Gemini.its.true.
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is this normal?
Posted by Gemini.its.true.
Okay, so there is this cancer guy that I've had a thing with many different times.
We'll get really close and become 'best friends' for a couple months, then hang out alot and then we'll end up having a thing for awhile, then we'll separate for about five months and do the same cycle over again. we've done it about four or five times now and now we're at the 'best friend' stage again. Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing. :p I'm a taurus-gemini cusp by the way.
For Cancerians? Hell yes! It's called: "The shell game". In and out. One of biz partners is a Crab and he lays the foundation for a home with a family so he can go there for santuary after he cheats on his wife. Ever single cancer I know does this. I'm not saying all. Just the ones that I know. So, in so many words.....He's using you. Because he THINKS he knows your pattern. Sic em!!
GM
yeah I have never understood this about Cancerian .......I have given up on them. 😢 They always seem to do the "freak out thing with me". They either get too clingy or they do that hide and seek thing. Too many mind games with them.
GM - You want to know the funny thing about what you just posted is most people talk about Gemini people cheating the most .....but I actually find it more so among Cancers and Capricorn ........Capricorn being loyal .......Right........my bottom tush. *Rolls Eyes*
Every married guy that has hit on me has been either a Cap or Cancer. I am not saying Gemini peeps don't cheat because ....in my opinion every sign has that capability .......but don't be decieved with a Cancer or a Capricorn being the loyal bunch .......
One thing I have noticed with Gemini ......they will stray when they have been pushed to that edge. I have two sisters that are gemini and my mum was a gemini .......mum was loyal to her husband until the day she died. Now both of my sisters have strayed from their relations .....but they were both on the verge of divorce. I also have an uncle who is a Gemini .........he has a wandering eye .......in my opinion I just don't think Gemini people are good at breaking it off when it is over.......so this is their way.
Well .....totally off subject ..... sorry GIT .....back to subject .........I think GM is right on the money.
PD
GM - You want to know the funny thing about what you just posted is most people talk about Gemini people cheating the most .....but I actually find it more so among Cancers and Capricorn ........Capricorn being loyal .......Right........my bottom tush. *Rolls Eyes*
Every married guy that has hit on me has been either a Cap or Cancer. I am not saying Gemini peeps don't cheat because ....in my opinion every sign has that capability .......but don't be decieved with a Cancer or a Capricorn being the loyal bunch .......
One thing I have noticed with Gemini ......they will stray when they have been pushed to that edge. I have two sisters that are gemini and my mum was a gemini .......mum was loyal to her husband until the day she died. Now both of my sisters have strayed from their relations .....but they were both on the verge of divorce. I also have an uncle who is a Gemini .........he has a wandering eye .......in my opinion I just don't think Gemini people are good at breaking it off when it is over.......so this is their way.
Well .....totally off subject ..... sorry GIT .....back to subject .........I think GM is right on the money.
PD
Posted by Pisces_Dream
yeah I have never understood this about Cancerian .......I have given up on them. 😢 They always seem to do the "freak out thing with me". They either get too clingy or they do that hide and seek thing. Too many mind games with them.
GM - You want to know the funny thing about what you just posted is most people talk about Gemini people cheating the most .....but I actually find it more so among Cancers and Capricorn ........Capricorn being loyal .......Right........my bottom tush. *Rolls Eyes*
Every married guy that has hit on me has been either a Cap or Cancer. I am not saying Gemini peeps don't cheat because ....in my opinion every sign has that capability .......but don't be decieved with a Cancer or a Capricorn being the loyal bunch .......
One thing I have noticed with Gemini ......they will stray when they have been pushed to that edge. I have two sisters that are gemini and my mum was a gemini .......mum was loyal to her husband until the day she died. Now both of my sisters have strayed from their relations .....but they were both on the verge of divorce. I also have an uncle who is a Gemini .........he has a wandering eye .......in my opinion I just don't think Gemini people are good at breaking it off when it is over.......so this is their way.
Well .....totally off subject ..... sorry GIT .....back to subject .........I think GM is right on the money.
PD
In a word......Brilliant!!
GM
"In a word......Brilliant!!"
Aww thanks GM. 🙂 I just call like I see it. 😉
PD
Aww thanks GM. 🙂 I just call like I see it. 😉
PD
Posted by Gemini.its.true.
Okay, so there is this cancer guy that I've had a thing with many different times.
We'll get really close and become 'best friends' for a couple months, then hang out alot and then we'll end up having a thing for awhile, then we'll separate for about five months and do the same cycle over again. we've done it about four or five times now and now we're at the 'best friend' stage again. Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing. :p I'm a taurus-gemini cusp by the way.
