Gemini man and honesty..

Hi guys!
So in september I met this gemini guy (pisces moon, gemini mercury, leo mars and jupiter, cancer venus, aquarius saturn, capricorn uranus and neptune, scorpio pluto, virgo rising) I'm capricorn girl (scorpio moon, capricorn mercury, mars and venus, scorpio jupiter, saturn, uranus, neptune and pluto i have the same as him and i have cancer rising). And before you say how capricorn and gemini can't work out hear me out please.. i'm not here for that i believe that when you want that anything can work. This post is more about communication style than anything else... well when i met him i fell for him right there the moment i saw him he looked at me and smiled and i thought "wow who is this person"? Since my whole world literally stopped. Well he was my tattoo artist so I never believed we'd be involved more than profesionally. However since then i couldn't stop thinking about him and eventually he messaged me himself and we decided to go out for dinner. And it was beautiful! I always felt this sizzle between us but that night it got even stronger. We talked so much about anything that came to our minds, i don't think i'll ever forget the feeling i had when i was in his company since it felt like being in our little secret world... i felt such a strong connection to him and the smiles and looks he was giving me so intense! Well what i can say is the attraction, chemistry, connection, affection was something so powerful it left me feeling crazy in love. And it was mutual i know what i feel, what i saw and i have great ability to sense feelings and moods in other people. So i know he felt the same that is not my problem. What is our problem is the communication style when it comes to importand and practical things. Well in the end we are quite different beings... i get it gemini's way of thinking is much more complex than capricorn's. We capricorns tend to be quite straightforward about anything in life to be honest. And i guess geminis get pulled in so many different directions (even contrary ones) that they have trouble speaking about their real motives, feelings and thoughts am i right? I know i'm the kind of person who can perfectly speak their minds and be honest but when it comes to him i'm so confused! He sends so many mixed signals and it drives me crazy. Back to the story.... we had beautiful date and i knew i wanna see him again he agreed to that and we kept messaging (not every day we both need our space) but often enough. He had some health problems so i thought we're gonna simply see each other again when he's alright since he kept messaging me, asking me how my day was and normal stuff like that nothing tok crazy. I don't wanna discuss important things through messages anyway.

But at the beginning of december he suddenly stopped disappeared without saying anything without explaining what happened so of course it left me feeling left out and well i was super confused. We didn't have any argument nothing! So i wanted to find out.... but it seemed like he was already gone so i told myself give it up it's not worth your time. Whatever reason he had it was his decision and you can't change it that was at the end of year i think i simply decided to cut off all contact with him i was tired of trying understand something i had no answers to... well still i couldn't stop thinking about him even though i was hurt, angry and dissapointed that i lost something so beautiful! So i needed time to think
.. i kept living my life but he was there in my mind every fucking day so i bought detailed relationship horoscope and it hit me! I understand it now.... the thing with us is that we inspire such good and powerfull feelings in each other and we have so much fun together, we have great chemistry and affection and love for each other and we made high expectations and ilusions about ourselves since we felt so good when we were together that we didn't realize it could be our downfall. The horoscope literally said we have tendency to sweep our problems under carpet and we have trouble with practical commumication and honesty since we are so different! And that if we don't work that out we will let one another down and ironacally that is the last thing we would want for each other! But we did it... we disappointed each other... well this is super complicated but i had feeling i should try messaging him few days ago so i did and it seems he's still thinking about me and that he didn't forget about me. However i know he has some problems and we both need to learn how to be honest with each other without hurting each other since we are so different... i know that if i had to see him i wouldn't be able to keep my mind straight since the feelings would be craazy. What is the best way to make him see i care about him and that i don't wanna hurt him... ? i know i should be just honest with him but i don't wanna scare him since that is the main reason for his disappearing... he doesn't know how to stand up to my expectations and he doesn't wanna hurt me. But i miss him, i don't wanna lose him and i just wanna see that smile directed at me once again. I wanna work this communication shit out. Since that is the only problem we have but hell its important! Could someone please advice what is the best way to talk about important stuff with gemini? If anyone was too confused by my babbling i'm sorry.

