LostintheSauce
@LostintheSauce
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Think She'll Forgive me?
You should explain yourself and apologize immediately!
Silence breeds contempt. Especially if the silence is stemmed from something as discomforting as this.
Gems are very forgiving but can over-analyze a situation, much like Virgos, if left to their own accord. My thought right now is she is probably beating herself up over the situation and really thinking the worse of it all and possibly even you. You need to salvage this before it gets out of hand in her head and she decides to move on, Gems that made up her mind will not change it.
Do so before it's too late. As long as she can feel you are being honest and genuinely sorry, she will forgive you. I suggest even following up with a humorous apology gift to lighten up the crazy ordeal, maybe get her one of those funky but mind-boggling puzzle contraptions with a note that says, "There are crazy toys out there, needless crazy people." This will brighten up her mood, and now she has a toy to figure out -- Gems love puzzles.
Silence breeds contempt. Especially if the silence is stemmed from something as discomforting as this.
Gems are very forgiving but can over-analyze a situation, much like Virgos, if left to their own accord. My thought right now is she is probably beating herself up over the situation and really thinking the worse of it all and possibly even you. You need to salvage this before it gets out of hand in her head and she decides to move on, Gems that made up her mind will not change it.
Do so before it's too late. As long as she can feel you are being honest and genuinely sorry, she will forgive you. I suggest even following up with a humorous apology gift to lighten up the crazy ordeal, maybe get her one of those funky but mind-boggling puzzle contraptions with a note that says, "There are crazy toys out there, needless crazy people." This will brighten up her mood, and now she has a toy to figure out -- Gems love puzzles.
Thanks a million.. I'll get right on it.
Posted by Nebulous_Cloud9
You should explain yourself and apologize immediately!
Silence breeds contempt. Especially if the silence is stemmed from something as discomforting as this.
^^^^ +1 trust that every bit of this is gospel. Take it to heart, the poster knows that which he preaches.
Silence not only breeds contempt, for a gem it is a death sentence. Silence is literally our kryptonite.
True that gems are very forgiving and we will not stay angry long. All you need to do is be sincere, as she will spot the SB instantly, and then she will never believe anything you say ever again.
Yes, if you leave too much time and space between that silence, your gem will feel like she needs to run away from the silence (and you). problem is, if you wait too long to start making some noise (we don't care if its loving or fighting, as long as there is some noise) she will not be returning once she has run away.
Go dude, run as fast as you can, find that gem, start making some noise, snatch her back (use brutal force if you have too, she might even be turned by the cave manish ways 🙂,get all up inside her mind, and watch her take it from there.
I have a suggestion though...This gem girl ain't going to put up with that ex for but so long. She wouldn't be a problem to the gem normally, but since she is possesive and stalker crazy, you need to find a way to check this, or at least make sure she doesn't pose a threat to the gem anymore.
Question...do you still routinely go around the ex, or have contact with the ex? I have to wonder how she (the ex) managed to "steal your phone" ...I am a gem gal, and believe me, she (gem gal) is going to wonder why you witheld the complete truth about the whole phone incident and who was involved...from a gem perspective, you tried to cover up or disguise something, which automatically smells of deception in a gems mind. Just sayin
Posted by LostintheSauce
You know how wonderful you gem gals are..
^^^^ Yes I do. Speaking of course as a gem gal 🙂
No I don't routinely go around my ex. This ex mutual guy friend of ours stole my phone to gain some sway with my ex while visiting me at the hospital. That's a whole other story...I spoke to her though and she took it really lightly. I actually met her one day gher ex of 3 years made her upset. Likewise my ex of 2 years just can't get it through her thick skull. I never speak to her and she tries to pop up at my house sitting on my porch after I get off from work. She's anm Aqua.... Never knew that they could be so obsessuive after they messed up.
Posted by LostintheSauce
No I don't routinely go around my ex. This ex mutual guy friend of ours stole my phone to gain some sway with my ex while visiting me at the hospital. That's a whole other story...I spoke to her though and she took it really lightly. I actually met her one day gher ex of 3 years made her upset. Likewise my ex of 2 years just can't get it through her thick skull. I never speak to her and she tries to pop up at my house sitting on my porch after I get off from work. She's anm Aqua.... Never knew that they could be so obsessuive after they messed up.
I am terrified of Aquarius men. If there is a social-psycho manipulative sign out there, I vote Aquas.
Amen!!! A true Monet!! Gorgeous from far off but up close... WTF!!!!
I don't know about that one. I mean Can most Gemini women justify stealing another woman's husband—? That one is going to be a Clash of the Titans later on here...
Yeah but... WHOOOO!!!! Guess you Gem Gals just have that effect. There something so overwhelming that stirs inside of me for my Gem gal. It's the strangest thing. Like the molten core of the earth beneath the surface. Just a fire brewing stiring waiting for the right moment to just burst and renew all things in the name of this feeling awoken in a blaze of glorious rebirth!!!!! (UNDERNEATH THE SURFACE... !) ) It's so annoying... lol 😄
Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo
Hahaha. Did I mention I have issues with aquas too? Haha. Copy-cats. It's always angelina jolie ( gem ) vs. Jen aniston (aqua) lol
Hell yeah, aquas don't do nothing but ride on a gems coat tail (sorry aquas...I just know a shitload of them and wow, I don't know whether to take it as a compliment or insult, they literally just wanna be us.)
and I generally don't have any issues with aquas because I just don't deal with their asses...got a few aqua sibs and i can spend about five minutes in the room with them at one time. 🙂 I am soooo serious.
Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo
Gems don't steal. We're too busy with so many guys! Lol. Here's the thing... Angelina, being the gem that she is has charm that is irresistible specially for a sagittarius like Brad Pitt. Sags are the total opposite of gems therefore, they are actually our perfect match. Believe it or not, there is strong attraction between opposite signs most of the time. In my case, I'm a gem and I have attracted sags intentionally and unintentionally ( not to mention the earth signs which for some reason are also attracted to me because of the other signs in my natal chart ).
In Brad and Angelina's case, let's just say that Brad felt he found his perfect match in her. If you were Brad and you felt that very feeling, wouldn't you go for it? Jen Aniston found her match too, she's an Aqua and currently engaged to a leo! So I guess she's haPpy now 🙂
^^^^ Agreed,
Thats not to say that Brad never had feelings for Jen...but something about Angie, stirred his very soul 🙂 and this is neither of their faults.
Posted by LostintheSauce
Yeah but... WHOOOO!!!! Guess you Gem Gals just have that effect. There something so overwhelming that stirs inside of me for my Gem gal. It's the strangest thing. Like the molten core of the earth beneath the surface. Just a fire brewing stiring waiting for the right moment to just burst and renew all things in the name of this feeling awoken in a blaze of glorious rebirth!!!!! (UNDERNEATH THE SURFACE... !) ) It's so annoying... lol 😄
^^^^perfect example for my previous post, thank you 🙂
and can I just say, I love you. lol
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