NoLove
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Signs a Gemini man is falling for you?
Okay back to reality.. We never got the time to talk about us cause in his mind we are still dating, but a part of me has moved on and I don’t know how to tell him. Maybe I have nothing to worry about, maybe that was one of his games to get me to open my legs for him.. I’m so confused.
And oh I'm a Taurus and I have no Air placements in my chart.. I don't know why I keep attracting Air signs.
Posted by muffle_kerfuffleLol 😄 I guess it is obvious and I can feel it too even though I try so hard to ignore it.. The thing is I don't think I'll ever trust him again, after the whole ex drama and him being distant and all.. I used to be so confused by him being ditatched that sometimes I would send him text messages saying I hope he's okay and that I miss him then give him his space cause I didn't know what else to do.
He had sex with you and is playful. Isn't it obvious?
I don't know if I want to go back to that again 😢
Did you ever say anything about not being in contact or how his ex coming back into his life hurt you? Those are important conversations to have.
Posted by xtinaIt's complicated, he never talked about his ex to me.. He used to tell our mutual friend and she would send me those messages.. At some point the ex posted on his facebook wall, and that's when I decided to confront him about it and when I did he told me almost everything. He always said he never wants to hurt me and that day I told him how hurt I am, that's when I could see how disappointed he was in himself. He told me that the last thing he wanted was to hurt me like that.
Did you ever say anything about not being in contact or how his ex coming back into his life hurt you? Those are important conversations to have.
What I appreciated that time was the fact that he didn't run around or try to escape when I confronted him but that he told me the truth without hesitation, not knowing I already knew. I appreciate honesty and to me that says a lot about a person. That's when I told him that I understand and we can be friends, it will give him time to sort out his ex situation and decide what he really wants. That's when he said he'd rather die than be my friend.. He's attracted to me and he can't just be a friend.
The moving was not only due to the financial situation he was facing but also a fresh start for him from his ex cause she used to show up on his doorstep without warning and that used to irritate him since he had me now. It's like she felt he was moving on or something. I don't think I want to touch that subject with him right now or ever, I just don't think I will trust him enough to be in a committed relationship with him. If I continue seeing him I will continue dating other people as well till I find the right one.
Posted by muffle_kerfuffleYep! So true.Posted by NoLoveIt's right for you to protect yourself. An ex should never be in the picture, ever.Posted by muffle_kerfuffleLol 😄 I guess it is obvious and I can feel it too even though I try so hard to ignore it.. The thing is I don't think I'll ever trust him again, after the whole ex drama and him being distant and all.. I used to be so confused by him being ditatched that sometimes I would send him text messages saying I hope he's okay and that I miss him then give him his space cause I didn't know what else to do.
He had sex with you and is playful. Isn't it obvious?
I don't know if I want to go back to that again 😢click to expand
Especially this one since they shared something very deep.. He always wanted a baby, well he still does and at some point in their 4 year relationship she got preggie and he promised to do everything for her and the baby, he even said he wants to marry her and she agreed.. Time went and she vanished, nowhere to be contacted, he got so worried and stressed, tried to look for her with no luck.. 2 months later she comes back saying she aborted the baby, that she wasn't ready.. Mind you he paid for her college tuition till she graduated, he was taking care of her in every way possible.. But she still wanted to party and have fun with her life, nothing wrong with that I guess.
I'm not God so I won't judge other people and their life choices but I guess that was a deal breaker for him.
Her coming back and wanting to have his baby is her trying to make up for her past mistakes I guess.
Posted by littlemegabytes
When a Gemini man likes you? It's pretty clear:
Jealous, clingy, interrogations, nonstop messaging, possessive, all around crazy but sweet, lots of gifts, questions about yourself, and is insistent on being exclusive. 😄
Well .... maybe that's just my Gemini guy because he has a scorp moon
Jealous, clingy, interrogations (definitely yes).. He's not consistent with the messaging part but he tries his best.. Possessive (God yes!) he's very possessive and the gifts part, he spoils me rotten 🙂 .. Mine has a Leo moon 😢
You got yourself a good man there, don't ever let go 😄
Posted by muffle_kerfuffleSeriously muffle you are a true Gem 🙂, you making me think right now.