And just to throw it out there tne fact that i wanna try and save whatever it is between us doesn't mean i'm insecure or unhappy i'm not! I can be happy without him i just care about him because deep down i know he's good person and he cares about me too we are just stupid....

Posted by FyzaGems
This is hard. I always felt that Caps are pessimist people and it's hard to have any discussions because they will never see my points and I don't want to waste my energy so normally I'll just shut up. I don't want to hurt them both with my words either so just imagine how difficult I feel when there's issues arises within the family. My mom and my brother in law, both being Caps, have similar traits but maybe it's just me, I have no idea.

I guess for your questions, I leave it to the Gem males to give you some answers. In the meantime, think positive and don't make things hard for yourself.

Have a good day, OP. 🙂

Thank you! We don't have problem talking to each other on the contrary i think we enjoy a lot topics xD but our feelings for each other are so intense that we are afraid of hurting each other... i think he sensed that and he didn't know what to do so he dissappeared.. right now we're not capable to say what is truly on our minds, i know i love him and i just want him to be happy no matter what but i can't say it to him.. i know he has feelings for me that he thinks about me but at the same time he's confused about something and last thing he wants is to hurt me and he doesn't know what to say. I think he might be even scared of my criticism is that a thing? One thing is sure if we run into each other irl we will forget about these problems and try to avoid them just to enjoy feelings we spark in each other and that is dangerous! I hope i'm able to say things right... it's confusing even for me...

Posted by FyzaGems
Oh and you have to understand, Gemini is all about communication. The moment we knew that we will get into trouble when we communicate with you, we will avoid going there by all means.

We never argued... it was more banter type of thing but it was actually about serious things... like we made fun of it but i'd say inside we were angry both of us xDD for example he said he wants to see me again and we started to plan it out and he suddenly started saying such a strange things like "i don't want it to be like last time" and i was like "it was that bad?" In joking kind of way and he said "no i meant i don't want to be out till 4 am" and in my mind i was screaming whaaat xD then he has fallen ill so we had to postpone then he hurt his foot quite badly that's why i said he had health problems... and i teased him that it all happened in "right time" and he became deadly serious and even called himself idiot for doing stupid things.... i teased him because i was wary of his "excuses" but in the end i found out it was all truth... i think he's scared of me xD he realizes i have high standarts and i'm real woman (he's older than me though) and probably is scared i'd be able to hurt him... but i'm scared of him too... i wanna work it out i just don't know how xD i need to learn to be carefull with my words around him... and be honest about my feelings.

So no matter how much we feel attracted to each other or how much affection we have for each other if we don't stop bantering like little children and actually say what we have on our minds then we'll keep going in vicious circles.... urgh it's fucked up since all i wanna do is simply enjoy him he's amazing human being!

Posted by FyzaGems
I think I know what you mean and yes that's the exact issues I always feel I had with my mom and especially my bro in law. I have stopped talking to him that much because I feel irritated and I don't want to have any misuderstandings with him.

I guess maybe that's why he isolate himself. Idk if he has lost the feelings along the way. If it was me, and I have this situation, if u find me gone, it means I have lost the interest and already move on rather than keeps getting mad inside. It's kind of a turn off and u have to know when he says he don't want staying up late till 4am means he needs his space. He might really have hurt his foot and u add on by giving him some sarcastic remarks probably blew him off.

This is just my opinions. I might be right, I might be wrong. I don't want u to only rely on astrology as I believe in relationship, it takes both hands to clap in order to make things work.

Maybe u could try to send him just a simple text and see if he respond. It doesn't hurt to give that a try. If after trying that, it is still not working, I guess it's time to move on sweety.

I wish u well. 🙂

I tried it few days ago and he replied almost right back.. i think you're right! I'd need to talk to him about it and apologize for any smart remarks i might have... i think he might still have feelings for me and think about me but he doesn't know what to do so he'd rather move on... at least that's what my gut tells me, i might be wrong... Well maybe if i see him again we can try talk it out i just don't wanna do it through messages if you know what i mean... Thank you so much!

this dude disappears on you out of the blue? apparently your the only one who thought you had an "amazing connection". why you would entertain thoughts of this fool is beyond me, you must have 0 self esteem. that being said, you deserve whatever shit you have coming to you from this looser.

