Hi everyone! I need some help

I have a friend who I'm only starting to know, We seem to go pretty good together but I'm confused. He's a taurus and I'm a scorp.

We were supposed to hang out this one day, not to mention He brought it up, and the day came and I got no call from him. I was furious, and I decided to do it myelf like always. So I called and he was home hanging out with his friend, who is a guy thank god, or else I would have hung up.

He didn't even say sorry and asked if I wanted to do something two days later. Now I told him sure but I got really turned off by his behavior. I realy think I should forget about it.
And worst He has no I dea how that made me feel.

How can I let him know that what he did upset me and that I don't accept that kind of treatment? And if he wants to be my friend he'll have to be more sensitive, or at least let me know ahead of time?

Should I consider hanging out like he proposed or give him the same kind of medicine? I just don't feel the same about him, he let me down.

Please tell me what u think, all advice is appreciated.

*dust

You mentioned he's a friend that you are just getting to know. Perhaps he forgot about meeting or had a change of heart and wasn't ready. He may be unsure of you at this time. It sounds as if you barely know each other. You didn't mention what his response was when you called him -- or if you asked him what happened. He may have been surprised when you phoned him too. You also stated that your glad he was hanging out with a male friend. But I don't think you have reason to be jealous -- or angry -- because he is not your boyfriend. And if he has no idea how he made you feel perhaps you should be direct in telling him; you cannot expect someone to read your mind. I don't think it's a good idea to give him -- or anyone -- the same kind of medicine. What will that accomplish? It is not mature and it's game playing. And if he does call and you give him that so called medicine, he may be confused as to why you suddenly changed without explaining how you felt in the first place. It's better to
communicate with him and if you decide, to give him another chance. Things happen and I don't think his intentions were to hurt you.

Of course I don't know your exact situation; just giving my opinion. Hope it works out for you.

Aries female

I agree. Don't play games w/ him. Taurus does not like games, if you like him and you play games then you will lose him. Plus it is not fair to play games without letting him know it bothered you. Don't let him know in a rude way by telling him you don't put up with that, that will just push him away. Let him know politely that it bothered you and see where it goes from there. He might have just been shying away from the situation, not intending to hurt you. I don't know though but I know I've done something similar before with no hurtful or deceitful intensions.

Taurus Female

Aries gal, what do u mean he might be unsure of me?
(Answering)When I called him, he wasn't that in the mood to talk to me, but anyway I had to bring up our plan, and he unenthusiasticly just spoke and I asked if he was busy, and he said finally that his friend came over. I don't think he just invited himself, So he must have invited him. But I felt bad, and I wouldn't do the same to my friends. Maybe he thinks we're more than that. I don't know how to ut it in words, because I don't want to make him feel like he has to change. He's not the problem, the problem is that he didn't let me know about the change in plan.
I hope I'm not to paranoid, but do u c what I'm trying to say?
But thankz the advice was great.

Taurus female I also think ur advice was great. Thanx.

One more Question, he likes me, I know it, but I'm acting like we are only friends, because I think It might be a better start for us, but Do u think I should let him know in a little way that i feel the same about him? Never the less he's a great guy and he may not be perfect but I can accept that.

What I mean by unsure is that sometimes when we meet someone new, we just get caught up in the moment -- without truly being interested in that person.

I am aware of this because in the past, I have done this. I met someone for coffee and I felt he was attracted to me so after our first meeting, I mentioned that it would be nice to see him again. But when I got home I knew I didn't want to see him again; I was not only feeling lonely but I didn't feel any sparks -- or a connection with him. I was just being kind -- and because I was feeling lonely. And it is nice to feel wanted. I realized I couldn't go through with it and told him I acted hastily in my decision.

Today I am aware that I truly have to feel a connection and passionate about a man before I agree to go on a date and spend time with him. Now I would rather be alone then to date just anyone. And I don't mind my own company.

I am not saying this was the situation with your friend but it is something to consider.

Aries female

Taurus Male here:

Forgive me if I say that if you already love someone, you have probably bypassed the "friends" stage. Love develops at different rates, so just try to let it happen, if it happens at all that is.

Taurus Male

Taurus Male here:

Forgive me if I say that if you already love someone, you have probably bypassed the "friends" stage. Love develops at different rates, so just try to let it happen, if it happens at all that is.

Taurus Male