DiamondGemini
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Update on my Taurus Crush
I feel like us Geminis have a tendency to hold back and make sure the person likes us more than we like them. This can work for some guys/girls but some it doesn't. here it sounds like he feels the difference between you two and just wants you to be more ... emotional? With him perhaps. I don't know the whole story but maybe tell him how much you like him if you haven't already done so. I find being honest usually works a treat.
He knows that I like him and I’d like more, I was really straightforward with that. But I don’t know how to be emotional, I’m not really and emotional person and if I am I don’t just show it to everyone. You have to be really special and I have to trust you enough to show that side I guess. Thank you anyway for the advice : )
Posted by Gemtera
I feel like us Geminis have a tendency to hold back and make sure the person likes us more than we like them. This can work for some guys/girls but some it doesn't. here it sounds like he feels the difference between you two and just wants you to be more ... emotional? With him perhaps. I don't know the whole story but maybe tell him how much you like him if you haven't already done so. I find being honest usually works a treat.
I gotta ask, since your previous account was a one hit wonder. Is this guy even single?
Exactly, that’s what I thought. Like I understand he is busy and over works himself and only has one day per week free and that’s when he hangs out with his friends. And I am busy too, but still I make time to text the people I like. I did have that talk to him, and he just apologized for not taking any initiative. And he keeps saying how he hates texting, but never calls me. I just felt that because he is almost 30 he would be mature about it and straightforward, but nah. He just likes the attention. Thanks
Posted by nano
Men would always make time for the woman they are interested in/love, regardless of how busy or successful they are.
Mega CEO's maintain marriages/side pieces regularly
I am so tired of the ever popular "I like you, and I want you, but I'm just way too busy" excuse
Sounds like you need to break it off or have a serious face to face to find out his actual intentions
Yes, he is single. I know that for sure
Posted by Whorpio
I gotta ask, since your previous account was a one hit wonder. Is this guy even single?
Well I don’t understand why guys have to be like that. Spare my feelings, I’d rather know the truth, know where I stand and get it over it. Right? I mean he told me he doesn’t want a relationship right now in the end because he doesn’t have time to date or to give that kind of attention because he is really focused on work, but if someone came along he wouldn’t mind either. I think in this case he just doesn’t want it because it’s long distance, but he’d rather just keep me aside like an used doll. Anyway, I’m getting tired of this situation, is making everything really boring
Posted by nano
On the other side of a coin, a guy can be the busiest guy ever and he will go through hell and high water to make a relationship work if he really wants to.
I think that guys who say they don't relationships or don't want to get married will one day be in relationships and get married. They just don't want to hurt you at the time.
I've been there, done that. A guy who I liked once told me that he didn't want be in a relationship because he was about to get a job traveling all over the world and would be working the job in the government that would make him reclusive at times. I believed him. But then eventually we stopped talking and then shortly after, he was officially in a relationship some girl in Israel that he met off Instagram LOL.
old him exactly that, but he just kept saying he doesn’t have time to give me the attention I want and that the only day he has free he spends it with his friends. He says bluntly he is interested, but then says something contradictory. I just feel that most guys today don’t work anymore to get the girl, they just take everything for granted. And play play play. Thanks for the messagePosted by Senorita_LLPosted by nano^^ This
Men would always make time for the woman they are interested in/love, regardless of how busy or successful they are.
Mega CEO's maintain marriages/side pieces regularly
I am so tired of the ever popular "I like you, and I want you, but I'm just way too busy" excuse
Sounds like you need to break it off or have a serious face to face to find out his actual intentions
I have always believe the same thing too. Doesn't matter how busy a man can be, if they truly were interested, they will invest their time on you. You wouldn't have to question anything. They will always be there.
The idea of a man telling me, he was just busy with work and sometimes goes missing for a couple of days or such, doesn't seem to work in my dictionary.
I will be long gone if I were you. Ain't got no time to waste.click to expand
Posted by diamonddgemm
Yes, he is single. I know that for surePosted by Whorpio
I gotta ask, since your previous account was a one hit wonder. Is this guy even single?click to expand
Sweet, set us up 😄
Yes. He works a sales manager for a multinational company and also has some business with some other clients besides that. So he’s always working, either at the office or driving distances to meet his clients. He is sort of like a workaholic, so he is busy all day and tired at night and only has time to hang out with his friends or family. But anyway, him being that busy doesn’t justify it I am busy too, but if I am interested in someone I contact them so
Posted by Nevamore
Did you asked him why he was really busy?
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I had to change my account because it wouldn’t let me log in with the other one. I’m diamondgemini.
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