How Does One..

Get into your pants? 😛 😄

A guy has a better chance of spotting a flying pig than getting into my pants. I'm picky as hell.

My Gemini best friend, though? Have the look of someone she would seem cool hanging around with...and keep the drinks coming. Love her, but it's true.

Ok thanks guys it's been a while since I've tried an air boy

Posted by Whimsy
A guy has a better chance of spotting a flying pig than getting into my pants. I'm picky as hell.

My Gemini best friend, though? Have the look of someone she would seem cool hanging around with...and keep the drinks coming. Love her, but it's true.

It's the Scorpio rising combo, methinks.

Yeah, I even SAW the title of this thread and thought to myself, "that's a sure sign you won't."

I'm just a barrel of laughs. But if you're lucky enough to get into my pants, I am an extremely passionate lover, and I will fuck your brains out.

Posted by geminintheworld
Yeah, I am picky too.

Be interested in talking and having conversations - many conversations about lots of different stuff.
Be interested in the world around you, care and show you are a good person.
Also be overt in your interest in me (and show this interest, public displays are more than welcome)

And don't move too slowly... If you are going to try and make a move do it sooner rather than later otherwise I wont be receptive.

I am the opposite of the last statement. If you move too quickly I'll shoot you down verbally, and may break your hand.

I get pissed off that some people even ask.

Posted by Marmotini

Posted by Whimsy
A guy has a better chance of spotting a flying pig than getting into my pants. I'm picky as hell.

My Gemini best friend, though? Have the look of someone she would seem cool hanging around with...and keep the drinks coming. Love her, but it's true.

It's the Scorpio rising combo, methinks.

Yeah, I even SAW the title of this thread and thought to myself, "that's a sure sign you won't."

I'm just a barrel of laughs. But if you're lucky enough to get into my pants, I am an extremely passionate lover, and I will fuck your brains out.

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lol yeah I almost think he is out of my league to be quite honest. He's really good looking and he's never really flirting. (? least i think) I'm thinking maybe he is just a nice guy and is like to polite to everyone. It's hard sometimes to tell with a air sign. And I mean I should know since I have a venus in aqua but I don't.

I sort of feel like idiot about it all, but he's soo hot!

Posted by geminintheworld
just out of interest what is his mars sign? would that be of importance too?

Oh ya I should check that out. I haven't yet, Mine is in scorpio.

You pretty much have to be the most awesome fucking chick on the planet to get into my pants. I'm not down for casual hookups or anything like that. I have little trust for women, so these pants stay closed until I know for certain that you're absolutely 100% worth it. I maintain high standards of my own and expect the same of any woman attempting to persuade me (and I don't just mean appearance, I mean high standards of life ie: someone who respects life, love and other people and their lives, loves and people).

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Posted by Sag89
Ok thanks guys it's been a while since I've tried an air boy

your welcame, Sag89!
(Additions: eye contact, plays a big deal)
and good luck with that...

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thanks!

Posted by SapphireGem
You pretty much have to be the most awesome fucking chick on the planet to get into my pants. I'm not down for casual hookups or anything like that. I have little trust for women, so these pants stay closed until I know for certain that you're absolutely 100% worth it. I maintain high standards of my own and expect the same of any woman attempting to persuade me (and I don't just mean appearance, I mean high standards of life ie: someone who respects life, love and other people and their lives, loves and people).

I've noticed this with gem men. All the ones I have known have never hit on me at all. Than when I did sort of try for it they laughed in my face. I guess I'm just use to easy lays like Scorpios and all the rest.

Posted by DMsilversoul
Its pretty obvious most girls will try to get hash and much protective as they would sound! :] but the fact is there will always be that one guy who will get his way to your pants :] or else if you want to die a V lol
btw i alway like challeges, the more the challeges the more i get smarter *winks*
good for you women lol

Yea, It's probably cause you guys are so mental. It's not as easy when you got a brain! I can't trick you lol jk

Posted by Sag89
Get into your pants? 😛 😄

lol! 😛

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Posted by Whimsy
A guy has a better chance of spotting a flying pig than getting into my pants. I'm picky as hell.

My Gemini best friend, though? Have the look of someone she would seem cool hanging around with...and keep the drinks coming. Love her, but it's true.

It's the Scorpio rising combo, methinks.

Yeah, I even SAW the title of this thread and thought to myself, "that's a sure sign you won't."

I'm just a barrel of laughs. But if you're lucky enough to get into my pants, I am an extremely passionate lover, and I will fuck your brains out.

lol yeah I almost think he is out of my league to be quite honest. He's really good looking and he's never really flirting. (? least i think) I'm thinking maybe he is just a nice guy and is like to polite to everyone. It's hard sometimes to tell with a air sign. And I mean I should know since I have a venus in aqua but I don't.

