Taurus & Gemini

Hey,

I have a tiny problem with my Taurus man.

When he is wrong and he knows that he tends to mislead and makes a point and stays stubborn till we start arguing.

Is it normal? I kinda fed up being a target and it seems that everything revolves around him and he always makes me hang in the air by not being decisive or on time.

It just drives me crazy that he can't compromise though he tries to convince me that he does...

Otherwise he is amazing, especially in bed! we are in love despite of everything but I don't have power to deal with his childish side!

I would love to hear from Gemini & Taurus people of their experience with Taurus people... or from anyone with a goooood advice! X

I'd say that's par for the course for the average Taurus male. They can be very stubborn and find it difficult to admit when they are wrong. However, in my experience, they are rarely ever wrong 😆

Opposite attract until the lust fades away, then the problem arises. This is a common phenomenon of non compatible partners. Taurus is a fixed sign and they will never change. So you have to deal with it.

Posted by littlenanobyte
I have dated multiple Taurus men and I've never seen this side of them, the behavior they are notorious for, so I am really hoping that another Gemini can pop in and give you advice - I'm following this.

The Taurus men I have dated/been in relationship with have all been very passive and catering to me. They let me call the shots and kinda were even "beta" in nature... They both had Leo moon too!

What moon does your Taurean have?

What is your moon?

Hey, my moon is in Aquarius and my boyfriends moon is in Aries.

I can see now... he likes and values his actions and enjoys to be praised for them!

I'm not really bored with him... we always do something, that's his Aries side I guess! Haha... I can't say beta' he is defenately an alfa' which makes me aware of his actions and reactions a lot, and I try just to keep quiet! 😉

Thank you for that! X

Posted by WallFlower422
I'd say that's par for the course for the average Taurus male. They can be very stubborn and find it difficult to admit when they are wrong. However, in my experience, they are rarely ever wrong 😆

Hahaha... I know! I kinda have adjusted myself to that! But it sooooo annoying. 🙂

Posted by geminidude
Opposite attract until the lust fades away, then the problem arises. This is a common phenomenon of non compatible partners. Taurus is a fixed sign and they will never change. So you have to deal with it.

I do agree with you about dealing with it as we are over the honey moon period and I do still love him... he is an amazing person overall! I like that they have this personality that they learn and adjust for better... but when they stubborn! It feels like just keep it quiet maybe it will fade... haha

Aw come on you love us.

Posted by NotSoInstant
My bf is a Taurus and he isn't stubborn with me, except for that one time when I had my ex's PIC in my albums. He knew I was too random to go through old albums and i didn't keep them knowingly still it took him few days to move past that. Other than that, I guess I call the shots in the relationship. He has said he is the happiest when he makes me happy. OMG! I'm way too lucky huh?

I think next time he behaves in a stubborn manner, you may want to reconsider where you stand. I would avoid if the guy were disrespectful but is there a chance for you to guys to reach a middle ground? Say not argue about the silly unimportant issues?

Lol, I think that's sweet that you know that he gets jealous and cares... when my Taurus does that, it makes me want him more... kinda makes me flirt with him... and he asks me for the guys national insurance number...(like he actually would do something to him, lol)....

but if he talks about other woman I'm ready to burry him alive... haha understandable

Yeah, I guess we need to talk it out and find the middle ground! That's not a bad advice at all! Xx

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Aw come on you love us.

Lol, I don't have anything bad to say about the Taurus... yeah kinda nice people, love them!!!

Just that one little thing particularly I can't get over with is stubbornness (maybe not for all of them)... and it makes me feel like I am boxed without no way out... though it's obvious that if I'm not wrong... I shouldn't feel like that! Anyways... I love my Tauren, he is very interesting to learn about...

I was married to Leo... sorry, but that's a nightmare to compromise with! I think I'll survive with Taurus.... lol

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Aw come on you love us.

Lol, I don't have anything bad to say about the Taurus... yeah kinda nice people, love them!!!

Just that one little thing particularly I can't get over with is stubbornness (maybe not for all of them)... and it makes me feel like I am boxed without no way out... though it's obvious that if I'm not wrong... I shouldn't feel like that! Anyways... I love my Tauren, he is very interesting to learn about...

