I'm crazy about him

I'm a scorpio gurl and I'm being seduced by this male taurus. We are undoubtfully friends, but he'll be gone fo a while and I'm missing him already. I had no idea I had feelings for him until now. God it sucks. The thing is I'm playing it cool, not rushing into anything, getting to know each other, and not in that physiscal way, acting under restraint, (controlling my hormones). But that's the best way to do it because I miss HIM not his body. Get it?
My question is should I let this need show or keep things good for a little while more? If he'll know how I feel we might grow distant. And I'd hate for that to happen. So is there anything I could do to help the situation, bring us closer...?

Hi Scorpio girl! I am a female Aries being seduced by a male Taurus myself.

I am taking this as a "friend" thing. Not sure how to otherwise take it. I am going to enjoy the mystery of this relationship and how it unfolds. We went out to dinner last week and ended up talking and kissing for a very long time. Whew, blew me away. I had to keep the hatches tied down as I do not want to begin the sex thing first. I find him much too interesting. I can only imagine how wonderful it will be when and if it does happen. I am going to let him make the moves although I do call and let him know how i enjoyed the evening. We met again last night and he invited me to meet his friends. They were a neat bunch of people. I just wonder, do they play the field or do they get themselves into relationships quickly? Anyone out there who can shed light upon this wondering Aries and Scopios heart would be gratefully appreciated. 🙂

The best thing to do is always stay UNDOUBTABLY friends for now. Taurus male and woman love friendships that blossom into love/romance. We prefer this scenrio than anything else. The more you two grow together building on your friendship the better you will bond with him. I understand what you mean on how you didn't realize your feelings for him until now. Doesn't it seem funny how your feelings just creep up on you for a person you consider a friend. By the way, how long will he be away? Can you still contact him where's he's going? If you can then talk on the phone or e-mail would be nice until you meet up again. and believe me he probably feels the same way as you. Taureans are slow....so take your time. Hope this helped.

U are so sweet,. he'll be gone for a week, but that seems like forever to me. How I'd love to know how he feels about me. I just don't want to seem transparent and let him see how much I like him. I have his cell# from long ago, He didn't give it to me so I can't call. He'll loose my trust.

Aries girl, I thank u too for ur support. But I don't think I'd want to go to kissing yet. Make him wait a little.let the pressure build until it will ave to explode, the kiss will be 1000 times more intense. Things will pick up on their own. I learned my lesson in kissing guys soon in a friendship, ruins everything. That's not to say that I don't want to kiss him, or further. I'm dying to, but only waiting and restraining my impulses gives me a rush. It's not easy. It's like if I would kiss him, it would be heaven, but it would also be hell, bcuz I know we'd feel awkward, knowing that a relationship is too soon , and our friendship is not like before. So u're between two walls, one hot and one cold, u have to struggle to remain in the middle. U could burn and soon after freeze.
This guy is about as close to what I concider perfect as it gets. I'm so happy lately, and I don't know why he makes me feel so fine. I sure hope this will last forever.

-star*dust

I'm just a hopeless romantic.....
-*dust

Star*dust.....follow your HEART! Good for you for doing what you need to do. In my case the kissing just happened. He did it out of nowhere. Took me by surprise and it was amazing to me how I felt like I knew him and we just jelled. That is all that is going to happen for awhile as I do not want to rush things...if he is interested, he will call...if not, I have not have lost my self respect. I told him that I do find him very interesting and he feels the same way. There is a calmness about a Taurus man that seems to be very grounding for me. Funny how all of a sudden I am noticing more Taurus' entering my life. Must be something that I need to learn to further my growth. Ah-ha! adventures are awaiting for this Aries girl.

I wish the best for you too, Star*dust......🙂

do all taurean men have this impact on women? oh boy, coz thats how it developed between me n mr freaky taurean male!! its all good, as usual being a scoprio - we are much too egoistic n reserved on the outside when on the inside we are jumping for joy..mine's gone for 2 weeks now, email me n call me now n then. tonight he is due back home...and im still uncovering what we have gotten for us...fingers crossed - hope its all good coz i'm really tired of getting nowhere relationships...xoxoxo

Yes Ladies, we do have an effect on women, because we know how to love ladies as a gentleman does....and that is rare nowadays in this sex crazed world. We do seem to be going thru some crap right now, so understand that if we seem to be a tad bit introspective. You can be sure that if you are a woman of merit, you will be given love like it should be given..