Posted by FyzaGems
This is hard. I always felt that Caps are pessimist people and it's hard to have any discussions because they will never see my points and I don't want to waste my energy so normally I'll just shut up. I don't want to hurt them both with my words either so just imagine how difficult I feel when there's issues arises within the family. My mom and my brother in law, both being Caps, have similar traits but maybe it's just me, I have no idea.

I guess for your questions, I leave it to the Gem males to give you some answers. In the meantime, think positive and don't make things hard for yourself.

Have a good day, OP. 🙂

gemini air heads need to stay in their little lane in the clouds. caps are too deep for you.

by the way, gem men are charming but they are also compulsive liars so ya

Another person pointing out people on their sun signs ffs. Aquas are deeper, js. If a Gemini can handle that, then they can handle a Capricorn.

Cliffnotes?

Posted by DMV
Cliffnotes?

lol

What you described is the life of a cap and gem. Oh, sure there is connection, there is fun, there is conversation there are a lot of good things. However, the core personalities are too different.

Caps are serious and realistic which equates to boring and pessimistic to a gemini.
Gems are inconsistent and free wheeling which equates to frivolous and irresponsible to a cap.

This combo takes a lot of work, and you probably won't ever completely understand each other. Resentment builds up gradually on each end.

I can go more into detail, but I wont.

Relationships should be easier.

You can make it work, but honestly, it's better with someone who is more suited for you.

Posted by KittenLaRouge
by the way, gem men are charming but they are also compulsive liars so ya

Things didn't work out with your gemini?

I agree! we are very different beings when it comes to style of communication on practical matters and common issues.... that's just the way we are, but i don't think it's something that cannot be worked out if both parts wanna work on it! And gemini can't be complex or deep human being? WTF?! i think they are deep! they just have different ways of showing it and i think geminis are actually much more sensitive than they show to most people! all geminis i have in my life are very kind people! my dad is gemini and he is very kind, very bad liar and yes we don't always agree on everything, we argue sometimes just because he has different view on something that is important to me, but that doesn't mean we can't have conversation on deep spiritual level.. it's about accepting that someone else can have different opinion and different kind of view on something! i guess it's best to ignore someone who doesn't have anything helpful or nice to say. it's soo easy to throw random insults and mean comments around without even trying to understand something.

Posted by truecap
What you described is the life of a cap and gem. Oh, sure there is connection, there is fun, there is conversation there are a lot of good things. However, the core personalities are too different.

Caps are serious and realistic which equates to boring and pessimistic to a gemini.
Gems are inconsistent and free wheeling which equates to frivolous and irresponsible to a cap.

This combo takes a lot of work, and you probably won't ever completely understand each other. Resentment builds up gradually on each end.

I can go more into detail, but I wont.

Relationships should be easier.

You can make it work, but honestly, it's better with someone who is more suited for you.

Amazing! I wouldn't say it better.... 🙂 it would be damn hard work but i still wanna try! and even if it doesn't work out i don't regret it

One fun fact to lighten the mood little bit 😄 i have twin sister and her soulmate is one of our best friends (we've known each other for 15 years) the sad thing is he's gay so they cannot be together... but you can see how much they love each other just by looking at them. he's gemini borned on same date as the gemini i like just few years later.. we didn't know that (me and my sister) but when i found out i told myself... are we cursed or what 😆D my cousin is borned on same date as well... it's just super weird! that is third gemini i know borned on that date lol xDDD

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Posted by truecap
What you described is the life of a cap and gem. Oh, sure there is connection, there is fun, there is conversation there are a lot of good things. However, the core personalities are too different.

Caps are serious and realistic which equates to boring and pessimistic to a gemini.
Gems are inconsistent and free wheeling which equates to frivolous and irresponsible to a cap.

This combo takes a lot of work, and you probably won't ever completely understand each other. Resentment builds up gradually on each end.

