Plans(ish)

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Manana
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9 Years

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I met a gem guy last month online and we've typically been meeting up twice a week for dinner/drinks/coffee etc. He joined me and friends after my birthday dinner and I've met a couple of his friends socially too.

My question is he doesn't seem to seek me out, he's coming across as quite blasè with plans. I was away weekend last week so we didnt see each other for like 10 days but we kept in constant communication. So yesterday i said why don't you come over Friday if you dont have plans. And he said....."Sure, I'll let you know". Whaatttttttt...im i reading too much into it?
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Moonbutter
@Moonbutter
10 Years5,000+ Posts

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Posted by Manana

Today what i noticed were two things: it seems like he is hesitant about being affectionate with me BUT he is totally thinking long term, abiut the future and the plans we'll have. Why is this so hard?! 😃

Hah! Don’t fall for us trap/crap 😝 Gen love to talk about future, big ideas but it all talk until actions back it up. Go slow, get to know him and maybe let him know you would like a bit more affection or show him since they like to mirror 😉