Venus in Aqua= run away? why all the hate?

I noticed that venus aqua's have a bad rep. i havent seen anything positive abt them on the board at all. on any board for that matter? are we really that bad? there has to be some positive ways to describe us, right? lol. yes i suffer from commitment phobia. but im a great friend.....lol any aqua venus's share my pain?

LOL!!!! I guess we really are the bottom of the barrell! Too bad.....I love my venus aqua, makes me that much more interesting

i think aqua in venus is a tough nut to crack...but once you're in, it's all good! just don't stifile us. or bore us. oh, and don't be too dependent or clingy, it's beyond annoying 😄

overall, i think our loyalty is underrated. venus aqua would rather leave than cheat.

for some weird reason, i have been with alot of venus in aquas :/

forget what the haters talkin about, aqua/venus is the best!!

fuck yeah! mmm hmmm we the shiznit

I am the best I can be! Lol

Posted by nimbue
i think aqua in venus is a tough nut to crack...but once you're in, it's all good! just don't stifile us. or bore us. oh, and don't be too dependent or clingy, it's beyond annoying 😄

overall, i think our loyalty is underrated. venus aqua would rather leave than cheat.

Ding Ding Ding! Bingo!!

My mother has a venus, and mars in aqua. Married for 37 years. Take that naysayers!

This is what I wanna know...no tricks and ploys here,who wouldn't want that?

I like the Aqua Venus. It goes well with my Aries Venus.

I think...

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Aquas are very cautious & slow in love. To some, this is a bad thing b/c they either hate the challenges Aquas present OR they hate dealing with someone who ticks slowly when yet they tick at a faster pace

And to others, the fact that Aquas are very cautious, this is a turn on & enables someone to like/chase after an Aqua even more.

I don't think being an Aqua in general (regardless of what placement Aqua serves in your chart) automatically dooms you to be a commitment phobe. However, having Aqua in your chart def. involves being a little bit more slow to involve yourself with people/situations that others w/o that placement may automatically feel very comfortable jumping right into.

It all depends on the person dealing with the Aqua. Of course if an Aqua is dating someone who prefers a more fast-paced & optimistic way of going about things in love, the 2 are going to immediately clash. But if that very same Aqua were to meet someone whose a little more similiar/like them, that very cautious side about us Aquas wouldn't seem so bad

Well if its harder to find someone whos right for you then once you find them wont the loyalty be more intense? Someone who gives you your freedom and lets you go off and do your own thing just so they can see how happy you are when you come back? And hear all about it and get some mental stimulation themselves?

isnt a commitment phobia really a fear of getting stuck in a situation that isnt right for you? Surely theres no fear of getting into a situation that works well for you?

and a caution is a sign that the person is taking it seriously rather than being flippant about things.. surely this is an indication of a loyal committed person? A person who is actually taking the trouble to check it is going to work

What is considered clingy and needy to a venus in aqua?? my gf at the moment has this placement and at first everything was good but now its starting to confuse me... she was so clingy and up my a*s when we first got together now she is a bit more detached and its making me think twice.

Im a cancer venus and I can already see the major differences.

Im an up the arse sort of person and I tend to relax once I think ive pleased the person and given them what they want. This is a lazy aspect of me perhaps she has the doormat combined with a bit of cant be bothered

I was also told some of those with the doormat starsigns aspects do an incredibly big and elaborate performance and demonstration of how much they are willing to compromise/adapt in order to get the satisfaction of seeing the person happy. Some may be false about it some very earthy about it some may think you will be impressed by an emotional display. Some may show you who they are some may try to become something they are not, some may try to become who they could be But of course once this goal has been accomplished and the satisfaction attained the person relaxes and stops focusing on these things...they just sit and savour the happiness.but then when they see theres any trobule on the horizon im sure theyll start applying this as the solution again.

The main problem the feminine doormat will accomplish is if they adapt themselves into something they are uncomfortable with being. Then they will either be miserable or appear to have a dual personality as they flip between the two...turning on the charm(tranforming) and relaxing(reverting). Im a feminine starsign (capricorn). Im hoping that i can develop from my roots to be a good partner rather than saying this is who I am if you dont like it we are not compatible(masculine). If who I am is the ideal partner then I dont have to be false and being earth I will never be false. I will bring out whats already there and share it. Share my roots

I found in the past I saw men who said whatever you want darling as weak and uninspiring. I hope I dont appear like that ie as a doormat...the question to yourself when you see a doormat and think urgh is ..would they do these things for anyone else? The answer is no because those people are not worthy...this is the masculine side of the doormat..they wont take any shit..they ARE tough and wont compromise themselves for anybody. So dont worry they are not a doormat they are someone who you have earned and they are discerning and not easy to take advantage of

Posted by nats
What is considered clingy and needy to a venus in aqua?? my gf at the moment has this placement and at first everything was good but now its starting to confuse me... she was so clingy and up my a*s when we first got together now she is a bit more detached and its making me think twice.

Im a cancer venus and I can already see the major differences.

see above...forgot to say who I was talking to 😛

Posted by nats
What is considered clingy and needy to a venus in aqua?? my gf at the moment has this placement and at first everything was good but now its starting to confuse me... she was so clingy and up my a*s when we first got together now she is a bit more detached and its making me think twice.

Im a cancer venus and I can already see the major differences.

I'm starting to do this to someone right now. I feel like such a jerk too! I've never done it before. I don't know whats wrong with me eh :/

Posted by krysrenee7
Aquas are very cautious & slow in love. To some, this is a bad thing b/c they either hate the challenges Aquas present OR they hate dealing with someone who ticks slowly when yet they tick at a faster pace

And to others, the fact that Aquas are very cautious, this is a turn on & enables someone to like/chase after an Aqua even more.

I have a question. Do you think aquas are generally slower? I mean in terms of movement and body language. Do they sip their drinks slowly etc 😛

Posted by DAMEN VI
forget what the haters talkin about, aqua/venus is the best!!

fuck yeah! mmm hmmm we the shiznit

OMG I love that clip! lol