dear gemini women... what am i doing wrong?

So i started taking to this gemini woman...and My gut said dont you dare.. I used to have a really good friend who was a gemini.. Everyone that got involved with her fell hard.. And i mean hard. Smh now hear i am wondering what is that gets you ladies.. Im not that taken but i wanna prevent the inevitable... What does it take for you ladies to say im give this one a shot.. By the way the gemini and i are both lesbians... Im a virgo... Am i doomed..

virgo, you seem to have decided already so it is therefore inevitably doomed. Shame.

The things I like about dating a virgo are the surprise little gifts like coffee, flowers for no reason, things I may need about the house. Nothing exspensive but just the thought that he was thinking of me while out and about. Don't be to clingy and leave something to the imagination. A little hot and cold but not to much or your gemini will kick you to the curb in no time. That works for me.

Thank you all for the responses.. We are both in our 30. She older than me.. Im 31 she 35.. Our conversations are interesting trying not to bore her... But she has been txt me in good morning often telling me to have a good day... So i dont know if that counts... Again i appreciate everyone response.

that counts a lot, she wouldn't be contacting you often if she didn't like you. She's probably still feeling you out. Careful, gems do things backwards as you already know. She will give you everything up front and then start subtracting without really communicating her likes and dislikes. Just like virgos. But you should be able to get it out of her even if in a round about way.

Back and forth, testing...the only real way to avoid some of that is to be accepting so that she will lower her walls. Careful, she might offend you and come off as insensitive but she probably really is the exact opposite. Gems usually believe every cloud has a silver lining and will sometimes make light of something to either lighten the mood or as a defence mechanism. Your insensitivity will come in the form of criticism. Not meant to harm but to improve. Be careful if she doesn't vanish when hurt, she might snap but will feel bad after and try to make it up to you. Let her, she'll smother you with kindness and love. 🙂

Don't mirror her because she is already doing that to you. It's automatic. lol

Great advice gemeliorist... I get what your saying... I will definatly take things slow and be accepting.. Its hard to figure her out, but i just want it to dissipate..

Posted by keepitrealz
Its hard to figure her out, but i just want it to dissipate..

Please explain this to me. I can never understand why people say this as gems are an open book. Thank you.

Gemeliorist... Maybe it just me over thinking it... Which i probably am... Virgo quality... But for example... She will text me good morning i txt back.... And then later... Like wheb i get off work... Illl txt her hows her day.. Nothing... And for me im dont like smothering people over txt.. Like coaxing to get a response... Shouldnt have to do that... My mind set is to let her come to me... Idk... Like i said overthink it... Any regards to this..... I just cant txt throughot the day cause my job and im in meetings a lot.

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Posted by keepitrealz
Gemeliorist... Maybe it just me over thinking it... Which i probably am... Virgo quality... But for example... She will text me good morning i txt back.... And then later... Like wheb i get off work... Illl txt her hows her day.. Nothing... And for me im dont like smothering people over txt.. Like coaxing to get a response... Shouldnt have to do that... My mind set is to let her come to me... Idk... Like i said overthink it... Any regards to this..... I just cant txt throughot the day cause my job and im in meetings a lot.

She seems to be mirroring you and giving you space. Two things we do very well. She understands that you can't text all day, people have things to do. Gems are very understanding and practical. Ask her why she doesn't respond....she might not want to scare you away....and is being careful of every step. Tell her and show her exactly what you want and she will probably give it to you if she likes you. That's how you can tell, if you are unsure.

I've walked away from several virgos and it wasn't because I didn't like them (with the exception of only one with scorp venus and mars. Just NOPE)...It didn't seem like they really wanted to know me....I realized later from them telling me (years) that they were just reserved, shy, insecure.... waiting for me....WHATTT?

Gems can be insecure, but those feelings don't stay for long. However it keeps coming back, like us....

It all came down to a lack of communication, because somethings need to be said. What does both of your charts look like anyway?

Where do i get our charts