I can go more into detail, but I wont.

Relationships should be easier.

You can make it work, but honestly, it's better with someone who is more suited for you.

Amazing! I wouldn't say it better.... 🙂 it would be damn hard work but i still wanna try! and even if it doesn't work out i don't regret it

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Good luck.

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Posted by KittenLaRouge
by the way, gem men are charming but they are also compulsive liars so ya

Things didn't work out with your gemini?

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lol hell no. he was good in bed, that's it. he was a liar, a cheater, a pothead, just sat all day and got stoned, a filthy mess at home and he expected to snap his fingers and i would come running to bed. he would disappear for 2 to 3 days then want sex lol omg no no no

i miss the dick BUT that is ALL i miss. if i would not have cut it off with him. my self worth would have gone bye bye and i would be wallowing in the mud with him. no thanks

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Posted by Baru
One fun fact to lighten the mood little bit 😄 i have twin sister and her soulmate is one of our best friends (we've known each other for 15 years) the sad thing is he's gay so they cannot be together... but you can see how much they love each other just by looking at them. he's gemini borned on same date as the gemini i like just few years later.. we didn't know that (me and my sister) but when i found out i told myself... are we cursed or what 😆D my cousin is borned on same date as well... it's just super weird! that is third gemini i know borned on that date lol xDDD

That's really interesting! What is his birth date?

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Right it freaked me out little bit xD 5th of June 🙂

Posted by Baru

Well in the end we are quite different beings

That's actually false. You two are quite different beings at the beginning.

below is the reason why you are, have been clueless to it.

Posted by Baru

when i met him i fell for him right there the moment i saw him

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You emotionally attached at "hello" ... the rational adult actually gets to know another person before they become emotionally dependent upon this other person for approval.





Another thing, equally as important and also a result from you being dependent upon him approving of you for your emotional support ........ throughout this testimony, you used the word "we" to infer that both of you possess the same feelings.

The fact that his actions clearly represent that he does NOT feel the same way, does not regard what you had the same way + you have no clear awareness of this (aka ignorance) ......... clearly shows that you are deluded.

I mean, you must have said, "we" when you meant "me" at least 10 times.



Oh mighty Capricorn who claims to be so fucking real that she can handle any truth ...... the real truth is, you're not even aware of the truth.

the truth is ....... it's only YOU who feels the way you described, and that completely escapes your awareness.

the evidence to support that ^^^ is in his actions, in where he stepped aside from you.

You can pissed of at me if you want .... but, it's still the truth that you cannot see, nor care to see probably

Posted by Baru

he's gemini borned on same date as the gemini i like just few years later.. we didn't know that (me and my sister) but when i found out i told myself... are we cursed or what 😆D my cousin is borned on same date as well... it's just super weird! that is third gemini i know borned on that date lol xDDD

I am literally SHOCKED that you didn't say (founded)

@p-angel that's okay i'm not pissed you can have your opinion i don't mind...

Well imo everyone has their own "truth" since you cannot know other person (whoever it is) like you know yourself everyone has their own thoughts, dreams and visions it doesn't mean it's not true to them if you don't agree with it. So i don't agree in this part. I know what i felt, saw and experieneced and when i was experiencing it i wasn't dreaming... i was there unlike you... i interacted with him not you so you don't have any right to tell me if what i feel is right or not and i don't take it to heart either no offense. You take all of this from two sentences i wrote btw...

yes i don't deny i got emotionally attached to him when we met i wrote it there and i'm fully aware of it thanks for reminding, it wasn't quite neccesary 😉 this was my first time actually falling for someone like that it never happened to me before but i don't see it as a mistake either it just happened and you can call it delusonial or stupid or whatever is right for you.

I wrote "we" because yes we both felt something when we met and when we were together. I think it's quite impossible to not feel anything when you interact with people but okay....Maybe you are not capable of catching vibes from your surroundings or "read" other people by looking at them and how they phisically and mentally respond to you. I can do that and i don't see reason why i should doubt it. It always worked out for me in my life.

