What about those twins?

I am a Scorpio who has loved a Gemini for the last 40 years! Can we get it right? I find that even though he loves me he needs change. So, he finds a new love to play with then he is back. It is very hard to balance my loyalty against his needs. Can you tell me do all Gems have two sides? Can one woman satisfy the twins?

Think of a gemini as a moth circling round a candle, constantly attracted to brighter flames in the distance - an intense flame that threatens to burn one's feet can be a bit scary and hence create a need to constantly run away.
Having said all this, you really have to realize that Geminis are perfect in every way. Therefore it's impossible for me to believe that the flaws you describe within the relationship can be anything other than your fault. You're a scorpio you poor thing......If i was you, I'd try to become a Gemini ASAP.

That depends on what you see as flaws in the relationship...I see them as the risks we take in life. That is the difference between the perfection of a Gemini, always blaming the other, and a Scorpio, willing to take a risk and be wrong. That's life and I wouldn't want to be anyone other than who I am. But, thank you for offering such an astute opinion. Do you have any others?

My oh my! Have you not a sense of humour!?

Which part of your message was humorous? The part about the moth or the part about changing my sign? I really am starting to laugh...Thanks.

For #63. In response to your original question...can a Gem ever be satisfied with one woman the answer is HELL NO!!!!

I am a Sag and you can imagine the attraction to Gems (and I am) but I've learned this thru the years, and that is to keep them as friends cuz not only are they MAJOR PLAYERS but their playing consists of MAJOR HAREMS!! I'd be happy to meet a Gem male who only had to have 2 women. But unfortunately the ones I meet usually have AT LEAST 5 they like to rotate on a weekly basis. How exhausting AND dangerous can that be?

On a brighter note my Scorp sis is married to a Gem and after years of having to have "trained" him she is quite happy with her results! LOL

If you are not happy with your relationship now I would most definitely look into "greener pastures".

Ive always said Gems are dodgy. Lovely people but i couldnt settle for one, I'd be too paranoid. As for scorpio settling for Gemini, would you want him if you could truelly have him? It seems to me that scorpios like the unattainable (all respect to you but they seem to like a constant challenge). If Mr. Gemini came back to you, would you really want him anyway—!

Gemini's have no trouble settling down with someone - I'm sure you're all just very boring people......not that there's anything wrong with that - It's just a matter of realizing that Gemini's are way out of your league and you should probably be pursuing a capricorn or virgo.
It's easy to blame Gemini's for all your own faults, but realistically, maybe you should take a little bit of responsibility for your own side of the equation!

And maybe you should take a little bit of responsibility for your stupidity and ignorance 211!

Obviously 211 has hit a sore point 12! You say Gemini's can't settle down and then you talk about your sister who has been happily together with one for years!!
Surely there's some 'stupidity' in that contradiction!
You seem a little bit jealous that you're attracted to Gemini's and yet none of them are attracted to you.
I'll leave it up to you to figure out why.

I've been in relationships with 3 Gems in my life. Unfortunately I've had to dump their sorry asses when I found out what PLAYERS they are. I wouldn't like being part of a Harem. Don't know who would?

Then maybe you're motivated by an irrational bitterness based on past events - maybe your incessant complaining, aggressive responsiveness and continual negativity made your Gemini partners feel the need to escape.
Hell, I've only exchanged posts for half a day and I'm already finding you repellent.
I'm sure it would be nice for you to believe that you're a victim in a big bad world, however I doubt you'll find a Gemini who will put up with that kind of crap in a partner's personality for too long......hey......looks like that's what's been happening!

"I've been dragging myself through various message boards"...

Gee I wonder why? Could it be they were repelled BY YOU—

"My oh my! Have you not a sense of humour!?"

Another person who doesn't find you funny either, and that's comin from a Libra!

WOW! New to this discussion, but I'm a gemini that has an affinity for water signs. Scorpios are intense, like mystery and extremely sexual. 40years is a long time. No matter what your sign is, you deserve what you tolerate. Make a list of what you will and will not live with. Then have the courage to change it.
I have a scorpio moon, it must explain the attraction and amicablitity I have with these signs.

Why do other air signs think we give a sh*t about what they think about us gems? Are we supposed to feel bad that that you don't like us? Because I could care less what sign you are.

Gemini's aren't players. My experience with Gemini's (and it is vast) tells me that they are incredibly intellegent, independent ppl who don't have the desire to 'prop' up others who are insecure or emotionally dependent. If this man, after 40 yrs keeps coming back to you it would only be b/c there is a security he finds with you. The reason he doesn't stay though is b/c when he IS back he realises all too quickly the reason for leaving you in the first place. When a gemini finds their life partner (and believe me, they will take their time to find the RIGHT ONE) they will settle down quite happily without feeling the need to wander. Their life partner though would have to be someone independent, confident, and emotionally stable!