I sort of feel like idiot about it all, but he's soo hot!

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Do you really LIKE him or do you just want to have sex with him?

Because if you really LIKE him that's one thing, but maybe if he's just a physical challenge, you should move on if you're unsure if he's even flirting.

I also cannot stand women who think they should have a free pass into my pants because they're good looking or irresistable. I could think of nothing more of a turn-off. Gemini men are often regarded as being the type to flirt with anyone and flirt HARD... and im sorry, as a Gemini who self-analyzes to death, that stereotype is a total load of crap! I will flirt with ONLY those who tick the required boxes and win over my trust. And that, is no easy feat.

Posted by ninjafish
You sound exactly like a cap friend of mine, sapphire. Saturnian anyhow.

Not sure if that's an insult or not? *vomits*

takes intelligence to get into mine... now, for my gem father... you just had to be breathing. no talking necessary. my gem uncle is alil more reserved when it comes to that, but not by much. and, an old gem friend was much like my father... and, he's still married, ironically...

^ interesting.

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Posted by Whimsy
A guy has a better chance of spotting a flying pig than getting into my pants. I'm picky as hell.

My Gemini best friend, though? Have the look of someone she would seem cool hanging around with...and keep the drinks coming. Love her, but it's true.

It's the Scorpio rising combo, methinks.

Yeah, I even SAW the title of this thread and thought to myself, "that's a sure sign you won't."

I'm just a barrel of laughs. But if you're lucky enough to get into my pants, I am an extremely passionate lover, and I will fuck your brains out.

lol yeah I almost think he is out of my league to be quite honest. He's really good looking and he's never really flirting. (? least i think) I'm thinking maybe he is just a nice guy and is like to polite to everyone. It's hard sometimes to tell with a air sign. And I mean I should know since I have a venus in aqua but I don't.

I sort of feel like idiot about it all, but he's soo hot!

Do you really LIKE him or do you just want to have sex with him?

Because if you really LIKE him that's one thing, but maybe if he's just a physical challenge, you should move on if you're unsure if he's even flirting.

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I guess I'm not sure.

I agree with what the other picky Gems are saying. You can't have me just because you're hot, own certain things, or have status. I have my own version of what constitutes "hot" and " successful" and it has little to do with societal standards. And if you're arrogant? Forget about it! I'll make sure you understand that I'm not impressed, and my pants will go into lockdown mode.

I'll only get with someone after I've had time to study him and find out whether or not I believe he has a good soul. After all, sex is about blending energies, not just bodies.

I have had one-nighters, but only with longtime friends.

So how could I know if he is actually into me or he is just being nice? I feel super unsure now

I think this may be his chart.. I don't know birth time or if the place i put down was right. I just put down his hometown from fb lol I didn't wanna do the weird astrology asking thing.

Sun Gem
Rising ?
Moon Sag
Mars Leo
Venus Cancer

Posted by Sag89
I think this may be his chart.. I don't know birth time or if the place i put down was right. I just put down his hometown from fb lol I didn't wanna do the weird astrology asking thing.

Sun Gem
Rising ?
Moon Sag
Mars Leo
Venus Cancer

I'm a Gemini sun, Aries Rising and Sagittarius Moon... for a woman to get into my pants, she has to be a cut above all the rest. I don't settle for second best. You'd think that with a Gemini sun and my penchant for outrageous flirting coupled with my Aries and the unbridled sexual desire and fire would combine to make me a highly sexed person who would happily let anyone have a crack... and it couldn't be any further from the truth. To me, there's two kinds of sex:

1) Random hookups and casual sex which usually ends up with a feeling of self-abuse, emptiness, over-exposure and vulnerability... which I really DON'T like... and then there's
2) Intimate, body/mind/soul-binding sex between two people that truely feel for one another. That's the stuff I enjoy and the stuff I crave. Getting that sadly, is nigh-on impossible with the sort of women I encounter who just want "a little fun"... what's "fun" for them is soul-destroying to me.

ok

So, males, the OP is wondering how a Gem guy would act when he's interested in a woman. Any opinions?

Posted by SapphireGem To me, there's two kinds of sex:

1) Random hookups and casual sex which usually ends up with a feeling of self-abuse, emptiness, over-exposure and vulnerability... which I really DON'T like... and then there's
2) Intimate, body/mind/soul-binding sex between two people that truely feel for one another. That's the stuff I enjoy and the stuff I crave. Getting that sadly, is nigh-on impossible with the sort of women I encounter who just want "a little fun"... what's "fun" for them is soul-destroying to me.

good to know

Posted by Whimsy
So, males, the OP is wondering how a Gem guy would act when he's interested in a woman. Any opinions?

Lol thank you whimsy for talking it back to the point

Posted by Whimsy
So, males, the OP is wondering how a Gem guy would act when he's interested in a woman. Any opinions?