Yes you are right i cannot know how he truly feels or what he thinks unless he tells me himself. However from my experience when i had feeling someone liked me they usually did so again i just trust my gut that is all there is nothing complicated about that. I know there is chance it's actually not right. I never said i cannot be wrong xD

Just saying you cannot know how he feels about me. For example i distanced myself from him for 1 month does that mean i stopped liking him ...? Obviously not. You don't know what is going on until the other person tells you himself. And saying he doesn't have feelings for me and jumping to conclusion from reading my post and highlighting two sentences makes you ignorant not me. I was thinking about all options and all outcomes this can have a lot and i know much more about it than you do. Btw i'm not dependant of getting emotionoly approved by anyone not even him 😛 i don't need it i already said i'm fine wheter it works out or not since my happiness is not defined by that. But you didn't highlight that so you cannot know it 🙂 that's all i have to say.

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Posted by Baru

he's gemini borned on same date as the gemini i like just few years later.. we didn't know that (me and my sister) but when i found out i told myself... are we cursed or what 😆D my cousin is borned on same date as well... it's just super weird! that is third gemini i know borned on that date lol xDDD

I am literally SHOCKED that you didn't say (founded)

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Great job right there insulting other people just because you can how "smart" it just shows things about you not me. And i'm not shocked you did it quite predictable to be honest. I can see how tempting it is.

Posted by Baru

Great job right there insulting other people just because you can how "smart" it just shows things about you not me. And i'm not shocked you did it quite predictable to be honest. I can see how tempting it is.

In other words - you believe you used the word wrong, and I was pointing out to you that you should have said, "founded" ... because you really have no clue what I was jabbing at.

You really ARE that stupid.

lol

I just took it that English was her second language.

*shrugs*

Posted by truecap
I just took it that English was her second language.

*shrugs*

seriously?


so, she can speak very good English for 3 walls of 2500 character each texts ... but, then once she does this, then you make the assumption that English isn't her first language?


Are YOU that dumb, truecap?

Posted by Baru

We don't have problem talking to each other on the contrary i think we enjoy a lot topics

Show me the people in here who has English as a second language, who uses the phrase "on the contrary" in exact context to its meaning.

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Posted by truecap
I just took it that English was her second language.

*shrugs*

seriously?


so, she can speak very good English for 3 walls of 2500 character each texts ... but, then once she does this, then you make the assumption that English isn't her first language?


Are YOU that dumb, truecap?

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No, just giving the benefit of the doubt. The verbs are the hardest to get correct in a second language. That's usually the tip off.

Or it could be spell correct on a mobile device.

*shrugs*

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Posted by truecap
I just took it that English was her second language.

*shrugs*

seriously?


so, she can speak very good English for 3 walls of 2500 character each texts ... but, then once she does this, then you make the assumption that English isn't her first language?


Are YOU that dumb, truecap?

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No, just giving the benefit of the doubt. The verbs are the hardest to get correct in a second language. That's usually the tip off.

Or it could be spell correct on a mobile device.

*shrugs*

And further, she had no clue what I was saying to her ..... she actually thought I was correcting her.


That's not a person who has English as a second language .... that is an English speaking person who is a dummy



Furthermore, it's quite possible that this is very reason why the Gemini can't handle her, considering they'd rather be surrounded by intellectuals.

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Posted by Baru

We don't have problem talking to each other on the contrary i think we enjoy a lot topics

Show me the people in here who has English as a second language, who uses the phrase "on the contrary" in exact context to its meaning.

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You mean people who "have" instead of people who "has"? 😉

Posted by truecap

The verbs are the hardest to get correct in a second language.

Or it could be spell correct on a mobile device.

While all of the other verbs were correct.

And if it was an autocorrect issue on a mobile device, then she would have realized what I was saying to her.


No, this is just you grasping for straws trying to defend her, because she's a Cappy.

and you're failing quite miserably ... because we can all read, truecap

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Posted by Baru

We don't have problem talking to each other on the contrary i think we enjoy a lot topics

Show me the people in here who has English as a second language, who uses the phrase "on the contrary" in exact context to its meaning.

