What shall I do?

Me and my Gemini friend made up after a long complicated fall out, I apologised to her and apologised again on the second apology she accepted.

Problem is I feel things are a little awkward now, I'm not expecting things to go back to how it was but she did say she will ring me on Monday About catching up and coming to my baby shower but she didn't.

Do you think I should just leave her for a while, I'm about to have my baby soon and can't do much anyway plus I'm sure if she was coming to my baby shower she would let me know before the date right?

Posted by estellajones
Me and my Gemini friend made up after a long complicated fall out, I apologised to her and apologised again on the second apology she accepted.

Problem is I feel things are a little awkward now, I'm not expecting things to go back to how it was but she did say she will ring me on Monday About catching up and coming to my baby shower but she didn't.

Do you think I should just leave her for a while, I'm about to have my baby soon and can't do much anyway plus I'm sure if she was coming to my baby shower she would let me know before the date right?

Be a little persistent, I am the same way. I feel weird after a lot of time has passed by, if you want to get it back just push a bit and it will come back. You won't have to keep trying so hard once she feels more in the swing of things again. Just prove to her that you care about getting together and sharing these special times.

Okay, I shall message her tomorrow. I know she's probably waiting for me to message again she probably feels awkward

Posted by estellajones

... I apologised to her and apologised again on the second apology she accepted.

That's a lie.

Posted by estellajones

.... when I tried to apologise and make up she was not letting me she just kept brushing it off but went back to being bitter again, telling all her friends about what happened and just Indirecting me even though I apologised?!

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In your wording above, when talking about this situation, you said, "she just kept brushing it off", which is an indicator that your apology was given more than once. In fact, it suggests multiple times.

In saying that she is indirecting you ... is (current) happening. an action verb, that is in the now.


typical Pisces .... a liar

@P-Angel
A liar...
Aren't you a Pisces

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@P-Angel
A liar...
Aren't you a Pisces

What did she/he say? I can't see as I've blocked him/her

Just logged out to read what this p-angel said.

I don't understand why this person keeps harassing me but whatever, lol.

This person brought up my kids because my last post made them mad about my Gemini problem, I suppose it's just online bullying this person must be obsessed with trying to hurt me but oh well they remain blocked.

LOL hold on, isn't this rat a Pisces too? Troll.. Just like I said before haha

Omg! And you're 56 years old?? OLDER than my mother?? Shouldn't you have kids and be married and have sorted your life out by now?
Instead your trolling and stalking me. Wow, you should be sort of focusing on your life goals right now not focusing on a 21 year olds drama babe xo

I've heard others complain bout her, but some appreciate that she's honest and blunt.
doesn't really matter to me, guess it just depends on the person. If the person acts that way with me I just ignore them but I will still listen cause Im cool with taking constructive criticism, Im my own biggest critic, chances are I've already made up my mind on an issue, I just like other peoples opinions on it to put the seal on it.

True, there's being honest and blunt then just plain rude.
My children didn't need to be brought up in my previous Gemini post that was just out of order, Iol.

I'm all for criticism and opinions, whether blunt or not but to be rude behind a computer screen knowing full well she wouldn't say this to your face is just stupid