i love cancer men

i really do, you guys are sooooo cute ^-^ but damn, how to get you guys to once, SHUT T F UP talking about your exes and all things pasts!!!! enough already!!!!!

pisces

thanks deb *hugs* yes im romantic in a way......so do i have to keep putting up with it? i mean yes! i listen to them stories, i don't mind, but i don't want to listen until i get the impression that he's not over them and then my pisces mind will overanalyze lol and i don't like that. but i don't have the heart to ask him to stop when he's like pouring his heart out, i mustve known all stories about all his exes now hmm i do need him to slow down a little but dont wan't to be misunderstood

In my experience we Cancers do not mention Exs unless we r still in 2 that EX. Once we r in a relationship with someone we adore; we do not even mention our ex unlesswe r asked. May i ask u, did u ask him about his ex? because if u haven't than he is still seeing one or two of them.

yeah, i would just tell him gently, but assertively, that u appreciate the fact that he's opened up to u but that u don't wanna dwell on the sob stories. tell him u wanna move forward and make him feel good instead.

cancershorti, thanks that's actually a good point to know. part of me (intutition) does think he still have feelings for his ex but i know for sure he's not seeing her because her ex's new bf won't allow them to be friends for some stupid reasons. not sure about the rest exes though.

and to answer your question, no i didn't really ask, the convo normally just flown into the exes topic (i've talked about mine but normally just keep it short and simple eventhough i might still have feelings for them)

i'm not too worry but just can't stand hearing about it all the time (gonna do what deb suggested next) even though when i tried to change the subject he was just kept getting into it indirectly and i'm like you know what, i gotta go

(no, i actually didn't do that) lol

is it different cancer male/female? i've got 2 close cancer female friends that just love talking about their exes (salute cancer people and exes lol) one still loves the guy but moving on, and the other one has had a gutful and doesn't have feelings for him anymore, she's just like talking about good/bad things about him like she's mourning or something

yes lol. we've been seeing each other for 5 months

^^^^um...Luckystar... ur wrong... Sex is sex Emotions is something totally different... don't mix the 2... ur buggin

That's what we are made to believe...sex: The art of making LOVE... if u only r with someone for just the sex.. ur mind starts to associate ur feelings with a physical act that makes us feel damn good🙂 with the right person of course...yea but ur right... it is my opinion...

Deb what did u mean when u said this

"If i feel the person hard in love in sex".

Posted by Cancershorti27
In my experience we Cancers do not mention Exs unless we r still in 2 that EX. Once we r in a relationship with someone we adore; we do not even mention our ex unlesswe r asked. May i ask u, did u ask him about his ex? because if u haven't than he is still seeing one or two of them.

I have to disagree. I'm completely over my ex, but I still talk about her. Only when it's relevant to the current subject though. I don't bring it up out of the blue. I know my girl hates it though, so I try to keep it to a minimum, or just say 'Oh some girl I know'. Something like that.

Posted by Cancershorti27
^^^^um...Luckystar... ur wrong... Sex is sex Emotions is something totally different... don't mix the 2... ur buggin

Are you sure you are a Cancer? For me, the two are almost inseparable. I need some sort of emotional foundation first.

lol yes Doman i am a Cancer/Leo🙂... I guess it all depends on the person am sleeping with...If i feel something with that person b4 we become intimiate then thats different...but if i know i don't want anything from that person but the sex than thats what it will be.... just Sex....Doman also if ur constantly talking about ur ex.... in some odd way u r not over him or her....If u so happen to bring that person up because of a subject matter ur discussing than thats okay...but constantly speaking about them...nah... in the back of ur mind u r not fully disconnected.

"i really do, you guys are sooooo cute ^-^ but damn, how to get you guys to once, SHUT T F UP talking about your exes and all things pasts!!!! enough already!!!!!"

-lmao I experienced the same thing with cancer men. I'm pisces too btw.

"(gonna do what deb suggested next)"

I have tried and I am fed up now

Wish I can edit the topic to "I love Cancer men (when they're NOT talking about exes)"

Then they'd be all perfect and cute.

Ok my Cancer has brought exes to the whole different level!!! Even stories in bed (while we were doing "it".) Although they were bad ones but!!! AAAARGHHH!!