Our twin.

Why does everyone hate/complain about our "other" side?

I mean everyone has qualities that come out at certain different times depending on their mood, situation, environment and so on... why do we get hated on when our evil side shows? While the rest of the signs (and EVERYONE has an evil side) dont get hated on when they act our and say/do something that usually isnt in their personality. Everyone is so weary of the gemini "twin". Everyone says geminis are all good and well until the "other side" shows.

Sometimes I dont even know who my evil twin is.. but lately i've started to realise when it comes out.. and most times its when I say something I definatly shouldnt and I sound like a totally different person lol, or I push and push (verbally) until someone gets really hurt or I get told im being a mean bitch.

Haha Just ignore them.

People seldom know how to appreciate the positives so they will dwell on the negatives and try to use that as a reason/excuse to fuel their animosity. Unfortunately for us, we're communicators, so we bring things out in the open; thus, are targeted as a result.

Good thing nobody here has seen my evil twin. 😄

Exactly.

haha

I can probably recall similar stories when I'm that pissed off.

LOL at maddy "told him to go fuck himself" hahaha GO GIRL!!! I've been wanting to tell my pisces boss for 4 years to go fuck himself and DIE but everytime I get close to losing my cool, he'll turn around and suck up my ass.

The day I leave this joint, i'll definately tell him something that he wouldnt expect from my mouth but then again who knows because i'll need a good reference from him :p lol

Pisces are evil.

lol

I might be citing that same Gemini reaction here if you guys if you interpret this wrong.... do not take it as a flaming.

Basically keep in mind that you view it as "pushing me" when really it's a gentle tap.
You feel pushed because your mechanism for taking information and layering it across your persona is VERY VERY sensitive.

For example: The whole flirting thing.. look I know you view it as perfectly normal to give strange men (if you're a Gemini female) the same loving attention you give me. (your boyfriend or husband) but the remaining 11 signs would starkly disagree with you. Remember only YOU know what's going on in your head. We only can guess based on "Well she's drunk and hanging on this guy she let sit down with her. Hardly the actions of a married woman" and you "snap" because you felt pushed by someone judging you.... Frankly I can't bring any sympathy here. I've dated a Gemini woman and clearly Virgo is NOT the best match at all based on zodiacs.. but I can tell you this.. I am the one sign that does NOT have to defend it's intellect. We may be the black sheep of the signs and all... we may be the most annoying but it's because usually with the whole "thinking stuff" we are right and have sniper rifle accuracy with our logic and analysis... Either way, it lends to the fact that our assessment of "Gemini you are out of line" is not far fetched or pushing it...

So try to look at yourselves.. I feel so much for that girl and a lot of it is sadness. You enable your own self destructive BAD CHOICES when you justify them with "He started it"

You are also very casual with people's hearts and feelings. Just know that you are always adored and a lot of the signs are attracted to you because you do play the nice, fun loving, trustworthy and "victim" card to a professional level.

I have found that this sole excessive social behavior is the sole root of what breaks down the Gemini-Virgo romance.

If it weren't for that.. Gemini could just cool it for maybe a week and act like they care about their BF and want to be with them first and foremost.. and if Virgo could just chill out and realize that flirting isn't f0cking... and you have Gemini's undying loyalty... we'd work out! 😄

There are a lot of benefits. Virgo provides the intellectual stimulation Gemini craves.
Gemini provides social access that most Virgos typically would be denied...
it's actually a great mix...
just take out the one element of their juxtaposed resting

Posted this on the Virgo forum:

MMMMMMMM...... NO! I hear what you're saying, but that Mercurian intellect is one thing, but fastidiousness without flexibility is another. Virgos will never understand a Gemini because you have "Laws", sorry, we create our own.

So what, we flirt. Takes a tough person to be with us anyway. My woman would understand this, and flirt with me. Not be whiny about it, saying that this isn't 'normal' behavior. Furthermore, the other 11 signs that you speak of is a generality, a language that you Virgos don't even speak. Nice try though, and you'd be wrong. We are not the only ones that knows what's going on in our heads. Example: You don't, yet very "special" someone's do. Don't get it twisted, daddio. The ones that 'do', don't post things like what you're saying.

