Gemini Sun/Cancer Venus/Pisces Mars Man help?

okay so....

Long story short, 2013 we met at the place we were working when he got hired and were great platonic friends in individual relationships that we're still in, he made efforts to hang out often, and we did. Great conversation, lots and lots of laughs. I even painted him a small picture out of appreciation for our friendship...then one day in July 2014 he flat out hit on me through text. I saw him the same night and it was like the switch flipped, he became the sexiest thing walking. CRAZY SEXUAL TENSION every single time we were in the same room.... Fast forward to now, we've had four absolutely earth-shaking, mind-blowing sexual encounters, I'm talking scratching, biting, sheet-grabbing, hair-pulling, you name it, it's there. The first time we hooked up, afterwards he sat in awe for like 20 minutes...Our sex is insanely deep and passionate, unlike anything I've ever experienced in my life...we were making out one night and his eyes turned red from the lusty energy exchange...But before we laid together we established that it would be just that, but he will always ALWAYS express some type of feelings to me after the sex, saying shit like:

"I'm addicted to you, you're like my drug"
"I can just smell your scent whenever I think about you"
"It's not just the sex, etc etc" -- that Pisces mars speaking here

Mind you I never ask for commentary at all, I sit mostly silent when we talk so he doesn't really know how I feel, but in my head I'm going insane. On my birthday he wished me a happy one, then he randomly texted me later that night saying he owed me anything I wanted...I know Gems have a habit of saying one thing, meaning another, but I feel like if we're just going to be screwing, he need not say ANYTHING like the above to me, because I'm going to take him painfully seriously.

I'm a female Scorpio sun/Sagittarius venus/Gemini mars and from what I've read we are quite damn compatible and it's starting to put ideas in my head. I can't get him off my mind. But as of recently I've made two efforts to hang out and he never responded. But in between those efforts he sent me a 'heart-eyes' emoji after he saw pics of me out and about on snapchat. Then on New Years he saw me brush past him at a packed party, he went out of his way to leave his gf to find me all the way to the other end of the room and embrace me. We haven't spoken since. I'm confused as hell lol.

Also his gf is Gemini sun/Gemini venus/Aries mars, very insecure...and I feel like this gives him some type of upper hand on her because of his own fears of not being loved (which he expressed to me)...they've been dating like 2 years? She has no water in her chart so she can't appeal to his emotions...and he told me he couldn't remember the last time a woman gave him an orgasm until he met me.

I gotta know where the hell is this going? I've been seriously thinking of leaving my own bf for reasons separate from this affair, but I'm not sure if my Gemini guy is playing his decisions based on the fact that I'm in a relationship and he feels he can't have me or that he's running away from feelings he may have developed off sex and doesn't want to let go of what he already has.

Any experiences with this unique placement? or advice is greatly appreciated 🙂

he is running game on you he says things he doesn't mean to bait you in.
it is just lust he will not leave his gf and you shouldn't leave your bf.
how could you trust each other when you both cheated on your bf/gf ?!

end it soon it will not turn out like the fantasy in your head but of course you are blind right now and will continue to fantasize that it will. It won't because your foundation with this guy is screwed up. It went from being friends to sleeping with each other it is just sexual chemistry. If he cheated with you he will cheat on you.


I'm a scorpio too so I'm giving you the bluntest truth possible so it can sank in your head. You have clearly thrown logic out of this equation.

I'm also dating a gemini but we we are both single when we hooked up. I made him court me before giving him my body and build a friendship. He claimed that he loved me and said things like "we are going to get married one day". I'm very aloof for many reasons and that keeps him on his toes. I also show him how intelligent I am and will not take his words seriously. He knows I know the game men play and I slowed him down he has no choice to respect my mind and makes him like me more how logical I am.


take those rose colored glasses off dear this will not work out. My gemini also has pisces in mars which is why I'm slow to trust and yielding him because pisces like to fish around they love women and some are womanizers. You just got caught in his game and the fact that he snuck away from his gf to see you should be a major red flag that is disrespectful to his relationship. He is a guy having fun so don't take what he says seriously and a gemini is good with words anyway so you have to weave out the bullshit from the truth since they are prawn to lying and telling you what you want to hear.

come on girl you are a scorpio use your intuition take sex out the equation and analyze!

If it's a cheating situation he is addicted to you b/c it's not supposed to be happening. Otherwise why is he in a relationship? I don't like blurry boundaries, I know if someone is willing to cheat with me, they will cheat on me. I have never been a cheater, but I have been cheated on. I would say it's already ruined before it starts.

That's just me! He may have feelings for you but this isn't a man you want. Js...

Posted by Octoberbaby91


end it soon it will not turn out like the fantasy in your head but of course you are blind right now and will continue to fantasize that it will. It won't because your foundation with this guy is screwed up. It went from being friends to sleeping with each other it is just sexual chemistry. If he cheated with you he will cheat on you.


I'm a scorpio too so I'm giving you the bluntest truth possible so it can sank in your head. You have clearly thrown logic out of this equation.