Hope ya'll enjoy it....

Taurus Male

That's interesting that you've indicated that because I have a friend who I believe is going through crap right now as well. That's what I thought so I've been very understanding.

And me as well has a friend going through crap and a lot of it. I knew this already so I've given him space. He'll contact me again because I know we are meant to be and he always comes back.

Taurus guys know how to treat a lady the right way. Not to mention responsible, caring and understanding. Don't leave us in the cold inthe middle of nowhere.

8dust

AMEN BROTHER

Taurus Male

oh yes..taurean males..dun leave us out in the cold, why is it ur so affectionate n protective that when u have problems n try to solve it, u refuse to let us know and share it with us?

Taurus Male here:

It is difficult for us to understand that our friends may feel a need to help us, when at the same time, we feel
we pride ourselves in handling our own
situations or delimas. And you know, if we find ourselves in the position to have to be helped, then that is usually an embarassment for us. But on the other hand, we love to be able to help others, and we do it openly to the ones we love.....Pretty strange, isn't it?
So, by refusing help from our friends, we sometime deny them the joy of giving help to others they love...

That is probably one of the strangest quirks, if you will, that a Taurus may display.

Hope I have not confused you, but sometimes it even confuses me to try to explain it.

Taurus Male

my keyboard seems to be backward...that is dilemas, not delimas...delimas is when you have none with your tequilla shot...(yuk yuk)

thanks taurean male. my taurean man loves me to bits and so protective, but i hate it when he starts having problems at work or so, and wont share it with me coz i only want to lighten his burden, instead he becomes secretive which makes me mad and jump to conclusion. and every time i ask him to open up to me, he jus say "baby, dun worry for me, i will do everything for us, n i will make sure ur happy all the time." should i accept it like this or should i clarify? his idea of me-being the female is as if im sacred and he being the man should handle everything while i sit and watch, do wat the girls do all the time...i think thats nice treatment, real sweet but it gets to me looking at him handling everything to himself. anyway i can reach out n lighten the burden?

Sweetie:

No one likes worry, so that is why this Taurus doesn't want U 2...

Seems pretty cut and dry. He knows you are worrying for him (and he probably is
touched by that) BUT HE DOES NOT WANT YOU TO.
Just love him and try to make him feel better....take him to somewhere pretty and love him or feed the ducks with him....That probably would be better than to worry all over him.

Taurus Male

Taurus Male,

You just helped me out a whole lot because I, like Myztikal, am currently experiencing that weird "I can take care of everything including every problem you have, even ones you don't know you have, in addition to my own" vibe from this paricular Taurus in my life. You explained the reasons behind it quite well.

You know, you guys (Taureans) have an air of mystery about you that rivals that of us Scorpios, but when it comes down to it you are very simple. That is a compliment. ; )

And Myztikal, I feel you there on loving the fact that he's protective and masculine and able to "handle" everything, yet getting frustrated and jumping to conclusions when his strong silent thing leads you to believe he's keeping seedy secrets. I know exactly what you're saying. But Taurus Male, thank you for making things clearer for us!

Heather (phoenix_rising)

P.S. Taurus Male: I've been watching your posts around here and I must say you are a pleasant breath of fresh air and provide much needed insight...don't ever stop! ; )

Thanks Heather,
Appreciation is one of the finest gifts one can give a Taurus.

Taurus Male

Hi Taurus Male,

Yes I would have to agree with Heather. You seem to be a very caring and grounded person and have a good outlook on life. I always appreciate my Taurus friends -- male or female in my life. Not only do I appreciate the friendship, but the little things as well.

Aries female

Aries Female:

You a lady of merit, no doubt.
Bravo.

Taurus Male

Thank you Taurus Male

Taurus Male,

You're welcome for the appreciation!

Heather : )

I forgot there are a few Aries woman here. Hopefully he meant both of us Heather.

Aries female

hey taurean male..thanks for the reply, making me feel so much better. will try to do so once i have him in my arms again, as for now he is far n gone...business n family. pray hard he will be back soon for ur making me long to be in his arms once again.

I will add a prayer to those Hail Mary's. I will bet your Taurus Male will enjoy being with you.

Taurus Male who recognises a Loving Lady