Dated a few, and suspected they were married or involved, one particular, he has too be, and I will meet w/him and let him buy me dinner or lunch, talk, walk, but nothing more, I hope she catches him! He swears he is single, I really do not believe him.
Posted by Gemini.its.true.
Okay, so there is this cancer guy that I've had a thing with many different times.
We'll get really close and become 'best friends' for a couple months, then hang out alot and then we'll end up having a thing for awhile, then we'll separate for about five months and do the same cycle over again. we've done it about four or five times now and now we're at the 'best friend' stage again. Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing. :p I'm a taurus-gemini cusp by the way.
You say this as though this choice of being friends with benefits is all his. And it looks like the responsers are also assuming that all the choices in this FWB relationship is his .... yet, in your description, you used the word, "we", to infer you are apart of the decision equation.
What's going on in your head? Is it normal?
Gemini women do this, and it appears very abnormal to me. We have one in here just now that is doing this with a Virgo man. She absolutely refuses to let any signals he's giving him to slant her desires for him, and she refuses to listen to other people tell her, as she comes in here in total confusion and conveys to us that she is still sleeping with him, eventhough she has no clue where she stands with him.
Why do you girls do that? Is it normal?
Do you continue to fuck him because you are trying to capture him into your web, and so thinking that you will doso with your sexuality?
Do you even realize that it makes you look sleazy, and this is likely the number one reason you ladies never really get the man? You only get to suck his dick when he decides to let you.
What's going on in your head? Is this normal?
I'm clearly having a hard time wrapping around my brain all the comments in here about the Cancer man, in the judgement calls about his character ..... when you say that everything that has taken place was referred to as "we". You didn't say "he" did this, did that ... you say "we".
What the fuck is up with that?
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Gemini.its.true.
Okay, so there is this cancer guy that I've had a thing with many different times.
We'll get really close and become 'best friends' for a couple months, then hang out alot and then we'll end up having a thing for awhile, then we'll separate for about five months and do the same cycle over again. we've done it about four or five times now and now we're at the 'best friend' stage again. Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing. :p I'm a taurus-gemini cusp by the way.
You say this as though this choice of being friends with benefits is all his. And it looks like the responsers are also assuming that all the choices in this FWB relationship is his .... yet, in your description, you used the word, "we", to infer you are apart of the decision equation.
What's going on in your head? Is it normal?
Gemini women do this, and it appears very abnormal to me. We have one in here just now that is doing this with a Virgo man. She absolutely refuses to let any signals he's giving him to slant her desires for him, and she refuses to listen to other people tell her, as she comes in here in total confusion and conveys to us that she is still sleeping with him, eventhough she has no clue where she stands with him.
Why do you girls do that? Is it normal?
Do you continue to fuck him because you are trying to capture him into your web, and so thinking that you will doso with your sexuality?
Do you even realize that it makes you look sleazy, and this is likely the number one reason you ladies never really get the man? You only get to suck his dick when he decides to let you.
What's going on in your head? Is this normal?
I'm clearly having a hard time wrapping around my brain all the comments in here about the Cancer man, in the judgement calls about his character ..... when you say that everything that has taken place was referred to as "we". You didn't say "he" did this, did that ... you say "we".
What the fuck is up with that?click to expand
Wow.
What is "wow" about it?
You want more from this man, while just going along with the flow of what he decides to include fucking him, at his discretion .... and then wonder what the fuck is up with him .... as if this back and forth with the relationship has been at his discretion, and you have no place in it except to just do as he decides.
"Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing"
Just like that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
What's going on in your head? Does your brain even matter?
And then people say things in response here to insinuate that something is wrong with this Cancer man .. for example ..
He is using you, was said. Using you, really? so, you didn't consent to fuck him without a commitment? He raped you, then. If you fucked this man without a commitment, then he has only done what you have allowed him to do .. how is that using?
Another thing said was .... too many mind games with them.
The only "wow" in this is that ^^^^^^^^^^^^ sweeping statement about Cancer men, generally speaking, based off of an injury this woman suffered from a Cancer man. That's pretty fucking wow.
How exactly is he playing a mind game with you? Have you told him you want more from him every time you suck his dick? Or, do you just suck him off while hoping if you do it good enough he will think of you as a keeper, and not back off again?
You are the one having this "fuck" a friend relationship, you post it publicly like it's ordinary and then when I comment on it .... you think it's wow?
Why didn't you think of the wowness in this before you open your legs to a man to whom yuou don't have a commitment with ... because acting slutty is pretty goddam wow to me.
You want more from this man, while just going along with the flow of what he decides to include fucking him, at his discretion .... and then wonder what the fuck is up with him .... as if this back and forth with the relationship has been at his discretion, and you have no place in it except to just do as he decides.
"Whats going on in his head? is this normal? you cancerian men are so darn confusing"
Just like that ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
What's going on in your head? Does your brain even matter?
