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My Gemini ex girl won't leave me alone
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Block her on all social media platforms and change your contact information if necessary. Keep your new partner informed and avoid engaging with her to prevent escalation. Focus on your current relationship and stay firm in your boundaries to protect your peace.
sounds to me that the gem has some preconceived notions that the two of you might work things out and get back together.
just tell her that it's over and that's final. don't respond her her when she contacts you and your aries girl. the more you respond, the more gem is apt to think that somehow the two of you will work it out and get back together. if she keeps sending msg's to you and your aries girl, just delete them, WITHOUT reading them. the more you read, the more upset both of you will be. and neither one of you shouldn't feel that you have to explain yourselves to the gem. she made her bed, now let her lay in it.
if you have to, keep her on ignore. have your aries girl put her on ignore too. change your cell # if you have to. i know it seems like alot to do, but it will also show your aries girl that your willing to get work done to be with her. in my experience with aries women, they will be patient, but in time they will become impatient if they feel that you haven't taken care of business.
i wish you and your aries girl good luck and happiness! 🙂
just tell her that it's over and that's final. don't respond her her when she contacts you and your aries girl. the more you respond, the more gem is apt to think that somehow the two of you will work it out and get back together. if she keeps sending msg's to you and your aries girl, just delete them, WITHOUT reading them. the more you read, the more upset both of you will be. and neither one of you shouldn't feel that you have to explain yourselves to the gem. she made her bed, now let her lay in it.
if you have to, keep her on ignore. have your aries girl put her on ignore too. change your cell # if you have to. i know it seems like alot to do, but it will also show your aries girl that your willing to get work done to be with her. in my experience with aries women, they will be patient, but in time they will become impatient if they feel that you haven't taken care of business.
i wish you and your aries girl good luck and happiness! 🙂
He has been ignoring her .. that's what he said .. to no avail.
What I would do is ... you and Aries girl write a messege to her together, and let Gemini girl know that this message is from both of you, so she can't later come back and tell her (Aries) that your really loving on her(Gem).
Then after this final message saying to go screw herself, you both ignore all messages coming from her.
What I would do is ... you and Aries girl write a messege to her together, and let Gemini girl know that this message is from both of you, so she can't later come back and tell her (Aries) that your really loving on her(Gem).
Then after this final message saying to go screw herself, you both ignore all messages coming from her.
Wow. I've heard of crazy Geminis, but this one is up there.
Continue to ignore her. There are only so many venues that she can contact you on, and if you block her on all of them... well, there you have it!
It may be a hassle to change your phone number, because you may have important contacts that have that number, so just block her calls, screen her to death.
If you really want to know what to do, elicit advice from your own girlfriend. Tell her that you've done everything you can think of and you need help. I had an ex-boyfriend who had a PSYCHOTIC ass ex-girlfriend who went to the same school as me. She would make comments around me about him, saying how he called her or was at her house, when I was on the phone with him all night, or with him during the time he was supposedly at her house. She was the one calling him, or trying to pop up at his place. The best thing he ever did was tell me everything that happened and ask me for advice. I would never trust the other girl, but I trusted him. And after that, nothing she said ever crossed my mind twice.
Continue to ignore her. There are only so many venues that she can contact you on, and if you block her on all of them... well, there you have it!
It may be a hassle to change your phone number, because you may have important contacts that have that number, so just block her calls, screen her to death.
If you really want to know what to do, elicit advice from your own girlfriend. Tell her that you've done everything you can think of and you need help. I had an ex-boyfriend who had a PSYCHOTIC ass ex-girlfriend who went to the same school as me. She would make comments around me about him, saying how he called her or was at her house, when I was on the phone with him all night, or with him during the time he was supposedly at her house. She was the one calling him, or trying to pop up at his place. The best thing he ever did was tell me everything that happened and ask me for advice. I would never trust the other girl, but I trusted him. And after that, nothing she said ever crossed my mind twice.
And me and the ex-girlfriend were both Geminis by the way. So not all Gems are crazy lol.
Yo, thanks for the advice, this helps alot. I did change my number once when she just wouldn't leave me alone and was disrupting my sleep and whatnot. I don't want to do it again because my number is tied to my business (I fix cars) and I don't really want to be explaining the change, though if it gets crazy, I guess I wouldn't have a choice.
The thing is, this girl didn't say shit to me for a year and then as soon as I get into school, get a girl and all that, she comes back around wanting to talk shit. It's like, she didn't give a shit about me when I was struggling, but now I prove I don't need her azz, here she come. And I say that I am not a confrontational guy in that I don't and won't put my hands on a female. She know that and I sometimes think she takes this to the limit because she knows I won't kick her azz on the real. I guess I hoped she would try to jump on somebody else's dick and leave me alone, and she probably will. My twin sis said "Watch, you pretend you want to get with her again and she will run like a nigga is after her with two guns. The more you igg her, that's what makes her like that. She don't want you, she just wants to know she can get you."
I understand that and if I was single, I'd just ignore it, but she act like she wants to do whatever it takes to mess me and my girl up and I'm not going to let that happen.
The thing is, this girl didn't say shit to me for a year and then as soon as I get into school, get a girl and all that, she comes back around wanting to talk shit. It's like, she didn't give a shit about me when I was struggling, but now I prove I don't need her azz, here she come. And I say that I am not a confrontational guy in that I don't and won't put my hands on a female. She know that and I sometimes think she takes this to the limit because she knows I won't kick her azz on the real. I guess I hoped she would try to jump on somebody else's dick and leave me alone, and she probably will. My twin sis said "Watch, you pretend you want to get with her again and she will run like a nigga is after her with two guns. The more you igg her, that's what makes her like that. She don't want you, she just wants to know she can get you."
I understand that and if I was single, I'd just ignore it, but she act like she wants to do whatever it takes to mess me and my girl up and I'm not going to let that happen.
Aries girlfriend is probably gonna loose patience w/this crazy Gem, LOL, and when she does, it will only heighten the Gems interest, so the GF has to get and keep her mind right and you also have to keep that Aries reassured of status quo between the two of you, work for you my friend, but sounds like you are willing to do the work.
IF you decide to have ANY further contact w/gem, don't put gf in her face, but, close the doors and keep them that away, COMPLETE/CLOSURE is more than likely what she is after, but if it is "some kind" of revenge in her mind, figure it out, she wont quite til she thinks she has it, then, some manipulation of facts might be required to make her "think" she won, all the while, you an your life keep going on as normal.
Silence and lots of time might work, but, if she seeks Closure, she might just not quite til she gets it, or maybe something she was not expecting, like harassment charges!
GOOD LUCK!
IF you decide to have ANY further contact w/gem, don't put gf in her face, but, close the doors and keep them that away, COMPLETE/CLOSURE is more than likely what she is after, but if it is "some kind" of revenge in her mind, figure it out, she wont quite til she thinks she has it, then, some manipulation of facts might be required to make her "think" she won, all the while, you an your life keep going on as normal.
Silence and lots of time might work, but, if she seeks Closure, she might just not quite til she gets it, or maybe something she was not expecting, like harassment charges!
GOOD LUCK!
You know u really liked it nov_scorp 😉
Maybe he had Scorpio influences LOL
Maybe he had Scorpio influences LOL
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