a bad conversationalist or a bad audience. Gemini becomes bored easily, and may not want to save the conversation for another time. Geminis priority is to entertain others & expect for their partners to constantly entertain them as well.

-Question everything that's going on in your Gemini's mind. They will not appreciate an intrusion into their complex and convoluted thought process. Gems don't feel the need to tell you every single detail of their day & even though they are open books, still expect privacy to an extent

-Tie down or hold back a Gemini- they will quickly slip through your fingers. Gems will do what they want to do. And a demanding partner will not change their mind. In fact, it will annoy them. If a Gem is faithful to you, it's not b/c you begged them to, but instead b/c THEY personally made the decision to.

-Turned off when the relationship/friendship lacks in newness & variety (the same greetings, same conversation topics, going to the same places, seeing the same friends, playing the same games--tends to bore them to the point of actually getting on their nerves). Eventually a Gem will realize that they can't be satisfied to the fullest extent, but they expect for their interest to still keep afloat, especially in the beginning. They need to see a reason to continue on with you through tomorrow.

-Always change topics.Gems won't mind a change of topic, but if the conversation is still about that same topic 2 hours later, they will detach themselves from the conversation.

-Keep repeating yourself. Sometimes others assume that their Gem. is not listening to them b/c they can multi-task. But repeating yourself over & over again will actually reverse the effect; your Gem. heard you the FIRST time, but once you begin to repeat yourself, everything you say will start to go in one ear & out of the other

-Gemini hate listening to constant complaints. If you're complaints are valid, then they won't fault you for expressing them. But to keep constantly bringing up something they've already construed as "old news" will turn them off.

-Hate to be kept waiting. If you say you'll be there at 10:15, then please be there by 10: 15, not 10:20 or 30 minutes later. They take what they do with their time personally. If they managed to get somewhere on time (for once) they won't tolerate someone who doesn't think it's important enough to be on time.

1.- TRUE, I HAVE to flirt...but your right i can still stay true to my leo but still flirt, and he knows...(btw...he's a flirt too!! MAJOR flirt he's a double leo)
2. TRUE, yep...if I cant have good conversations with you, you're out..I HATE it whe I ask someone ''hey whats up how u been'' and they tell their story but FORGET ASKING HOW I BEEN..ughhh such ego!!!!
3.OMG YES...I need a certain privacy, but I do appreciate it when my man sees im upset and he asks me whats on my mind.... but it depends on my mood, if someone keep interviewing me it bugs the hell outta me.
4.absolutely true...i need freedom PLEASE and I'll give you so much mroe in return, please dont call me 24/7 or even in a relationship i dont need to see my man EVERYDAY ughh..
5.TRUE TRUE TRUE TRUE TRUE!!!! this is SOOO crazy... like I enjoy being with my leo... but when I go home I feel like...hmmm we actually flirted AGAIN...in the same way...u told me the same stuff AGAIN boring....and than it takes a day to realize it was fun(this only happends when im really into the guy) or else I'll move on...but thats crazy u erally know gems!!
6.absolutely true but 2 hrs is too long lol 30 to 45 mins is enough..unless its complaining dont complain longer than 8 mins ugh...
7.yes I HATEEEEEEEEEEEE THIS!!!
8.so true...
9. absolutely true...I do come late often hahaha but if the person I met up with keeps me waiting for like 10 mins I get soooooo mad even 5 mins i jjust dont like waiting...

and gemini sister I get bored easily too lol im a double gem... im soooo gemini lol

wow! i agree too lol.

I have a Gemini Rising and I can say that most of this is true of me:

1. I am a social butterfly....I love meeting new people, talking to all sorts of people and parties. I want to know everything! I am a chatterbox, so please don't tell me to stop. In a relationship....I am faithful, but please don't tell me to stop "flirting"

2. I LOVE a good conversation. If I am talking to you and you are not paying attention, I usually do not repeat myself. Ill just shrug it off and smile. And I dislike it when people do not have anything to say in return. If I wanted to talk to a wall, I would.

3. People try to do this to me all the time. Seriously, back off. I am a thinker and analyzer. If I am quiet its usually because I am thinking.....so leave me alone and please do not invade. Ill share when Im ready.

4. I HATE being tied down. I am extremely restless by nature. I am always on the go, always doing something. Im a Gem rising, Aries moon and Aqua midheaven.....good luck trying to get me to sit still and shut-up! If you try and restrict me in anyway....I usually rebel and (thats the aqua in me) and find something else to occupy my brain. In a relationship, I am the same way, so please be patient and dont fret, if I am with you its because I CHOSE YOU and I won't stray.

