Gemini Woman Silent(Help)

I'm currently dating this Gemini Woman and she tells me she likes me and she holds my hand when we're together and hugged me so hard.. she's the conservative type actually... but sometimes she's so talkative then silent... nowadays she always says she's happy talking to me and I see that she's the first one to initiate the Goodmorning, Goodnight and if she wants to talk... but when we were talking she goes silent but still answers then asked her if what's wrong she said she has that part of her that always wants to be silent... and lately she also told me that she hopes she understands that she has this cold part of her that she wants to be silent for a moment... 😢 I'm just worried but whenever I confront her if she wanted to be friends she always says no and we should move forward... It's bothering me but I do like her

I'm a Sagittarius

Posted by theDomino
"but sometimes she's so talkative then silent"

We do that. Scope the person out and see how they respond. We reflect a lot of energies. She likes you, obviously, but she needs time to not only open up but to adjust. We adapt very quickly, but adjusting, emotionally, can take some time.

" I confront her if she wanted to be friends she always says no and we should move forward"

Please elaborate...

Cause I thought maybe she's just trying to like me and I don't want that so I told her if she wants to be friends with me not as a couple because I don't want to ruin the bond we have right now... she told me "NO" and she doesn't want us to be just friends... she always tells me she likes me and all but sometimes she's silent and all...

Ehhh… let her relish in her silence. She may just need to recharge her batteries a bit, especially is she is secretly an introvert. Take the time to keep loving yourself and let her know you don't need her to be not-silent all the time. Buy her some fun colored duct tape and see what she does with it during Quiet Time.

Posted by buyonegetone
Ehhh… let her relish in her silence. She may just need to recharge her batteries a bit, especially is she is secretly an introvert. Take the time to keep loving yourself and let her know you don't need her to be not-silent all the time. Buy her some fun colored duct tape and see what she does with it during Quiet Time.

so is it ok if there's a day we would rest from chatting too much.. Is it okay if I wait for her to contact me? I don't want to be so clingy to her because she might get bored or tired... Whenever we're together it's so fun but when it's chatting we ended up watching a movie 😛

Gems have many personalities inside, and one of hers is the silent type. Allow it to exist without being insecure, and your bond will become even stronger. We need time that is only for us. Yes, it's fine to have "silent days". 🙂

I'm a more reserved Gemini. My Virgo placements are strong. I tend to be introverted. I like to be out and about. But I need my me time too.
I go through talkative, happy bouts. Then I just want silence and calm.
Just hang in there. Let her know you are there and you understand she needs some peace. She will respect that.

Posted by GeminiGem
I'm a more reserved Gemini. My Virgo placements are strong. I tend to be introverted. I like to be out and about. But I need my me time too.
I go through talkative, happy bouts. Then I just want silence and calm.
Just hang in there. Let her know you are there and you understand she needs some peace. She will respect that.

I'm the same! ^^

Posted by retrogradexy
She is not interested bro

I think you're wrong I don't know suddenly the mood change she was so lively and she introduced me to her whole family... and I mean WHOLE! and they knew exactly what my background is.. then I confronted her and told me there's a moment she's so deep in her thoughts.. silent but eventually get back to reality... Oh yeah.. she's a Gemini Taurus Cusp so now I understand a bit that she shares two personality the Gemini and Taurus 😛 then when I hugged her and kissed her she blushed and covered her face then hugged me again... I think not all Geminis are pure Gemini because of the cusp thingy

Hump her good mate she will be alrite then. Don't be a good boy, talk dirty to her. You need to keep her mind stimulated. Gemini woman comes out as a lady type in public but they are the classy sluts inside the bedroom. By the way are you a Sag cusp as well?