What's new Geminis?

lol so what's going on fellow Gems?

How are you all?

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Posted by GlamGemini
lol so what's going on fellow Gems?

How are you all?

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Hello, GlamGemini 🙂

Well, the full moon's getting to me. It's making me wax emo. Last night, my Virguy asked me if I was on drugs or something, haha. It's daylight now so I'm safe for a couple of hours. Tonight, I plan to stay away before I turn into emo werewolf. He might figure out that it's smarter to leave me if I push it. :p

it's goin... i'm good, thanks 🙂

how 'bout you, GlamGemini?

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Posted by GlamGemini
lol so what's going on fellow Gems?

How are you all?

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Hello, GlamGemini 🙂

Well, the full moon's getting to me. It's making me wax emo. Last night, my Virguy asked me if I was on drugs or something, haha. It's daylight now so I'm safe for a couple of hours. Tonight, I plan to stay away before I turn into emo werewolf. He might figure out that it's smarter to leave me if I push it. :p

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LOL I love how you call him "Virguy"
What would you call a Cancer guy then?

I don't even know where the moons at right now lol, so what sign is it now?

Posted by misslissa
it's goin... i'm good, thanks 🙂

how 'bout you, GlamGemini?

GOOD GOOD.. lol hows the Libra man? and everything else lol

I'm okaay lol

Posted by ThroatVirus
in real life I'm in a "transition" phase right now 😉

HERE I'm doing the usual...annoying the crap out of the other users (not other geminis of course)

Yay!!! We have diplomatic immunity!!! har har har

How's that thing going with your Sag girl? 😉

Okay, sorry for this but I need to get this off my chest. Virguy just broke up with me. Why? Because I talked to his brother.

My head is still spinning or maybe I'm still in shock so forgive me if this is choppy.

I know I said I'd stay away -- and I did. Virguy and I are long distance for the moment, FYI. Anyway, he left his messenger on and his brother gets on it. Of course, I think it's him first and say hi. Baby bro talks to me, so of course, I respond. We chat a bit and I kind of enjoy it because he's not as stodgy and serious as big bro. Then he says, he has to go and to text him. He gives me his number and I text back only asking him to confirm if I got it right.

Anyway, throughout this whole thing, I keep telling baby bro that I should probably ask big bro (virguy) if it's okay to talk with him. I also tell baby bro to tell his big bro that he talked to me. I was already covering my bases.

When Virguy gets home, it's the first thing I tell him. I want everything to be aboveboard. He is pissed. Thinks I did something behind his back... why did I have to give my number.. yadayadayada....

I mean, hello—? It's his brother. I mean, honestly, I thought he'd get mad if I rudely ignored his bro. And I try to explain that but... he's stuck on why I had to give my number in the first place. So he tells me to seriously leave him and his bro alone. And I'm ... i dunno... in shock still I guess.

He tells me never to text/call his bro again and to just ignore him (baby bro) if he contacts me. I say I'll do that and ask what about us? I asked if he wants us to move forward together or apart and he doesn't answer. I said I was sad if we were going to part ways but anyways, it has to be dealt with (yeah, i'm still efficient under pressure, lol... i want to know if I'm going to move on quick because i swear, i'm tired of lengthy grieving periods for breakups so I want this one to be like pulling a band-aid off your skin fast). He still doesn't answer even I say that it's just a yes or no answer anyway.

And he logs off....

Right now... i'm still in shock. I don't know if we're truly broken up or this is another one of his hissyfits. But seriously... I need a break from this. I don't want to go running to the virgo forum asking what this means or what because they see I'm Gemini... and they'll immediately think "good for him, he broke up with her". Yeah, right. Like I need the negativity right now.

So seriously, what was so terrible about what I did?

What?
You did NOTHING WRONG!

Even if you were talking to his younger brother so what?
I mean it's his brother, and he should trust you enough to stop thinking so old school.. people are supposed to communicate with one another...there's no law that forbids you from it!