You mean people who "have" instead of people who "has"? 😉

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Yes, that is what I meant.

And notice that I am capable of realizing the error, instead remaining wrong.

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Posted by Baru

We don't have problem talking to each other on the contrary i think we enjoy a lot topics

Show me the people in here who has English as a second language, who uses the phrase "on the contrary" in exact context to its meaning.

You mean people who "have" instead of people who "has"? 😉

Yes, that is what I meant.

And notice that I am capable of realizing the error, instead remaining wrong.

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🙂


Hugs, P

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Posted by Baru

We don't have problem talking to each other on the contrary i think we enjoy a lot topics

Show me the people in here who has English as a second language, who uses the phrase "on the contrary" in exact context to its meaning.

You mean people who "have" instead of people who "has"? 😉

Yes, that is what I meant.

And notice that I am capable of realizing the error, instead remaining wrong.

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🙂


Hugs, P

she had no fucking clue ... even when pointed out to her.


Again ... being this kind of a dumbass is probably why the Gemini isn't really into her.



she is probably still reading it, trying to figure out what was incorrect.

Posted by P-Angel

she had no fucking clue ... even when pointed out to her.


Again ... being this kind of a dumbass is probably why the Gemini isn't really into her.



she is probably still reading it, trying to figure out what was incorrect.

lol!!!

Posted by Baru

... i get it gemini's way of thinking is much more complex than capricorn's.

No, it's not. The Gemini thinking process is not more complex than a Capricorn's thinking process.

You're just a dumbass.

What I see here is the OP pining away for somewho who is out living his life. It's a colossal waste of time and so many woman do it. I truly believe that if a man wants you, he will lock you down, and will never let u go. It's ok to honor the fact u have feelings for someone but if unrequited you have to keep it moving, life waits for no one.

In other words stop wasting your fucking time on some sort of unrequited puppy love and on a man who doesnt want u.

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Great job right there insulting other people just because you can how "smart" it just shows things about you not me. And i'm not shocked you did it quite predictable to be honest. I can see how tempting it is.

In other words - you believe you used the word wrong, and I was pointing out to you that you should have said, "founded" ... because you really have no clue what I was jabbing at.

You really ARE that stupid.

lol

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Really? just for your information English really is my second language my natal language is Czech and it's harder than English.... do you want me to start writing in czech then you can try understanding me! I'm so sorry for you being so bitter... my English is very good considering it's my second language and I've been only learning it for few years. I didn't believe I used the word wrong you didn't understand me. I was just pointing out, you just insult other people just because you can.... I don't really care what you think about me, you can say whatever you want.... for your age if it's your real age you should be wiser than that.... i've learned my lesson i won't waste my time with this stupidity.

Posted by Baru

I didn't believe I used the word wrong

lol, what a dumbass

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Posted by Baru

I didn't believe I used the word wrong

lol, what a dumbass

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There you go again that's all you are capable of. (calling me donkey) 😛 I feel sorry for you, I hope you'll find your peace one day....!

Most likely the Gemini just laughs at you, also ... they actually want to be surrounded by people who aren't idiots.

Here you are ... chasing after someone solely because you attached to him at, "hello" and cannot seem to find any integrity to realize that it's your clinginess, and blatant disregard for how he feels, and being a dumbass ... is why he's like, "no thank you"


But, you're oblivious to it ..... you're such a dumbass that you cannot even see what is right in front of your face.

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Great job right there insulting other people just because you can how "smart" it just shows things about you not me. And i'm not shocked you did it quite predictable to be honest. I can see how tempting it is.

In other words - you believe you used the word wrong, and I was pointing out to you that you should have said, "founded" ... because you really have no clue what I was jabbing at.

You really ARE that stupid.

lol

Really? just for your information English really is my second language my natal language is Czech and it's harder than English.... do you want me to start writing in czech then you can try understanding me! I'm so sorry for you being so bitter... my English is very good considering it's my second language and I've been only learning it for few years. I didn't believe I used the word wrong you didn't understand me. I was just pointing out, you just insult other people just because you can.... I don't really care what you think about me, you can say whatever you want.... for your age if it's your real age you should be wiser than that.... i've learned my lesson i won't waste my time with this stupidity.

