Was I played?

....sorry this computer did something wierd.........

Anyways...

This gemini has been asking for the last few weeks to take me out on a date. Ive politely explained to him that I was not currently dating and wanted to see what single life felt like at this time. SO what does he do? He proceeds to ask me out every night up until last saturday. I kept explaining I just want to be friends and i even went into why i didnt want to date at this time. He had asked me last tuesday for another date and I told him at this time I would not be dating. He then remarked....I got it the first time u said it. So... come saturday an event comes up and he offers to car pool. I really did think hard about car pooling with him, but since his family was gonna be there I didnt think it would be an issue. Also, we had kids in the car with us.

The event lasted until three oclosk saturday after noon. We started to drive home. Then he says he has to show his sister in law a forclosure....so im like ok, its just up the road. Then after that he takes scenic route thru our downtown. Now, earlier he had asked if I had plans for the day. I said yes I had a party to attend that night. The hes like do u wanna stop by my house for a sec its up to you. Now, since I had kids with me and it was gonna be a quick sec, I thought no big deal. So we stopped by his house and he did show me around. He's then like.. we can order pizza. At this point im looking at time because my party is getting close. He gives me credit card and asks me to order. We went back and forth because it was his info, but i did order. Then he tries to sit me in his lap.

Soooooo...I say I have to go to the bathroom and I go back and sit down on couch. He comes in with some drinks (wine I guess) and sits them down. Hes like ...relax and reaches over and pulls up foot rest. The he starts telling me to find something on tv.

The pizza finally comes...and then hes like u wanna serve? Im looking crazy because hes not my damn husband, but I do help the kids out. He says...ill take two slices. I just look at him.

Now heres the kicker. The man eats two slices of pizza and hes out. He turns over and goes to SLEEEPPP! Im like im ready to go get my car now.....the man cannot be awaken. I tried like six times. I even tell his son to wake his dad up....he is stone cold out.

So I get pissed and call around and have to call a friend to come and get me. Then as we walking out the door, he wakes up with a small shake f

....small shake from his son. I leave...and he calls me thirty monutes later. I dont asnwer the phone. He texts me like fifteen minutes later saying sorry I feel asleep and he would have taken me to my car. Please call him. I have no intention of calling.

you know what....my friend came and got me said same thing. Shes like....hes lucky u arent one of those chicks to just take his car keys and leave. I should have. He has a bmw, which he loves to show off. That would have given his a heart attack.

OMG!! Bad gem....... My father is like that..... Got on my last nerve! Robyn is right, it's hard to talk to that kind of gem.... Even blowing up at them doesn't work, cuz then he won't understand why you are and will think you're crazy!

Yeah...he is really something else.

He knew I had somewhere to be. He likes...purse party? You going somewhere where u have to spend money? Its like he did everything in his power to keep me. The when he knew I would want to leave, he goes asleep. I was soooo mad. Who the heck sleeps that hard. He had poured me something in a wine glass. It wasnt wine, it looked fruity. Now I dont drink and I never drink around people I dont know. He had taken out hawiian punch for the kids and opened a new bottle, so i got some of that. What ever was in glass I poured down the sink. It reeked of alcohol, but again I dont drink so it could have been anything.

Oh and I look up a synastry chart for us. We share mars square pluto in synastry. I should have been more aware.

Yeah...imma avoid him.

I was just trying to make male friends and I guess ive failed horribly so far. People say women and men can be just friends, but for the life of me its not going well here. This is my first gemini ive ever had to deal with, so i wont judge the whole sign based on him. Hes just soo agressive, so fast and obviously we cant be friends.

Him, me and leo usually hang out at park and watch kids play football. Now its gonna be awkward because of this and well he basically told Leo guy to back off. Says if he takes his wife away from him he will cut him off. Says if he puts two carats on any womans hand its till death do us part. She aint going nowhere and neither is he. He asked me if i wanted kids...says hed have to get unfixed. Hes having a house built and hes already gotten how our rooms would be layed out.

I guess i never took him seriously. I do now.

Ill just sit in my car or drive off this week. Kids have a game coming up.

Now I am a free woman. I would like to just hang around the leo because hes not cray cray and hes fun. Im not even sure if thats a good idea at this point. Leo says hes not really a friend. He just met him from park, but I dont need drama. He had invited me and leo to a fight party at his house this week. Obviously im not going.

I wouldn't.... The only advice I can give you is to act like he doesn't exist. But, even then, he might follow you around like a lost puppy.... That is what my father does. The only way to be totally rid of that mess is to never go there again. Sad to say, but true.... With my father, tho, it wasn't to keep a person. He just was that selfish. If he didn't feel like doing anything, he was NOT going to do it. Regardless of your plans/obligations.... My father sleeps like that, too. Especially after eating.

@PMonstaa: You're right it has nothing to do with being a gem male and everything to do with HIM. 🙂

thanks misslissa,

My son does play football so thats how we all met. He does have a play off game this friday...its like the end of season. They play spring football here. Ill just ignore him and stay in my car or something.

He totally did what he wanted to do. Darn my plans. But I learned a valuable lesson here, well many lessons.


Main lesson was.....always have your own car.