By casual, I assume you mean the general definition of the word based on the marketing of a few individuals. Tsk Tsk. That's not how we roll, bruh. See, you don't get "It". There is an "It" to get.

I'm very familiar with the Virgo male, Gemini female relationships. Virgo men give the girl the illusion of security. When in fact, it's her that's holding your ass together. YOU suffer from worrying about shit you can't control. She, knows there is no such thing as control. You have stomach issues, don't you? However, I've never met a Virgo man that didn't "Roam" the pastures.

If people weren't so damn weak about their feelings they wouldn't get hurt so easily. This life, not a personal "Me" show. Fuck that. Too much is at stake. We've known that shit since birth. That, is truth.

If people want to actually know what's going on inside of our heads, they can always just ask a question and shut the fuck up. We'll talk to you, explain to you, and love you for allowing us to do so. You will learn something about yourself that you didn't know that we knew. Just sayin.

If someone sees the "dark side" come out of me, it's not because I'm too sensitive or overlooking other people's feelings. You have to REALLY push to get to see it, and by the time you've pushed that hard you deserve whatever scary reaction you get. The people who get to see it are the ones who take advantage of my being laid back and think they can walk on me. Or people who are behaving unfairly to others. If you're the kind of person who takes advantage of people or treats them unfairly, then I have no trouble putting you in your place with whatever intensity the situation merits.

I don't know how typical Virgos are but my 1st husband was a Virgo and he was controlling and played the victim perectly. I was an immature Gemini, we met at 16 and married at 19, and I allowed myself to dance to his tune for 12 years. When I had enough and pulled away he didn't handle it well at all. Turns out him leaving me was just a ploy to get me back in line and under his thumb. Backfired of course because all I saw was a perfect chance to get the hell out. Last I heard he was still telling people I abandoned him and just up and moved to a different state. I did move but he left the marital home first so he is the victim only in his mind. That's one of the reasosn I caution people about "testing" others. You may not like the results. I can honestly say that I didn't flirt with anyone during my 12 year marriage. I knew my exhusband couldn't take it and I didn't want to spend days reassuring him.
I never asked him to change, I just accepted him for who he was and I would have stayed if he he hadn't left me first.

Since then I have cultivated my flirting skills rather nicely if I do say so myself. My Libra ex didn't like it one bit and went overboard. He would accuse me of flirting if I just looked around the room. With the Leo, he himself doesn't flirt but be has no problem with me flirting. He thought before he jumped to conclusions. He told me that he noticed I flirted completely different with others than I do with him. He saw the flirting with others for what it was, strictly surface level. He gets me and I don't have to stifle my personality, which is good because 12 years was a long ass time to stifle a Gemini.

Here is an example of what it takes to get my twin to jump out and get mean. I was 30 years old and had driven 2 hours to be with a friend while her son had surgery to REMOVE part of his leg after a horrible accident. I spent the first 2 days holding my girlfriend up. I never left the hospital but after 2 days I decided to get some sleep. I took a nap in the back of her SUV. After that I woke up and drove to get another friend from the airport who had flown in to be with our friend as well. She wanted to stop and get something to eat on our way back to the hospital. This whole time I kept my shit together for my friend and her son but I was horrified and traumatized at seeing this poor boy lose a parts of his leg in sections at a time until the leg was gone from above the knee. So here we are waiting in the parking lot for a car to pull out. Their was a car behind me who I thought just got tired of waiting behind me. Nope, they backed up and went around the opposite way and I shit you not but this gal whipped into that parking spot I had been patiently waiting on. I honked my horn and she ignored me. When she got out of her car and refused to even make eye contact...that's when something snapped. I drove my car up and parked behind her. Without raising my voice I told her she saw me waiting for this spot so don't try and play dumb with me. Told her straight up that if she didn't get back in her car and move out of that spot then I would sit here for hours if necessary but she will not be leaving until I decided to move my car. My friend said she had never seen me like that. She said pure hatred was coming out of me and my eyes even changed colors. Apparently the gal stood there for a few minutes debating on whether or not to move her car and I started yelling things that I don't even think I understood. The girl ran back to her car and moved it. That was 7 years ago and my friend still tells everybody about the time GeminiDahl lost her shit and stared speaking in tongues.