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You do an excellent job writing in English.

Posted by P-Angel

Most likely the Gemini just laughs at you, also ... they actually want to be surrounded by people who aren't idiots.

Here you are ... chasing after someone solely because you attached to him at, "hello" and cannot seem to find any integrity to realize that it's your clinginess, and blatant disregard for how he feels, and being a dumbass ... is why he's like, "no thank you"


But, you're oblivious to it ..... you're such a dumbass that you cannot even see what is right in front of your face.

Oh really? why he keeps coming back then? it's only you who thinks i'm stupid, boring or clingy and you don't even know me so you are quite irrelevant about me too. lol i'm not chasing after him, it's his choice if he wants to talk to me. I already told you I don't care about your opinion so just stop bothering, if you think you can make me feel insecure you can't so stop making fool out of yourself. I'm done i won't even reply to you next time.

Posted by Baru

Oh really? why he keeps coming back then?

We all can read, we all understand that after a long period of time, you couldn't pry your desperate thoughts away from him, you make sure to mention that your mind is constantly on him. Which means the opposite when you state such rubbish as: I can live without him fine.

Because the fact is ... you searched in a fucking horoscope so you could pinpoint something relevant and place your justifications on ... so you could go run after hm and chase him down.

To say to me the above, just because you want to defy me ... only goes to prove to the viewing audience what I've been saying about you being a dumbass.

You chased him down ..... that's not him running back to you, as you attempted to claim.

So, now on top of all of this ..... you lie.

Posted by Baru

i know i should be just honest with him ......

he doesn't know how to stand up to my expectations ............

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The real truth is ^^^^^^ you must be a nightmare as a girlfriend.

You're not honest with him .... and you have expectations upon him that is too much for him to handle.

Posted by busyeyes88

Posted by Baru

Posted by FyzaGems
Oh and you have to understand, Gemini is all about communication. The moment we knew that we will get into trouble when we communicate with you, we will avoid going there by all means.

We never argued... it was more banter type of thing but it was actually about serious things... like we made fun of it but i'd say inside we were angry both of us xDD for example he said he wants to see me again and we started to plan it out and he suddenly started saying such a strange things like "i don't want it to be like last time" and i was like "it was that bad?" In joking kind of way and he said "no i meant i don't want to be out till 4 am" and in my mind i was screaming whaaat xD then he has fallen ill so we had to postpone then he hurt his foot quite badly that's why i said he had health problems... and i teased him that it all happened in "right time" and he became deadly serious and even called himself idiot for doing stupid things.... i teased him because i was wary of his "excuses" but in the end i found out it was all truth... i think he's scared of me xD he realizes i have high standarts and i'm real woman (he's older than me though) and probably is scared i'd be able to hurt him... but i'm scared of him too... i wanna work it out i just don't know how xD i need to learn to be carefull with my words around him... and be honest about my feelings.

Do not make "lighthearted" "gesting" out of a person's illness. It won't go down well regardless of sun sign... My gem has a scorp moon and 3 placements in Cancer and took himself very seriously. If you were to make fun of his ailments he would simply get angry and cut your head clean off!!!! They don't find this kind of "repartee" amusing!!! If you are intelligent use your intelligence for wit not make him your laughing matter...

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We already had intimate relation so it can't be platonic anymore... he made first move (kissed me not anything crazy) and i accepted it since i wanted to.... idk if it was right but i don't take it as mistake. yes i already found out he's very serious about most things more serious than i thought he will be... when we were together i got little bit sad and he asked me what's wrong... so i told him i'm scared i'm gonna get hurt again and he said that he understands but that i need to trust him.. if i won't it's not worth it. Yes i guess he got angry at me, because he could see i'm wary of him... it was stupid i just jumped to my own conclusion and i shouldn't have done that... i wanna apologize to him for anything that might have hurt him but i wanna do it in real life not through text we'd need to talk about lot of things.