So fellow Gemini darlings.... what are your experiences?? I've dated one and it was.... fascinating, all encompassing, controlling, passionate, twisted.
I've started another thread in the Aqua board with each of our charts and that can be found here if you're interested to look: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/tap-tap-whatcha-think-2683768/ However, I thought I'd open of the floor here for us to discuss in general.
yeah...I was with one for 10 years, and it was all that PLUS his selfishness, guilttripping, suffocating, drowning...but the mental fascination is good.
RF - How did he conduct himself when working through big issues? Did he typically mentally pace or come to clear decisions quickly? What was his style in coming to you to discuss things?
My daughter is an Aqua, and she's slow as hell. So, I try to accelerate her thought process, cuz she may be an Air sign, but she's slow as hell and she thinks that she's smarter than she is. However, she likes to argue, which I do not ... with my family.
he was the God of Procrastination & Avoidance. Major Annoyance for a Gem that always wants to see both sides and wants to make the best decisions for all involved. I felt like I was pulling that whole wagon of ours all the time.
I think it is possible I might have entered into a dangerous situation with a certain Aqua in my life. And by think I mean.... know.
I know him as a friend inside and out, but as of this weekend I don't know him at all or how he will react. We went too far, but not too far. It was likely inevitable but the timing is horrid for both of us.
Life can be so very complicated at times. I miss my friend. Funny enough the person I want to call for friendly advice is just the person I need advice about. FML. Thank god I still have Wineaux.
Geminis can be so direct. When I have complications I can be approached and I'm almost always ready to deal with it. I LOATHE having things hanging over my head. However, in this situation I am afraid he's going to leave me hanging for some time while he is sorting things out in his head.
I respect his need for space... I'm sure we will talk soon. I just have no idea how this will play out and I'm scared for me, I'm scared for him and I'm scared for us. We're both so vulnerable.
Just had them as friends. Didnt know they were aquarians until about two years ago that I got into astrology.
Anyway, got along very well and DO get along very well with them and each one I meet theres an instant understanding between us. Never had a romantic relationship with one although there was an aquarius female that was lurking around and lets just say it was intense sexual/physical chemistry and the way our minds connected was HOT. We never got physical at all always just kept it platonic but we both knew we felt the intensity between us.
Never had that type of 'connection' with someone. Its like we didnt have to speak we could *FEEL* each other out.
They are very detached though and as a Gemini I think it would get tough to deal with overtime as we can get a little obsessive once our feelings get tapped into. My current gf has a venus in aqua and so far things are pretty good. She isnt being detached as of lately if anything she is a bit clingy with communication.
move on. i had the same thing and got sucked into the indecisive mode of Aqua....BS you will feel like you are pulling all ropes and making all decisions, even if he will make it seem like it's on his terms. you will get exhausted eventually...
My Aquarius friend broke my heart. We were good friends until she got very religious and started pulling away from anyone who wasn't religious (me). I told her I knew what she was doing and that it was very hurtful, but she lied and denied what was going on. We've hung out only twice in the last 4 years, although I've repeatedly asked her to do things with me. I'm finally somewhat okay with it now, because it is what it is, but the thing that pisses me off is that she always calls me pet names, tells me how much she loves me, and says we should get together very soon...all while she's repeatedly declining my invitations all these years. She lays it on THICK. To what end? Love is a verb, lady, not a word you throw around like a frisbee. Are all Aquas fake and in denial like this? I don't really know any others, but my mom has starting dating an Aqua man.
problem i noticed with gem and aqua= too similar. but different enough to be compatible. noticing that with my bf....its a awesome relationship and one that no other sign can seriously match. its seriously a deep connection. our bads work out themselves our good fuels one another. some bads go unoticed. while other signs can see only those bads that a aqua or a gemini can over look.
since we both aren't exactly emotional signs...our romance (a reflection of one's feeling for another) is found in our mental connection who said romance, passion, came in one form (water sign way)
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I've started another thread in the Aqua board with each of our charts and that can be found here if you're interested to look:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aquarius/tap-tap-whatcha-think-2683768/
However, I thought I'd open of the floor here for us to discuss in general.