It was a very stressful time. I also got a speeding ticket when I took that friend back to the airport. Same thing happened between me and the cop. I was going 68 in 65 and I was being passed by every fucking car on the highway but my ass with the out of state plates gets pulled over. I argued with him, I pointed my finger, I actually threw my license at him. My friend kept telling me I was going to get arrested. I don't know why I didn't but the cop just gave m

....Me a "warning". Friend said I snapped just like I did a few days before.

The darks are as equally important! so don't complain people refuse to see the dark for its difficult. Being balanced means to see the light and the dark and meet at the fulcrum of the seesaw.

http://www.rainbowbody.net/HeartMind/satchitananda.htm

there is no light if darkness never existed. No cold if there is no heat. (well crappy example. i guess..haha coldness doesnt exist period)

i love both sides of all my gemini friends! i appreciate their good side even more and without their bad the good doesnt exist.

Different facets of the same jewel 🙂

Good to read everyone's juicy stories lol BUT what I wanted to know was when everyone ELSE looses their shit no one says anything but when a GEMINI looses their shit and our "evil twin" comes out, everyone freaks and then we get called 2faced etc etc.

Why is it okay for everyone else to flare their nostrils and start charging but when a GEMINI does it OoOoOoOoO its a GEMINIIIIII lol.

WHY!!!

Posted by Norcalman67
My guess is others flare and get angry, (IE. wear their emotions on the surface for all to see and read) whereas the GEM is loathsome to reveal their inner self to just anyone. So, when we loose it, it's unexpected and "Rare".

Aha.. I understand and I can see this point of view.

That's a great assessment. I posted a thread about that a while ago. Society seems to have the other 11 signs grasping at straws, whereas we seem to be our natural mutable selves. It's a great time to be a Gemini, not so much for the others based on what I see on dxp. *shrugs* Better them than me.

Hehe

I think it's a combination of everything. People are just too judgmental. I can agree with some Gem traits, but I never ever wager the person's individuality/environment/upbringing/life style /the list goes on. Surely, there aren't just 12 personalities in this universe; and those who believe it are too ignorant to make any qualifying validity in judging us or anyone else.

So who cares? Just laugh when they accuse you of being a Gemini. 😛 I'd rather be that than a close-minded fool.

Nuh Uhhhh..... All water signs are whiny! 🙂

I admire water signs' passionate approach to love, but when they start drowning themselves and you and everything else in their misery... It's just so overwhelming because it's near impossible for them to snap out of it.

Posted by Norcalman67
My guess is others flare and get angry, (IE. wear their emotions on the surface for all to see and read) whereas the GEM is loathsome to reveal their inner self to just anyone. So, when we loose it, it's unexpected and "Rare".

What he said.

People simply don't expect it, so when it happens they're literally scared: "My god, if this Gem can lose it at the drop of a hat, they could lose it ANY time and I won't know it's coming!" They thought they had us pegged, and now we're suddenly unpredictable. That freaks people out.

What they don't understand is that it DIDN'T happen at the drop of a hat- it had been building either because they (or someone like them) kept pushing. My first instincts are to sidestep conflict or laugh it away. If someone keeps pushing past those defenses, then they're backing me into a corner. Anything backed into a corner will fight.

Oh, man, I scared my sister. She's 25, and I've never raised my voice to her in her life. She's pretty self-centered and makes everyone revolve around her schedule, but I've always let it go because I don't see it as a huge deal. One day she was asking me to reschedule a family gathering so that she could take a personal trip. We had some confusing texts, and she ended up thinking I wasn't willing to cooperate. She got snippy and said I was being selfish and shouldn't have a problem because she never asks for much. She caught me at just the right moment of PMS and lack of caffeine, and I let her have it. The next time we saw each other, she said she was now frightened of me because that side of me might jump out and get her at any moment. You can bet she's been a model of politeness ever since!

A gemini flirt with an atm machine... *blinks* .....

What I wanna know is if anyone has a name for their twin—? 😉 Mine's name's Gem. Truth!