It is prejudice to base likes and dislikes on a zodiac sign or any thing else that don't involve rape, murder or other human injustice. But it is still a choice and we have all have the right to exercise it. So what if "they" don't like us?, but you have to admit that the prejudice bothers you and you do care. Or you wouldn't have had the inclination to write.

"My experience with Gemini's (and it is vast) tells me that they are incredibly intellegent, independent ppl who don't have the desire to 'prop' up others who are insecure or emotionally dependent."

Well if that is the truth then why don't you learn how to spell the word intelligent first before you go around bragging about it. Sounds like another borish dipshit in the world of astrology to me!!! Sorry to be rather crass, but when someone starts holding their IQ above others they deserve a good slamming!!!

Susan

Gemini Geeks,

And, I think if you go over to the Capricorn board there is a guy over there that would like to have his 'carrot' sucked! LOL! mother f**kers
Damn-- this board gets weirder everyday!

Susan
Libra/Scorp Chic

To all the Scorps out there, baby I got your BACK!!!

Susan

Ummm, No it doesnt bother me at all, but I can tell that they want it to bother us.

Tell me, Why?

Now that IS crass. Good grief, think I'll have to read that one.🙂

Cortica's rising sign is Bitch.

I just love to argue - it can be really satisfying when people get all emotionally overwhelmed (Susan, you know who you are).
For those with an inordinate and self-glorified ability to identify 'players', you're not too cluey when it comes to being sucked into the game!
Thankyou for your emotive and genuine performance (Susan you could have put in a bit more effort on hair and make-up).
Although I'm logged in as Cortica, I don't mind if you want to call me 'PuppetMaster'......God is fine also.
(Of course this doesn't apply to other Gemini's to whom I look upon with the utmost reverence and awe (and I'm quite fond of Leo's too!))

Hehehe...hi God! Susan is quite obviously feral...so don't waste your breath.

(Oh, I think Caroline didn't want to openly acknowledge a connection for fear of being ridiculed by some with the last thread - if you know what I mean)

Wow! What happened to you—?? Why are you trolling around under fake identities. I think I can help you.
And you didn't fool anyone puppet master, I have been on to you for a very long time. I know who you are!

The Puppet maker!
Susan

You really are an idiot Susan!

You have no idiot what an asshole I can be! You want to find out——?

You have no idea what an asshole I can be! You want to find out——? d**k sucker. Just like a mirror isn't it!

You're nothing but a COWARD!!!!!!

Someone shares personal information with you and you turn around and use it against them on a public messageboard.

I might have been an idiot for trusting the wrong person and for slumming in the wrong area for friends, but at least I am not like you.

Foolatti or Wendell, or Cortica or whatever you call yourself. I have counted no less then 15 alias you go by. You're nothing but a F***ing TROLL hiding and diguisng yourself to worm your way into people's lifes because you are nothing but a lonely sick man!!!!

I hope they keep you locked up for a very long time. Isn't that where you are, Vacaville? The biggest nut house in the country!!!!!!!!

And by the way--that is Ms. Idiot to your Dr. Demento!

Whoa, slow down Susan......you seem to be having a bit of trouble with the aforementioned concepts so I'm going to guide you through the process......
My name is Cortica.
I like to throw a spanner in the works occaisionally.
When I said call me puppet master I was making a facetious reference to my ability to pull your strings......
When I said call me God, I was making an arrogant reference to my own greatness (ok, so I'm a little narcissistic!)
I wasn't actually implying that these were seperate pseudonyms.
Cortica is my only login name - I'm actually quite intrigued by the idea that you are stalking 15 other identities in the mistaken belief that they are all me......kind of flattering! 🤢gt;
Regardless......I find humourous verbal sparring matches entertaining...fun...happy...nice...
I realise now that you were far too busy riding the express train to psycholand to pick up on any of the provocative subtleties (but then hey, you're not a Gemini and maybe the intricacies of communicative techniques are beyond you).
In a humble attempt to enact some sort of closure upon this affray, I want to sincerely apologize for overestimating your intellect. I wont let it happen again 🤢gt;
Cheerio, Heidi (that's my real name - just perfect for a dirty old man don't you think!?)

ooops...forgot to log in - didn't want you to think that the above message was some evil attempt of mine to assume another identity!

That ain't gonna work. I think I have made matters far worse for you. You weren't like this before and you are much worse. I didn't mean to stress you out! My apology. Don't worry it will be ok!
S