I was married to Leo... sorry, but that's a nightmare to compromise with! I think I'll survive with Taurus.... lol

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Hm I did the fire thingy to haha. I know. You karma debt was to meet the Leo for the new guy which is the one you would or should work it out the most on. Not the leo.

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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Aw come on you love us.

Lol, I don't have anything bad to say about the Taurus... yeah kinda nice people, love them!!!

Just that one little thing particularly I can't get over with is stubbornness (maybe not for all of them)... and it makes me feel like I am boxed without no way out... though it's obvious that if I'm not wrong... I shouldn't feel like that! Anyways... I love my Tauren, he is very interesting to learn about...

I was married to Leo... sorry, but that's a nightmare to compromise with! I think I'll survive with Taurus.... lol

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What was an example of the stubbornness you are talking about just curious? What's it about?

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Aw come on you love us.

Lol, I don't have anything bad to say about the Taurus... yeah kinda nice people, love them!!!

Just that one little thing particularly I can't get over with is stubbornness (maybe not for all of them)... and it makes me feel like I am boxed without no way out... though it's obvious that if I'm not wrong... I shouldn't feel like that! Anyways... I love my Tauren, he is very interesting to learn about...

I was married to Leo... sorry, but that's a nightmare to compromise with! I think I'll survive with Taurus.... lol

What was an example of the stubbornness you are talking about just curious? What's it about?

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Awww, thanks for the karma comment!

I hope it does...

Well, an example... the Tauren like to debate about the right or wrong, though it would take time for them to admit straight forward if they are wrong! So this is the struggle, I would invest time, patience and understanding but then I would still get moaning and complaining from him! He doesn't like changes but I'm fine and if I do something I just go for it! He is always late..., for a man to take 45 mins to get ready or even longer it's so unacceptable! He makes me bored, feel like I'm wasting time... it's fine if he tells me a certain time to meet, but then he is always late even to be on time...! And meantime what I suppose to do, ready in 30 mins I'm just waiting again! It's those little things, but he cares only for the big ones! Lol just an example about his time keeping!

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Aw come on you love us.

Lol, I don't have anything bad to say about the Taurus... yeah kinda nice people, love them!!!

Just that one little thing particularly I can't get over with is stubbornness (maybe not for all of them)... and it makes me feel like I am boxed without no way out... though it's obvious that if I'm not wrong... I shouldn't feel like that! Anyways... I love my Tauren, he is very interesting to learn about...

I was married to Leo... sorry, but that's a nightmare to compromise with! I think I'll survive with Taurus.... lol

What was an example of the stubbornness you are talking about just curious? What's it about?

Awww, thanks for the karma comment!

I hope it does...

Well, an example... the Tauren like to debate about the right or wrong, though it would take time for them to admit straight forward if they are wrong! So this is the struggle, I would invest time, patience and understanding but then I would still get moaning and complaining from him! He doesn't like changes but I'm fine and if I do something I just go for it! He is always late..., for a man to take 45 mins to get ready or even longer it's so unacceptable! He makes me bored, feel like I'm wasting time... it's fine if he tells me a certain time to meet, but then he is always late even to be on time...! And meantime what I suppose to do, ready in 30 mins I'm just waiting again! It's those little things, but he cares only for the big ones! Lol just an example about his time keeping!

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To be fair every minute I learn something and try to be understanding so this might not be an issue soon! 😉

I hope I didn't upset anyone with my comments.. this is just my opinion what I can't figure out how to compromise on! Lol

Totally agree with you! 😉 I think it's other side of gemini to be strong and look for someone who would keep it up!

About wearing pants in this relationship... hmmm we tend to compromise, I dont like to be told nor does he, but we usually talk these things out and if he is been too much all over me then he softens on other subject... which is very noticable and kinda cute! Haha

Can you just let them be right, and really prove to them they are wrong. You can debate yes but arguing with them with cause chaos. Usually are smart. Gemini is smarter sometimes. So show us what's wrong gently. Don't argue it will cause the horns.

I'm punctual and actually hate someone else is not. So yeah I get you on punctuality. For example my brother usually last minute I'm not. But I take along time to get ready. So I start early. The movie starts at 1100am. I'm ready by 9. He hops and get ready at 1000. I want the best seats and snacks. He meh.

