Gemini male Pisces female

I need some insight on this couple. I tried asking about the moons but thought I might as well ask about the people. Is it normal to be on/off alot? Is it possible for a Gemini man to be off, and still love from a distance? How do Geminis express their love? It seems like almost no matter what even when their at their happiest they still need more than one girl.

Hey Pretty, I cannot comment on what most gem guys are like but only the ones I have known, and they are all very different lol!!

My brother is married to a pisces woman. They've been together for 11 years, and he is an extremely honest and loyal person. He's transparent...Nothing to hide, no game-playing - just a genuinely good guy. We were very well raised though and I think that has a lot to do with it.

Then there's the other gem males I've known...The liars, game-players, manipulators, hot one minute cold the next types. Happy to have multiple women on the go etc.

Some common ground i've noticed with gem guys regardless of whether they're the good ones or the not-so-nice ones, is that they are not clingy in love. They are not like a scorpio. There's always a certain sense of distance there no matter how much he (gem) loves his woman. BUT, if you're the one he wants he won't be flaky with you.

I was married to a Gemini.


There was definitely attraction, desire, obsession ... oh, yes, the connection was intense.

However, as we began to settle down into our lives after marriage, reality hit us ... it isn't all about lust/desire ... and once we got to know each other (really know each other) ... I couldn't stand him, and I'm sure he felt the same way.

Gemini, both genders, have two traits that I cannot roll with for a prolonged period of time.

1. Thier inability to control their expression of emotions. They feel everything to it's very extreme, and it appears as though they are helpless to control the expression of these feelings, so they justify it by exalting them. If we were only talking about love, endearment, compassion, etc. then that wouldn't seem so bad ... but, all of their negative emotions are also expressed exaltingly, without any control or filters.

I simply cannot tolerate that.

2. The unbalance between the twins. One is about the self, and believes the self to be free-spirited with awesome positive energy about the self .. the other is absolutely domineering and controlling about any/every thing else.

I cannot tolerate being around a person for very long who allows themselves to freedom, while attempting to chain the other = double standards.



So, there you have it .. that is if you still want to know since it was a couple weeks ago that you asked. Once those two things became apparant after the honeymoon was over .. I was appalled to be betrothed to a person who is that unaware.

That brings up another thing, and not just Gemini's .. alot of people, actually.


People tend to think it's up to the OTHER person to provide the highs and lows in life.

If you're boring the Gemini (example) ... then you're finished.
If you're intriguing the Gemini ... then you're accepted.

And this leaves all accountibility on the other person to fail for you, or succeed for you .. if it doesn't work out, you can always blame the other person = they bored me.

How easy it is to blame the other, isn't it? That way, we don't have to face anything we don't want to, do we?


And it appears to be so for just about everything .... if you claim to love a person, you are actually identifying for this label of love on what this other person does FOR you.

Humans are selfish muther fukers, in reality.

P-Angel is right, i do feel to the extreme and have a hard time controlling it. also the freedom vs. controlling double standard is there as well. these are things that i work on constantly and still have yet to master (and might never will.).

she's also right about the boring example. my man is extremely repetitious and boring, but, i'm not leaving him cuz he is. i still love him, regardless.

about my pisces experience... male pisces and female gem. we were together on and off for 6 years. it's like P-Angel said,

"reality hit us ... it isn't all about lust/desire ... and once we got to know each other (really know each other) ... I couldn't stand him, and I'm sure he felt the same way."

he couldn't stand my incessant talking and i couldn't stand his constant quietness.

Thank you all for the advice and suggestions. This is actually a complicated cause he's a Scorpio sun, Gemini moon Leo rising. I'm a Cancer sun Pisces moon and Gemini rising. It's over with but I was just wondering why he acted the way he did. Seems like we had years of fun and love and like he's transformed into a new person trying to start over. I have evolved and changed but not a 360 and not for the worst.. I think no matter what its inevitable that you will become boring to a Gem after being together for a long period of time. I know its an odd match but I still felt a connection and spark I couldn't grasp with anyone else. I think this match has potential and I wouldn't tell anyone not to do it. But I just feel like once the challenge wears off after some years the trust is built, and your officially in a relationship its steady they still feel the need to have more of something. Relationship & commitment doesn't mean freedom is gone or you're locked down but I think they see it that way for some reason. Well I'll leave it at that. I won't say I'll never mess with a Gemini moon or placement again, just hope the next if there is has more dominant water placements and earth. I think our sun signs helped us stay as long as we did.

Well I was told the moon signs count the most though sun signs also reflect a lot. Why am I such a cancer and not pisces?