Just need a gemini womans perspective please!

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dont want to go into detail much but ive been dealing with a gemini woman for 7 months now. I am really into more than i thought i would. constantly, i potentiate the feeling by being on these forums and just wanting to text her, but i dont give into my emotions much. I know she likes space. so we met unexpectedly, shes a softball player im a track and field-football player. we both attend school in ohio. Im 24 shes 21. Shes a senior and im a first year transfer student from new york. Ive already been acclimated to the real world, im here on scholarship for track and to eventually obtain my degree. Im a sag and shes of course a gemini. september 12 at her house (which is the softball house threw a party) i stumbled upon her house as soon as i walked in the door she immediately approached me lol, i turned me on thinking back on that moment. She made sure i was well taken care of that night and like the many tell tales we here of gemini woman and how easy they are she was sure a hard catch lol. that i like to a certain extent but shes doing it right so i dont mind. Time went on i got busy but kept in touch and she was busy as well. Sometime later in the semester i ran into her at the bar, honestly i proceeded to ignore only because i liked her, it was a test. Eventually, she literally threw herself on me at the bar and hugged for minutes, it was very affectionate. I like that and its rare from the characteristics i see in gemini woman, but her chart explains it all as to the water elements dominate her chart. So after that i said to myself who is this girl. So i pursued her. One night she invited me over on a late saturday (thank god her softball and sorority girls weren't there) we had a couple drinks and talked for a while until she met up with her girls for the bar that night. We kissed then and you know what they say when you kiss someone right away you know "it" so i felt the chemistry right away. Time goes by then we hang out again and she comes over to my dorm room. We were very intimate this time around even though we were suppose to watch a movie i did not suspect her to have any type of sexual encounters with me that day but things happened. We got heated and i went down on her, i was craving to give her oral for some reason, i know she came in wanting this because the grass was pretty cute down there haha. So as our relationship grew stronger i asked her to be my gf which i was not rational on my part because i was convinced by female friends to do it because they said im a ladies man. it backfired. Even after i asked her i said to myself wtf its to soon how childish of me but i cant take that back because i feel for her that way. Winter break comes and we, as i feel, grew much tighter. Before this new years hit i asked her to be my valentine and she said yes. Then the big problem arised as to why im posting this. We engaged in dialogue for quite a bit. i asked her was there someone else.
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she said yes, i have been on and off with this guy for a year now. That hit me hard but i remained cool. i asked her who does she like more and she said she does not really know because he and i are both different. around me she gets butterflies in her stomach, she noted a feeling shes never had. she stares into my eyes with a gloomy look of her own that tells it all. My thing is here, she has been on and off with this dude do i have the upper hand? i went on to say since you said yes to being my valentine i would have thought that being involved with someone for over a year he'd take that spot with no hesitation. So i said i must be doing something right and she gave a big smile and said true you are. Do i continue on to remain cool, calm and collected and wooh this girl on valentines day and get rid of him. like propose an ultimatum. or what i should i do and where do i stand.

excuse the grammatical errors.
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Thanks @blackphase. Thats how i originally viewed things. Does not make sense that for a year on and off with a guy and then i come along and stand a chance. I feel this dude is friend zoned. Shes both sun and moon in gemini. And then theres alot of cancer and scorpio placements. Thats exactly where our chemistry i feel resides. Im a sun in sag but moon in gemini. but chart is dominated by water elements and also i was born on the cusp of scorpio/sag. Now blackphase i was thinking, our valentines day is coming up soon well i have to plan it because i have a track meet in california and she is going to be away for a softball convention in maine for valentines weekend. she told me that upfront but still would like to be my valentine just on another day. i "feel" that the ultimatum should be after our valentines day as to she will then have alot to think about and i should be viewed much more in a positive light.

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@littlemegabyte i think i confused you a bit and thats my apology. When i mentioned backfired that was on behalf of me listening to two female friends of mine who convince me to ask her to be my gf 3 months in, nonetheless, she never said no "exactly" she was real hesitant in her answer. Her answered ended up being she was not ready yet and wanted to get to know me more. And let me say again thats 3 months in. Another error, her and i have been talking 5 months now as of january 4, 2016. I did not before new years ask her to be my gf that was my valentine. Im not going to wait around after our valentines date. Thats where i will then bring up the ultimatum. why would you think she was messing around with me and this other guy? i think if i was on and off with someone for a year now then met someone i was really interested in later, yes i would have feelings for the girl i have been on and off with for a year but thats a bad sign to me. Why did she become sexually involved with me? even though i only went down on her but did not include any penetration. At that point she said she wanted to get to know me more. Honestly i feel she was testing me out sexually lol. She did say " you know what your doing huh" with a smile. So now we are 5 months in, i feel (if you notice i include feel alot, thats my water influence and im very intuitive) we are getting tighter but maybe thats me. I did ask her a question pertaining to life, more so that i can get an understanding of the way she views life and the question was " do you move through life using logic or emotion" she gave a reasonable answer to using logic. So on that note we are opposites who complement each other but at the end of the day im 65% emotion and 35% logic. later in our conversation i said " do you think that having a partner who complements your style of thinking beneficial or would you rather have a duplicate of yourself" she answered opposite as in complementary without a shadow of doubt.
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Posted by handsome101

.... have been on and off with this guy for a year now.

i asked her who does she like more

..... she has been on and off with this dude do i have the upper hand?

Do i continue on to remain cool, calm and collected and wooh this girl on valentines day and get rid of him.

like propose an ultimatum.



What the hell kind of fuckery is this?

upper hands and ultimatums?

Why wouldn't you know where you stood? Have you not been interacting with people since day One of your life?

If she has another man on the side that she is entertaining, as well as you, then she probably also has others that she is flaunting herself around as well. If a person is single, then they have permission to entertain as many suitors as they choose. And when you find this information out about a person you are interesting in ... then you only have two options:

1. be a number, and take your turn at the convenience of both of you
2. step away if you are incapable of being apart of her fold in option #1


why does a person have to be told this?

People aren't objects to be conquered, there is no score.

I just don't get why people aren't learning this as children. At my earliest memories, I've had to deal with other people, in how they regard me so I can adjust my sails ... so why isn't everyone else doing this?

Why are there so many people walking around completely oblivious to their surroundings?


OP - if it looks like a duck, it's a duck
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Oh, I just read your last entry ... you're just another Scorpio playing with minds here.

That's why what you said doesn't make sense ... because you're just manipulating for attention.


Nevermind me ..... carryon

Oh, and btw, you're in a good place for this. There are many Geminis in here thick enough to believe everything you say, even when it doesn't make sense.
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and of course, duh lol. All of which you said are variables and characteristics to any scenario such as this lol. You most certainly ran in circles with your response. Your input was rather colloquial. I furthermore discredit your lag in observation on this forum. After reading this you will no longer be able to comment on this thread as to the many other applicants who rationalize and formulate response that are not under the ordinary will be strongly considered lol.