Please help me....Gems

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Tete
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I was born in June 18th.

To keep a gem you have to be interesting, as soon as we get bored we wander off.
We also like to chase a bit, so dont be available all the time, keep her guessing from time to time.
Dates have to be super interesting, talk about any topic and ask her opinion about it, we love to hear us talk.
Ask her about what she likes.
Treat her like if she is amazing and fascinating, we do like that as well.
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Pluviophile
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11 YearsScorpio

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Posted by Whimsy
I'm June 15 and second what Tete said. DO show that you're interested and interesting, fun, and find her a great companion, but DO NOT come off as being too into her too quickly. We need a minute to decide how we feel about you, and will be gone so quickly your head will spin if we feel you are moving faster than we are. Give her air and move slowly.


It will be pleasure to know more.
Please tell me something more about different aspects. 🙂
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Aww, geez...are you a Scorpio?

Well, it's your lucky day because I have a crapload of experience with how a June 15th girl gets along with a Scorpio man. Here are tips:

Be careful not to try to control her in any way. She's a free agent, and is around you because she WANTS to be. If you put chains on her, she'll disappear.

Be jealous if you must, but KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. She will not be sympathetic to that forever and it will cause problems. Don't make her feel responsible for your feelings.

She isn't "moody". Scorpios get moody, but Gems get personality shifts. There are a lot of people inside of her, and they will come and go at random. You'll have to get used to it, and also get used to the fact that there will always be aspects of herself that are private and off-limits.

Don't be loud, rude, cheap, crass, clingy, or arrogant. Do be inventive, adventurous, intelligent, and noncritical of her whims. Don't underestimate the sexiness of a good vocabulary and deep conversation.

She needs to be into you before you get too close. Getting close to someone is a slow, cerebral process for her, so just be patient and friendly and available without being too eager.

Experiences are better gifts than objects. It's not a good idea to give gifts of objects until you're officially together.



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Pluviophile
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11 YearsScorpio

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Posted by Whimsy
Aww, geez...are you a Scorpio?

Well, it's your lucky day because I have a crapload of experience with how a June 15th girl gets along with a Scorpio man. Here are tips:

Be careful not to try to control her in any way. She's a free agent, and is around you because she WANTS to be. If you put chains on her, she'll disappear.

Be jealous if you must, but KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. She will not be sympathetic to that forever and it will cause problems. Don't make her feel responsible for your feelings.

She isn't "moody". Scorpios get moody, but Gems get personality shifts. There are a lot of people inside of her, and they will come and go at random. You'll have to get used to it, and also get used to the fact that there will always be aspects of herself that are private and off-limits.

Don't be loud, rude, cheap, crass, clingy, or arrogant. Do be inventive, adventurous, intelligent, and noncritical of her whims. Don't underestimate the sexiness of a good vocabulary and deep conversation.

She needs to be into you before you get too close. Getting close to someone is a slow, cerebral process for her, so just be patient and friendly and available without being too eager.

Experiences are better gifts than objects. It's not a good idea to give gifts of objects until you're officially together.





yup I am a scorpio 9th november. Thanks for sharing this treasure 🙂
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gemini64
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Posted by Pluviophile
Want to know about this girl with DOB 15th of June 1992, how to should I treat her?
How to keep her?



stimulate her mind first and the rest will come.

don't be overbearing. we gems don't like to be pushed into a corner.

great conversations about numerous topics and throw in a sense of humor. (irony and sarcasm) as long as it's not condescending to her or making fun of other people.

invite her to do some fun activity that's not overtly romantic. IE: bowling or a comedy club.

most of all, be her friend FIRST. that is huge. nothing turned me off more when i was dating than a guy who went in for the kill before we were even connected as friends.
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You're going to hear more talking than you've every heard in your life if you're with a Gem. Let her do it because it's how she feels connected to you. Always respond when she speaks; she's expecting a conversation even when she's just making a statement and not asking a question.

She's going to be wildly enthusiastic about a lot of things you find silly (especially her "project of the moment"). Be enthusiastic and supportive, and then forget about it when she gets bored of it and wanders on to something else.

Variety and new experiences are essential.

Listen carefully when she talks about her likes and dislikes and surprise her by remembering and taking the lead in planning fun things to do.

Sometimes a Scorpio man (not ALL of them, of course) will make a woman join him in his world instead of blending the woman's world with his (if that makes sense). Don't do this, because it won't fly once she figures out she's not being treated equally. Make sure her interests, hobbies, family, and friends are every bit as important as yours in your relationship.