5. Yes, I get very bored, very easily (Gem rising, Aries moon and Aqua midheaven) A partner must be able to keep my interest or else.....see ya! I don't need to be around my man ALL the time.....GOOD GRIEF. Suprisingly though, Aquas are the only ones that can actually get me to relax. I need for my man to have a life of his own. When we finally are alone together.....Im all yours!

6. True. I jump from topic to topic and can usually go back to the original topic at hand w/o missing a beat and I say random things all the time. If the conversation is the same over and over, ill listen w/o judging and be empathetic (aqua) but after a certian amount of time....keep in moving please (aqua, gem)

7. OMFG I HATE when people do this. I heard you the first friggin time.....it may seem like Im not paying attention, but you can bet your boobies, I HEARD you. I am perfectly capable of multitasking. Usually when people do this, Ill ignore them or rebel and do the opposite

8. Hate to be kept waiting--not really for me. If you tell me you are going to meet me at a specific time and place and you wont be there on time, at least have the courtsey to call me and t

totally agree =) although i don'r mind people being late..

and wanted to add one :

don't dissapoint a gemini , we'll get over it ,won't stop being afriend but we'll never really forget it, and every next similar situation we won't count on you 100%

About 90% of this is true for me.
I didn't realise how much of an affect my gemini influences had

Isn't crazy how we all assume we know these things about ourselves already but yet when we read it, we are so amazed at how even more true it is!?!

"I HATE being tied down. I am extremely restless by nature. I am always on the go, always doing something. Im a Gem rising, Aries moon and Aqua midheaven.....good luck trying to get me to sit still and shut-up! If you try and restrict me in anyway....I usually rebel and (thats the aqua in me) and find something else to occupy my brain. In a relationship, I am the same way, so please be patient and dont fret, if I am with you its because I CHOSE YOU and I won't stray."

I can relate as an Aqua to that! I can still love you twice as hard & not have to see you 24-7. I can flirt with others & (and know in the back of my mind that the person I'm flirting with couldn't even compare to my man) & still not stray. I try to make my partner understand that I didn't get into a relationship just to cheat & do all of the things single people do. I'm with you b/c I chose you! If I have to say "I love you" every 5 minutes or keep my head down when we're around others just to assure you that I'm faithful, then the relationship won't work out EVER! But then again, from a partner's point of view, how are they supposed to know that we're flirting with no ill intentions? What good is it if WE are the only ones who know we won't stray if our partners don't know that for sure? I guess it makes sense from both points of view

Isn't it crazy how the flirters in society (Gems, Libras, Scorps) think flirting is something done with no harm but yet when we see our partners doing the same "no harm" flirting, we are so quick to say "Oh no he didn't!" or assume that our partners are doing it to make us mad? There's def. a double standard there.

One of my male Gem. friends told me that he doesn't feel guilty for cheating on his girlfriend. Of course SHE doesn't know he's cheating. But in his mind, since he has no plans on leaving her & since he comes home to her every night, he believes she oughta see herself as lucky & shouldn't be worried. But yet, he told her from the beginning if he ever even had the suspicion that he was getting cheated on or backstabbed, he'd leave in a heartbeat with no second chances. Now if that's not a double standard!

Isn't it crazy how the flirters in society (Gems, Libras, Scorps) think flirting is something done with no harm but yet when we see our partners doing the same "no harm" flirting, we are so quick to say "Oh no he didn't!" or assume that our partners are doing it to make us mad? There's def. a double standard there.

I agree a 100% , so wait, Gems AND scorps are flirts?? I'm a gemini but my moon is in scorpio, I assume thats why I'm such a flirt LOL, and I defintely look at it as harmless...


ALTHOUGH...I guess Gemini makes me the flirt that I am though, I read somewhere that Gemini is the biggest flirt sign of the zodiac LOL.
But yeah if I catch him flirting with someone else in front of me, I'd get angry for real...

A strange thing is,

that whenever my man would cheat sexualy, I would be less upset than if he would tell his exgirlfriend or a hot chick, I MISS YOU or I LOVE YOU, or had deep conversations with her for hrs...

I guess its because Gemini's fall in love with a mens MIND?
I would still be upset if he had sex though but I wouldn't break up with him, and be mad at hims for days, I would break up when he tells other girls he misses them and or loves them...

can anyone identify with this?