We Gemini's carry a stigma of "incessent flirts" and are often accused of "having one on the side", or a "backup plan". I honestly don't understand this stereotype of the Gemini. I for one can honestly say, yes, when I am single and have no desire for one particular person, I may at times flirt with different women (if I know it's within my own and her own boundaries), however if I become interested in one woman in particular and they become the object of my desire, all flirting with the other women stops and I make it abundantly clear that I am not interested in anyone else but the object of my desire.

I also don't play games, beat around the bush or hide my feelings. I am upfront, honest and sincere when I make my feelings known to the object of my desire and affection. As I've stated before, for a woman to become the object of my desire she needs to pretty much be "out of this fucking world". That doesn't mean she has to be the most physically beautiful person on the planet or any of that nonsense, she just needs to be the complete package. She needs to be intelligent, with a good sense of style , well maintained, good sense of humour, sincere, honest, hard-working and with a goal in their lives. If she's good looking, well, that's a bonus too...

The "Superficial Gemini" stereotype can go screw itself.

I've had two Gem guys try to date me. One succeeded and one didn't. I have to say they were both very upfront about their interest. They definitely didn't have self-doubt about whether or not I would like them.

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Posted by Whimsy
So, males, the OP is wondering how a Gem guy would act when he's interested in a woman. Any opinions?

Lol thank you whimsy for talking it back to the point

A Gem will show and act, only if hes interested.. It doesn't matter how attractive you will be/charming you are. If hes not interested he will hide his feelings and you will never know or have a clue ever!! Thats it, Dear sag89 or you can wait maybe he will change his mind.

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Ok I guess he's not interested thanks for the help

Posted by SapphireGem

Posted by Whimsy
So, males, the OP is wondering how a Gem guy would act when he's interested in a woman. Any opinions?

We Gemini's carry a stigma of "incessent flirts" and are often accused of "having one on the side", or a "backup plan". I honestly don't understand this stereotype of the Gemini. I for one can honestly say, yes, when I am single and have no desire for one particular person, I may at times flirt with different women (if I know it's within my own and her own boundaries), however if I become interested in one woman in particular and they become the object of my desire, all flirting with the other women stops and I make it abundantly clear that I am not interested in anyone else but the object of my desire.

I also don't play games, beat around the bush or hide my feelings. I am upfront, honest and sincere when I make my feelings known to the object of my desire and affection. As I've stated before, for a woman to become the object of my desire she needs to pretty much be "out of this fucking world". That doesn't mean she has to be the most physically beautiful person on the planet or any of that nonsense, she just needs to be the complete package. She needs to be intelligent, with a good sense of style , well maintained, good sense of humour, sincere, honest, hard-working and with a goal in their lives. If she's good looking, well, that's a bonus too...

The "Superficial Gemini" stereotype can go screw itself.

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Why does he keep asking me to hang out? Do gems usually do that to people they don't like?

^ Do you think I should say something or do something sexual and see his is responsive to be totally sure?

I'm just trying to get laid but I don't want to come off as a totally perv

I'm not a guy, but I always feel better when I'm approached in words rather than in actions. If you just simply ask if you and I should have sex, then it provides an opportunity to explore the question mentally, without immediately getting entangled in energetics and emotions. It allows me space to say "no", if I want to, without feeling that a friend is getting hurt and without things getting awkward. I would tell you to keep it mental, at first. But maybe that's just me. Don't know if other Gems will agree or not.

Posted by Whimsy
I'm not a guy, but I always feel better when I'm approached in words rather than in actions. If you just simply ask if you and I should have sex, then it provides an opportunity to explore the question mentally, without immediately getting entangled in energetics and emotions. It allows me space to say "no", if I want to, without feeling that a friend is getting hurt and without things getting awkward. I would tell you to keep it mental, at first. But maybe that's just me. Don't know if other Gems will agree or not.

+1 yes, i agree with this. but, like you said, i'm not a guy either. it's the whole "sex starts in the mind" thing... cuz i think it most definitely does! :]

as for my earlier post: those are the ONLY examples of gem males that i've had irl... i am aware that not ALL gem males are the same. every sign has a few bad/good ones and we are not just our sun signs... i just haven't met any irl. *shrugs*

Posted by Whimsy
I'm not a guy, but I always feel better when I'm approached in words rather than in actions. If you just simply ask if you and I should have sex, then it provides an opportunity to explore the question mentally, without immediately getting entangled in energetics and emotions. It allows me space to say "no", if I want to, without feeling that a friend is getting hurt and without things getting awkward. I would tell you to keep it mental, at first. But maybe that's just me. Don't know if other Gems will agree or not.

Ok thank you whimsy. And thank you for not being triggered by my questions.