I'm also dating a gemini but we we are both single when we hooked up. I made him court me before giving him my body and build a friendship. He claimed that he loved me and said things like "we are going to get married one day". I'm very aloof for many reasons and that keeps him on his toes. I also show him how intelligent I am and will not take his words seriously. He knows I know the game men play and I slowed him down he has no choice to respect my mind and makes him like me more how logical I am.


take those rose colored glasses off dear this will not work out. My gemini also has pisces in mars which is why I'm slow to trust and yielding him because pisces like to fish around they love women and some are womanizers. You just got caught in his game and the fact that he snuck away from his gf to see you should be a major red flag that is disrespectful to his relationship. He is a guy having fun so don't take what he says seriously and a gemini is good with words anyway so you have to weave out the bullshit from the truth since they are prawn to lying and telling you what you want to hear.

come on girl you are a scorpio use your intuition take sex out the equation and analyze!

well I wouldn't go as far as to say blind lady :/

It was me that established that it would only be sex and I'm fine with that. I'll admit I'm toying around with the fantasies because of my sun, but I'm fully aware of what's going on...

my thing is, I don't have a problem with getting rid of the fantasies, I'm too much of a realist due to all my Sagittarius placements but honestly I really, really just want to get laid....if I were to even think of a relationship if the opportunity presented, I'd only consider an open one. But I'm trying to figure out if he's developing feelings but I'm guessing you say that he's lost all respect for me. lol

Posted by WateryGem
If it's a cheating situation he is addicted to you b/c it's not supposed to be happening. Otherwise why is he in a relationship? I don't like blurry boundaries, I know if someone is willing to cheat with me, they will cheat on me. I have never been a cheater, but I have been cheated on. I would say it's already ruined before it starts.

That's just me! He may have feelings for you but this isn't a man you want. Js...

I agree with this. However, to be a scorp I'm very good at separating sex from emotion, and if I have any feelings I can quietly deal with them until they fade from not being utilized...relationship or not, whatever...I'm interested in knowing what HE'S thinking, and how it could be getting in the way of getting my fix.

....you mean in the way of getting his dick? He's a wee Pisces Mars and so prone to be easily worn out when having to satisfy two women.

You are contradicting yourself fellow scorp o_O.....

Listen if you can separate sex then why are you analyzing a man actions that you just want to sleep with saying that you are willing to break up with your bf for him and his gf is insecure and BLAH blah blah......

Whether you realize it or not you have built a fantasy in wanting something more from sex from the man why else would you be happy about him drifting away from his gf just to acknowledge you?

Also if you have a bf then why do you need to get laid shouldnt he be satisfying your sexual needs? Why have a bf if you are sleeping with another man. That is putting your health and his health in danger. You are playing with fire and don't even know if the gemini have multiple women he is sleeping with.

By you having Sagittarius placements you do have an infidelity traits. I have seen many sagaitturs women sleep around even one I ise to be close with didn't realize the seriousness of her being promiscuous.

One thing you in the gemini have in common is that you both are not taking your cheating seriously.

Just be single for all of that why waste your bf time?

Yes the Gemini just have lust for you and the same goes for you. No need to analyze this situation further you are just two young people that doesn't take your relationship seriously and being completely selfish to your partners.

Posted by Undine
....you mean in the way of getting his dick? He's a wee Pisces Mars and so prone to be easily worn out when having to satisfy two women.

Same thing. And ahh gotcha.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
You are contradicting yourself fellow scorp o_O.....

Listen if you can separate sex then why are you analyzing a man actions that you just want to sleep with saying that you are willing to break up with your bf for him and his gf is insecure and BLAH blah blah......

Whether you realize it or not you have built a fantasy in wanting something more from sex from the man why else would you be happy about him drifting away from his gf just to acknowledge you?

Also if you have a bf then why do you need to get laid shouldnt he be satisfying your sexual needs? Why have a bf if you are sleeping with another man. That is putting your health and his health in danger. You are playing with fire and don't even know if the gemini have multiple women he is sleeping with.

By you having Sagittarius placements you do have an infidelity traits. I have seen many sagaitturs women sleep around even one I ise to be close with didn't realize the seriousness of her being promiscuous.

One thing you in the gemini have in common is that you both are not taking your cheating seriously.

Just be single for all of that why waste your bf time?

Yes the Gemini just have lust for you and the same goes for you. No need to analyze this situation further you are just two young people that doesn't take your relationship seriously and being completely selfish to your partners.

In the first post, I said I was considering leaving my boyfriend for reasons SEPARATE from the affair so this has nothing to do with it. Please read before assuming.
Again, I already said that I admit that I'm toying around with the idea, however if it doesn't go the way I fantasize, I'm completely fine with it.
I lack passion for my boyfriend even though I love him, and it was that way before I even met the other dude.
You are making assumptions...When we're are together, we make sure that we are safe.
And yes, I am thinking of being single lol...
And I asked where it was going, verdict is nowhere? Cool, thank you.