And then people say things in response here to insinuate that something is wrong with this Cancer man .. for example ..
He is using you, was said. Using you, really? so, you didn't consent to fuck him without a commitment? He raped you, then. If you fucked this man without a commitment, then he has only done what you have allowed him to do .. how is that using?
Another thing said was .... too many mind games with them.
The only "wow" in this is that ^^^^^^^^^^^^ sweeping statement about Cancer men, generally speaking, based off of an injury this woman suffered from a Cancer man. That's pretty fucking wow.
How exactly is he playing a mind game with you? Have you told him you want more from him every time you suck his dick? Or, do you just suck him off while hoping if you do it good enough he will think of you as a keeper, and not back off again?
You are the one having this "fuck" a friend relationship, you post it publicly like it's ordinary and then when I comment on it .... you think it's wow?
Why didn't you think of the wowness in this before you open your legs to a man to whom yuou don't have a commitment with ... because acting slutty is pretty goddam wow to me.
Wow squared. Then she wonders why she's been treated so badly by every man. Stupid. P-Angel thinks she's a wounded healer. When in fact she uses addition by subtraction. Downstream barracuda.
GM
GM
I'm sure her murky watered, downstream ass doesn't think so. That's the point Dom. A downstream fish will look at everything as dark. They can't help themselves. So no, she doesn't think it's a compliment at all. But I get what you're saying. Hahahaha!!! That's so Gem isn't it?
GM
GM
P-angel, Why don't you go take a nap or something.
Most Gemini's remind me of my dog ... for creatures so smart, they really are stupid.
My two dogs will go find a bone in the yard where they gut deer, and drag a piece home. Now, they know there is no bone in our yard, and so they have to go get one from the neighbors yard.
So, they come back to our property, and the Goldie gets to chomping on the bone, and won't let the Yorkie have any.
1. They know they are two dogs, why didn't they bring back two?
So, I hear the Yorkie crying and go outside to see him upset because he doesn't have a bone, so I say to him, "Go get a bone, Henry. Go on. Go get a bone." And he runs around sniffing our yard while continually looking up at me to tell me he can't find one.
2. He knew he couldn't find one in our yard, that's why he went to the other yard. So, why look for one now?
Or another example .... the Goldie, who is very smart, can do all kinds of tricks for a treat, he knows his boundaries and if I leave him outside and tell him to stay in the yard, he knows where the property line is and won't cross, he can sense moods in me and respond if I'm upset, sad, scard, if I get excited he bounces around .. so he can sense how I feel, that's how smart he is.
But, he will stick his wet nose on me everytime, I will flinch with yelp for him to go away .... and he can't fathom that my recoiling away from him means to stop putting his wet nose on me ... yet, he was house-broken in 3 days ... 3 days.
Yeah, like that. Gemini's have the capacity to be smart .......
My two dogs will go find a bone in the yard where they gut deer, and drag a piece home. Now, they know there is no bone in our yard, and so they have to go get one from the neighbors yard.
So, they come back to our property, and the Goldie gets to chomping on the bone, and won't let the Yorkie have any.
1. They know they are two dogs, why didn't they bring back two?
So, I hear the Yorkie crying and go outside to see him upset because he doesn't have a bone, so I say to him, "Go get a bone, Henry. Go on. Go get a bone." And he runs around sniffing our yard while continually looking up at me to tell me he can't find one.
2. He knew he couldn't find one in our yard, that's why he went to the other yard. So, why look for one now?
Or another example .... the Goldie, who is very smart, can do all kinds of tricks for a treat, he knows his boundaries and if I leave him outside and tell him to stay in the yard, he knows where the property line is and won't cross, he can sense moods in me and respond if I'm upset, sad, scard, if I get excited he bounces around .. so he can sense how I feel, that's how smart he is.
But, he will stick his wet nose on me everytime, I will flinch with yelp for him to go away .... and he can't fathom that my recoiling away from him means to stop putting his wet nose on me ... yet, he was house-broken in 3 days ... 3 days.
Yeah, like that. Gemini's have the capacity to be smart .......
"Whats going on in his head?"
Ewwwe, ewwwe .... shall we lower the lights, all hold hands in a circle, make ewe/awe sounds and try to penetrate his psyche, try to read his mind?
Or, maybe you could just ask him, since it's his head.
Yeah, the dog syndrome ..... the capacity is present, but, then something just doesn't click.
Ewwwe, ewwwe .... shall we lower the lights, all hold hands in a circle, make ewe/awe sounds and try to penetrate his psyche, try to read his mind?
Or, maybe you could just ask him, since it's his head.
Yeah, the dog syndrome ..... the capacity is present, but, then something just doesn't click.
Cool.
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