Ok, the more you talk about this the more it sounds like you are a rebound trying to fill his void. His intentions lie with his ex and I can guarantee you are being used. His intentions are more than likely not black and white, but given what is said, I don't think you should try and pursue things. He's dealing with the sense of loss, and anything to get it back he will try.
So I guess all this while he's been using me 😢.. I thought we meant something him and I but I was wrong.. The fact that I let him convince me to have a baby with him.. He came inside of me numerous times that night 😢, I feel ashamed.. Thank God I took the morning after pill when I got home. I guess I just don't trust him.
That's the thing about him, I'm not the one doing the pursuing it's him.. The first time he asked me out I had a boyfriend and instead he became my friend, we would chat every now and then, talk on the phone.. When my ex and I broke up he asked me out again and that time I agreed. He never gave up.
The reason why I was so confused the time he was distant it's because after telling him to leave me alone, he still continued to send me texts every now and then saying that "he will see me soon" and "we'll start spending more time together" and I'll be so confused cause he was distant and was not opening up to me, I was tired of waiting for him.. Then I'd think that maybe he is going through financial strain as he says and that he does love me as he says and that when he gets a new place he wants us to start all over.
There was a time I cut him off completely because I was tired of talking on the phone and not seeing him in person, I was tired of him blowing up my phone everytime I say it's over and him convincing me to go back to him.. It was the worst thing I could do cause he asked his best friend to talk to me, to plead for him since he can't reach me cause I cut him off, he even lost some weight.. Our mutual friend told me that his stress has shifted from his finances to me giving up on him. She even showed me a recent picture of his, he looked awfully thin and unhappy. It broke me so once again we started communicating.
See why I was so confused? He never wants to let me go at least I won't continue thinking that maybe he does truly love me as he says he does 😭
@NoLove, how long you guys were together?
Posted by muffle_kerfuffleWhat if a Gem was with someone for 4 years? Could that still be a rebound relationship? How to know the difference? :/
Ok, the more you talk about this the more it sounds like you are a rebound trying to fill his void. His intentions lie with his ex and I can guarantee you are being used. His intentions are more than likely not black and white, but given what is said, I don't think you should try and pursue things. He's dealing with the sense of loss, and anything to get it back he will try.
Posted by muffle_kerfuffleHmm yes, I see your point. thanks 🙂Posted by MoonbutterWell, I think every situation is unique. In her case, this guy still has his ex in the picture. It should be cut and dry, bye-bye, unless there is still feelings for them.Posted by muffle_kerfuffleWhat if a Gem was with someone for 4 years? Could that still be a rebound relationship? How to know the difference? :/
Ok, the more you talk about this the more it sounds like you are a rebound trying to fill his void. His intentions lie with his ex and I can guarantee you are being used. His intentions are more than likely not black and white, but given what is said, I don't think you should try and pursue things. He's dealing with the sense of loss, and anything to get it back he will try.
I can't speak for all Gems because my Venus is Tarsus. But non the less, having an ex in the picture is just wrong.click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterWe've been together 8 months, minus the 2 months that he went MIA.. It has turned for the worst now cause he fought with one of his friends and business associate.. Apparently the friend told him that if he (my Gemini) doesn't treat me right then someone else will, that's when the fight broke out.. They are not talking to each other now and they've even unfriended each other from social media.
@NoLove, how long you guys were together?
I'm too shocked for words, I don't know what caused the friend to say that cause I have never even dated the guy.. *Confused*
@muffle_kerfuffle you can't help someone then disappear.
Please come back 😢
Please come back 😢
Posted by littlemegabytes
When a Gemini man likes you? It's pretty clear:
Jealous, clingy, interrogations, nonstop messaging, possessive, all around crazy but sweet, lots of gifts, questions about yourself, and is insistent on being exclusive. 😄
Well .... maybe that's just my Gemini guy because he has a scorp moon
I am the same way. If I like you and commit to you, all the above but you better show me the same.
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Okay back to reality.. We never got the time to t