Oh ok so instead of breaking up you just cheated on him...should've done that before you decided to sleep around with gemini and even condoms aren't guarenteed to be completely safe.

But I call a spade a spade as long as you know that it won't go anywhere.

Gotcha 🙂

Posted by Octoberbaby91
Oh ok so instead of breaking up you just cheated on him...should've done that before you decided to sleep around with gemini and even condoms aren't guarenteed to be completely safe.

But I call a spade a spade as long as you know that it won't go anywhere.

Gotcha 🙂

Okay calm down on the judging too for real...Congratulations on mastering your relationship with your Gemini and upholding your virtues to hold out on sex, but it's not cool to throw salt because others prefer to take a different approach. I'm a big girl.

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Posted by WateryGem
If it's a cheating situation he is addicted to you b/c it's not supposed to be happening. Otherwise why is he in a relationship? I don't like blurry boundaries, I know if someone is willing to cheat with me, they will cheat on me. I have never been a cheater, but I have been cheated on. I would say it's already ruined before it starts.

That's just me! He may have feelings for you but this isn't a man you want. Js...

I agree with this. However, to be a scorp I'm very good at separating sex from emotion, and if I have any feelings I can quietly deal with them until they fade from not being utilized...relationship or not, whatever...I'm interested in knowing what HE'S thinking, and how it could be getting in the way of getting my fix.

That's your Gemini mars you speaking and not from your Scorp side. Only addiction point is eagerly know what he's thinking and that's your Scorp side kicking in.

Plus.. why aren't you satisfied with your own bf?

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I agree with this. It's my Scorp that really really wants to know how he feels about me, I guess it's an ego-booster. I'm not satisfied with my bf because he's not aggressive or assertive. It's more of a mother-son relationship than it is man-woman, I feel like I wear the pants 80 percent of the time. Plus he is a little too feminine, slow and light-handed in bed for my tastes.

Posted by e11e
is this post even for real?

seems like a troll.

I don't know any scorpio woman this trifling.

sorry, not sorry...I *am* judging, just in case you weren't sure.

Lmao and who are you, Jesus Christ? Oh, tell me more...

I'm not judging Im just trying to get the facts of what's not being said like a scorpio does.

To each is own but how you start any relationship is how you end one.

I wouldn't say mastering it's just my values on how I carry myself as a woman pretty simple.

Posted by xy

"I've read we (Gemini AND Scorpio) are quite damn compatible and it's starting to put ideas in my head"


A Scorpio posted that? Never in the history of DXP...

Lol you weren't this bold earlier when you posted.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
I'm not judging Im just trying to get the facts of what's not being said like a scorpio does.

To each is own but how you start any relationship is how you end one.

I wouldn't say mastering it's just my values on how I carry myself as a woman pretty simple.

Well, it wasn't and isn't enough room to go into detail about the situation on this forum, it's way more to it, yet it really doesn't matter about the details, or anyone's personal values, yes to each his own indeed...

For some reason the outcome isn't as important to me as it is getting a hint as to whether he has feelings for me or whether he is done. No I never wanted a relationship with him, but I could change my mind later given the opportunity. What happens after would be on me...I usually set the rules in my relationships. And if he wants no parts of me then solid, I'll move on. I said I was getting ideas meaning it was just that, fantasizing. I'm the type to carry feelings for someone and never tell them, but I I get pleasure from the idea (Gemini Mars) of knowing they want me more than anything, it's weird.

Posted by Hotbeefy
You meant your whole chart are compatible or the sun couple?

Because Between Gemini & Scorpio is actually inconjunct couple. To better explain is those least favorite that most of the time it wont work out because between them has different way of liking it.

What you just put is very unusual thing of Scorpio ways (as breaking the loyal rule code).

The whole chart. I did a few personal readings, wasn't talking about just sun signs like people assume. I have a Sagittarius moon as well, could have a major influence on that loyalty thing. Interesting I never cheated in my long-distance relationship I had a few years back, and I was never intimate with the dude...guess I was successfully seduced by someone this time around as I'm usually not but I was around him a lot before the affair so I think it made it easier to.

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Posted by Undine
....you mean in the way of getting his dick? He's a wee Pisces Mars and so prone to be easily worn out when having to satisfy two women.

Hey! Leave Mars in Pisces alone!

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tell me what is wrong with Mars in Pisces—? I'm really curious.

Posted by e11e
you probably should ask for a refund. With all that sag in your chart, and being a scorpio....whomever told you with a straight face that you were compatible was blowing smoke up the hot pocket between your legs.

lol I never paid for any of them, they were all different, some leaning towards the negative side, some leaning positive. I've had plenty of experiences already of when I've clashed with him, only really when it comes to intellectual debates. But we mutually enjoy that. Other than that, I don't see much of where anything else can go wrong.

Posted by xy
I mean, are you a cuspian? What's your moon and ascendant?

No, Nov. 18. Sag moon and Leo asc, he's also Leo asc.