I love gemini's sides it keeps things interesting. as a virgo i know we're one extreme or another and get quite vicious. i do however strongly dislike scorpio's fake side. but for Gems? nahhh. you guys are too funny and clever for me to "hate" your my entertainment =] i find the temper tantrums kinda cute. (possibly cuz i fell quite hard for a gemini once who ended up going back home to europe, still friends a year later. but he was everything i could have possibly wanted)

PS... I think its because you guys are so nice, that no one expects it.
for example:

when i date a guy and he's a sweetie, If he gets mad or says something jerkish its like OMGG why would u say that??

where as if i date a jerk and he does something sweet its like awww what a softie. he does something jerkish again and its like - oh thats just him...

i like to be pleasantly surprised unexpectedly then be shocked by something i wasnt expecting...

we expect asshole behaviors from ppl who are constantly like that and it seems tolorable. yet from fun loving nice peolpe
its not expected so people tend to not want to tolorate it because it doesnt fit into that persons character and end up with things like "whoa wats their problem"

if any of that makes sense. im terrible at explaining things o.O

Posted by GeminiMind
What I wanna know is if anyone has a name for their twin—? 😉 Mine's name's Gem. Truth!

I don't, but a guy I dated did. He called her "Heather" (after all the b*tches in the movie "Heathers", I think)🙂

My Gem friend Sissy has a sister who calls Sissy's twin "Pissy"! LOL!

Ooooh I don't have a name for mine yet. Will have to unleash her and name her ass!

One of my best friends who is a taurus named mine "Kimberley" because that name is bitchy apprently and so is my twin side lol.

When I start "acting out" shes like "oh hey kim" haha

Posted by TasteOfChaos
I've never seen the "gemini twin" either... and I know HEAPS of Geminis.

I think maybe I have seen it on ONE girl only... she is a double gem (sun & moon) she is the biggest two faced bitch I know... and not very well liked. We used to be friends. She is NICE as pie when you are her mate, but once you cross over to the other side... YIKES!!

Oh nooo! my youngest is a double gem too. she can get those aries boys wrapped around her finger! one of grandma's friends is even buying her things now and giggling. (he use to be SO grumpy!)

my gem guy who i fell for was also a double gem. biggest sweetie ever. i saw his grumpy "if i dont get it my way the way I want it i dont want it at all" side .... but i thought it was cute lol

Makes perfect sense. I like the way you put things into perspective.

Why hide?? 🙂

Why so serious?

Geminis... pst. What a bunch of evil cannibals. 😛

It's what everyone else said about it being unexpected that flips people out about our other side. But I'll add a little onto it... It's more than that. From what my friends tell me, they compliment me on being so cool, laid back, and level headed, even when someone is a dick and attacks us. I've always been known to be cool and calm under pressure. But then when they see me flip out, it's like they don't even know me anymore, they woulda placed money on it that I would never flip out. This even happens when I get all excited, or moreso than usual, they're somehow surprised by it. Even when I just get a little upset, they're like "wow calm down"..even when I feel like I've barely raised my voice and still pretty cool and collected(it actually pisses me off more when they tell me to calm down when I feel pretty in control still)..it's almost as if they think I'm going to lose it and they're afraid of what would happen because they've never seen me lose my cool.

Also, my friends tell me they like being around me when something goes wrong because I barely flinch and act calm. It's like I help them stay calm. So when I flip out, it's like they've lost their security blanket. 😛

Just my way of looking at it.

But what's interesting, is that when I'm going through a difficult time in my life, everyone seems to be very reactionary and scared of me, even when I feel like I'm barely showing any emotion at all. I agree highly that it seems like everyone else always gets away with their nastiness, but when a Gemini does it, they run for the hills!
Unfortunately I have an Aries rising, so I've got some striking ability and energy that comes out a lot more than most Geminis, so I get those reactions a lot more than most....that damn Aries energy is really strong and it throws people for a loop when I'm laid back one minute, then all excited and high energy the next.

For all you non Geminis out there, we're really nice peaceful people who just want to have fun and be merry. Go stepping on our toes and ruin our fun and you'll be hearing about it!