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I have dated multiple Taurus men and I've never seen this side of them, the behavior they are notorious for, so I am really hoping that another Gemini can pop in and give you advice - I'm following this.

The Taurus men I have dated/been in relationship with have all been very passive and catering to me. They let me call the shots and kinda were even "beta" in nature... They both had Leo moon too!

What moon does your Taurean have?

What is your moon?

Hey, my moon is in Aquarius and my boyfriends moon is in Aries.

I can see now... he likes and values his actions and enjoys to be praised for them!

I'm not really bored with him... we always do something, that's his Aries side I guess! Haha... I can't say beta' he is defenately an alfa' which makes me aware of his actions and reactions a lot, and I try just to keep quiet! 😉

Thank you for that! X

I don't even naturally like submissive men either ? It's a huge turn off for me... I like men to be more dominant. Sigh, I guess it's just me and my alpha woman (to a lesser extent) persona.

It's good that your BF has an Aries moon... that is a an aggressor moon imo. Probably pairs nicely with that sun whom I see as docile. And you are airy as hell too... I can see where there would be some tiffs in communication.

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Okay Aqua and Aries is masculine and kinky. So you gotta match both sub and dominant roles. Switch. But for example I'm mars in Taurus so it just got to be comfortable with me.

Masculine energy when it comes to sex mostly likely will find the opposite more likely a feminine energy. It may work for awhile.

Posted by littlenanobyte
I have dated multiple Taurus men and I've never seen this side of them, the behavior they are notorious for, so I am really hoping that another Gemini can pop in and give you advice - I'm following this.

The Taurus men I have dated/been in relationship with have all been very passive and catering to me. They let me call the shots and kinda were even "beta" in nature... They both had Leo moon too!

What moon does your Taurean have?

What is your moon?

are you serious— they let you call the shots?

what are their venus and mars?



the guys I knew were Low-key in keeping their possessive nature, and controlling too.

but damn it comes out!!!! they wil not want you to do anything they don't want you to. they are leaders, and call the shots and wil get PISSED off.

i'm talking about the past of course. duh. but I remember how they are. they usually want a beta woman.

edit and i'm just talking about just platonic friendship too...

can you fucking imagine IN a real romantic relationship??

HOLY COW is correct.

Posted by Explicit
I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with a Taurus. We are sooooo different. But I'd love to seduce one. They are sooo hot. ?

One tried to seduce me like 3 times but he was a closet case and talked crap about me so I ignored his advances... But damn he was hot!

lol



dorien grey types!

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Posted by littlenanobyte
I have dated multiple Taurus men and I've never seen this side of them, the behavior they are notorious for, so I am really hoping that another Gemini can pop in and give you advice - I'm following this.

The Taurus men I have dated/been in relationship with have all been very passive and catering to me. They let me call the shots and kinda were even "beta" in nature... They both had Leo moon too!

What moon does your Taurean have?

What is your moon?

are you serious— they let you call the shots?

what are their venus and mars?



the guys I knew were Low-key in keeping their possessive nature, and controlling too.

but damn it comes out!!!! they wil not want you to do anything they don't want you to. they are leaders, and call the shots and wil get PISSED off.

For these two men, yes, to the point where I just felt like I was steam rolling them. Oh and they were both smarter than me too, very very intelligent men.

One was a decent amount older than me, and had a good career. One was more book smart but didn't have many life skills and experience because he was only like 20 at the time (this was several years ago that I saw him).

I spent about 6 months with the younger one, and moved away. He was devastated when I left. The older one I dated for awhile, but I decided we should be friends. He's engaged as am I, but we still talk as friends.

I'm not sure what the older ones moon, Venus, mars was in.

But the younger one I was with for 6 months was Moon Leo, Venus Aries, Mars Leo. His chart is fiery as hell. In those 6 months, I did not see that romance-wise. He very much struck me as a cancer all together. He was all snuggly, nurturing, the kind of dude who would stroke your cheek before he kissed you. Not really my cup of tea, but I hope he finds a good lady one day.

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that is so sweet. probably a 4th houser.