new to DXP Hey all!!

WHY PEOPLE ARE DRAWN TO US EIHER BAD OR GOOD?

lol good one Peanuts not a man no penis LOL, new to the Gem board so just wanted to say HI all 🙂
picking up new vibes from people everywhere attracting men and women LOL....

hi! and welcome! i hope you enjoy your stay here. 🙂

Hi and thanks Misslissa!

lol I know right!

So any Gem's get why people are drawn to you? I have people tell me I'm mysterious because I sit back and observe people before I initiate any Convo. I don't tell alot about myself.....not sure if that's good or bad? lol

no clue.....you mind helping me with that??

Birthdate May 22, 1979 birthplace Chicago,IL not sure what time though? LOL

Posted by BadassGemini
So any Gem's get why people are drawn to you? I have people tell me I'm mysterious because I sit back and observe people before I initiate any Convo. I don't tell alot about myself.....not sure if that's good or bad? lol

i don't think observation is a bad thing. i do it a lot. especially, when meeting new ppl. you learn a lot about ppl that way. :] *off to observe* lol!

Posted by misslissa

Posted by BadassGemini
So any Gem's get why people are drawn to you? I have people tell me I'm mysterious because I sit back and observe people before I initiate any Convo. I don't tell alot about myself.....not sure if that's good or bad? lol

i don't think observation is a bad thing. i do it a lot. especially, when meeting new ppl. you learn a lot about ppl that way. :] *off to observe* lol!

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altho, come to think of it.... in my case, being an observer would normally suggest "blending in", not ppl being drawn to me. i blend in and go unnoticed. it's my super power. lol!

Posted by DeeGee
I'm not the observing type Gemini, I'm more the hands on type....🙂

sometimes, i wish i were, at least, alil more hand-on... *shrugs* sometimes, it sucks being a softie.....

Posted by BadassGemini
WHY PEOPLE ARE DRAWN TO US EIHER BAD OR GOOD?

Because we are driven by Mercury, which allows us to be charming, intelligent, witty, somewhat bold but yet mysterious......

i'm able to go up to someone and just start a conversation. I have a dry sense of humor and love to make people laugh. I can also be very quiet and detached.
That's usually when I'm getting bad vibes from someone.

Lots of people tell me that I have this magnetism that draws them in. I don't know if there's any truth to that or not. However, I do think most Gems aren't afraid to
be themselves. Some people are so afraid of being who and what they are for fear of being rejected. Sure, we hate rejection too. It's just that we are more comfortable
initiating a conversation or injecting some humor; it comes natural. This ability projects confidence and charisma. Most people are attracted to those qualities imho.

With that said, we have our weaknesses too. It's just that more people as a whole value our ability to be outgoing. Confidence and leadership are attractive. People
are naturally drawn to those strengths imho. I know I am. The last thing I want to be with is a weak and insecure individual who constantly plays "the victim card"....male or female.

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Posted by DeeGee
I'm not the observing type Gemini, I'm more the hands on type....🙂

sometimes, i wish i were, at least, alil more hand-on... *shrugs* sometimes, it sucks being a softie.....

I wish I could be a little more observant, wanna switch for a while? lol

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hahaha! we might scare the kids.... lol!

the insecurity convention is here

Loving all the comments, We Gem's definitely possess that "IT" factor. we have the charm and witts to keep people guessing so to speak lol> I love being a Gemini yes yes 🙂

Posted by peanutsNcrackers
CAUSE OUR PENUSES ARE BIGGER THEN EVERYWHANGS!

Last year I dreamed I had a "PENUSES" was a bit bothered by that dream actually, woke up all startled and had to take a peek under my duvet O_o

I got a cho cho 😉

.. And I not be fink`n its "BIGGER THAN EVERYWHANGS!"

Hi Badass. You have nearly the same birthday as my best friend (she's May 24, 1979).

I'm a Gemini who tends to hang back, observe, and attempt invisibility. It rarely works, though. People always notice me! For some reason, they are often certain that we've met before, and will even ask how I've been since we last saw each other. It happened just today, when I was minding my own business at a shoe store.

"The more I'm on DXP the more I begin to realize Astrology is a sneaky, vain and narcissistic excuse to talk about ourselves and lately I been feeling really over the whole blowing smoke up our own assess trick.

Sorry, random rant but it's been on my mind..some signs indulge in this more than others, hence the amount of one or two particular signs on these boards...
DeeGee1/15/2013 2:02:11 PM Quote | IP

Not saying that I don't love Astrology and recognize the eerie similarities in people but I feel its being misused and abused on here...."

Excuse me? Are you accusing me of being sneaky, vain and narcissistic? If so, you are completely off target. I simply responded to the OP's inquiry. I am in no way suggesting that
because i'm a gemini that's makes me somehow better than any other sign. I did even mention that I had my weaknesses. We all do. What I did was try to explain why i believed people are often drawn to Gemini's....it's not rocket science. I've seen it, I've lived it and had many others back up my post with their experiences being around me and other gems. This is not to suggest that ALL Gems are the same. That's like saying ALL Virgo men are insecure and play mind games.

And honestly, compared to you, I seldom post. So my need to "talk about myself" is pretty lame considering.

Astrology to me is simply intriguing. It's something to research and understand. It's not something that guides my life or controls it. My faith does that just fine.

If you feel this site is being misused and abused, and the posts contained within are basically posters "indulging" about themselves, why do you spend so much time on here commenting? Seems a bit hypocritical to me.

But what do I know? I'm just a vain and narcissistic Gemini who frequents this board on occasion when I'm bored; another trait of us narcissistic Gems.

Hey Whimsy im the same way no matter how much I sit back just to be alone or in my thoughts, it never fails that I noticed about my eyes, lips, beauty etc...its always something, like a Magnetic pull? Gemini64 said some good things in reference to us Gem's, alot of what she said resiginates with me in the same manner. I know we are all different LOL gotta love it because not everyone can be a Gemini 🙂 🙂

DeeGee, hope me coming to this board with my post didn't make you feel like I was abusing it because I'm new and just wanted to see how we view ourselves. Plus I love astrology good or bad and we all are on these boeads for one reason or another. Mine is I like to talk.......sometimes alot and sometimes not at all 🙂*sitting back quietly observing* LOL so let's keep it light and fun!!

Do people always think you've met before, though? It weirds me out, because I have a horrendous memory for faces ( I think it's an actual brain disorder, but my husband calls it "not paying a shit bit of attention") and seriously might be forgetting some of those people. Most, though, I'm certain I've never met.

Posted by BadassGemini
Hey Whimsy im the same way no matter how much I sit back just to be alone or in my thoughts, it never fails that I noticed about my eyes, lips, beauty etc...its always something, like a Magnetic pull? Gemini64 said some good things in reference to us Gem's, alot of what she said resiginates with me in the same manner. I know we are all different LOL gotta love it because not everyone can be a Gemini 🙂 🙂

what do you consider beauty?.. i dont value beauty on looks, physical attraction is a shallow attraction, its not a lasting attraction, i find it realy important that beauty comes from within, it makes you no more beautiful than the next conquest.. if someone shows signs of hitting on me based on looks, im not interested, get to know me then decide whether im beautiful or not, everyone is someones cup of tea and for some ya not...

theres truth in beauty comes from within, theres people on here with no photo`s but based on how they are they have that aura about them, but theres also people with attractive pics that can come across like they have ugly attitudes.. thats what i think

ellSeCashe...Ummm no need to go there. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and im not sure why your questioning it......mann funny as hell and not sure why your trying to pick it apart. I know what I possess inside and that goes deeper than anything.I am a Gemini so no need to explain further. Thanks everyone else for posting and understanding how we are as individuals.

I second that...carry on Gem's LMAO

No your Cool DeeGee no worries 🙂 🙂

Im the newbie here just sitting back trying understand some of our traits is all 🙂