My guessing is he was thinking of it before and he was looking for the right chance to jump at you.
OR he's just upset about something in his life and he's using you as his punching bag

That's what it sounds like to me..
I'm so so so so so sorry.. There's not much I can say to make you feel better but to just stay strong girl..

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Posted by misslissa
it's goin... i'm good, thanks 🙂

how 'bout you, GlamGemini?

GOOD GOOD.. lol hows the Libra man? and everything else lol

I'm okaay lol

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he's good and the kids are good too.. 🙂 everything else is a work in progress. lol!

Posted by misslissa

Posted by GlamGemini

Posted by misslissa
it's goin... i'm good, thanks 🙂

how 'bout you, GlamGemini?

GOOD GOOD.. lol hows the Libra man? and everything else lol

I'm okaay lol

he's good and the kids are good too.. 🙂 everything else is a work in progress. lol!

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Kids? :O
what are ur kids signs?

lol! yes, 3 of them. all teenagers... fun! lol!

leo girl, cap boy, cancer/leo cusp girl

Lol wow that must be one fun loud house!

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yea. lol! the only quiet ones here are my cap son and me (believe it or not!) lol!

Posted by GlamGemini
What?
You did NOTHING WRONG!

Even if you were talking to his younger brother so what?
I mean it's his brother, and he should trust you enough to stop thinking so old school.. people are supposed to communicate with one another...there's no law that forbids you from it!

My guessing is he was thinking of it before and he was looking for the right chance to jump at you.
OR he's just upset about something in his life and he's using you as his punching bag

That's what it sounds like to me..
I'm so so so so so sorry.. There's not much I can say to make you feel better but to just stay strong girl..

Yeah, I'm thinking he was looking for an out and this was the perfect opportunity. Well, I also think I did nothing wrong so I'm not the least bit remorseful. Me thinks that he has issues with his bro that he hasn't told me about but again, my take on that is... I can very well get myself in trouble without anybody's help and when I do, I take accountability for it but I sure as hell will not be taking flak for issues that have nothing to do with me.

I'm not even sad or disappointed at this point. Just like -- oh, so that's that, eh? I think I may have unwittingly initiated shutdown sequence, LOL.

I don't think I shall do any groveling for him to take me back. It's too silly really.

He's being whack.

I've actually went through something so similar lol
I had a crush on this Virgo and once he was telling me how his brother is yadda yadda yadda
ALL I said was "He seems ok" and he got really angry with me, and he didn't talk to me for like days LOL.
His older brother was a Virgo as well haha.

It's too silly, sibling rivalry should never come between relationships and your love life..

Morning, fellow Gems --- it's the morning after and I'm doing good. Still haven't succumbed to bawling my eyes out or anything. I know they do get territorial and my comment that baby bro was cute (which he really is) may have triggered something there. But.. lah dee dah.... I DON'T CARE.

Before I met Virguy, I had just been through a really really bad breakup which took me three years to piece my heart back together again. I was just ecstatic when the day came and I found out... hey, it doesn't hurt anymore. I'm actually okay. And well, been through that once, don't want to go through a protracted pining and yearning for someone who doesn't want me. I learned to value myself at that time and, more importantly, love myself.

He's a good guy, a great guy even and I thought that we had something to take forward but bottomline is that if you try to keep on jamming two puzzle pieces that don't fit together, you end up deforming each piece and if it gets bent out of shape, it won't be able to fit where it's supposed to.

Well, I have a relapse prevention plan in place, LOL. I switched to my secret YM account specifically for nuclear meltdowns, lol. The only people I have on that list are tried and tested friends, a couple of exes I've remained friends with but am not going back to -- my sanctuary so to speak.

Right now, I don't want to see him or hear from him. One can only take so much rejection and I've put up with his virgo perfectionism, critiquing, his capricorn unreasonableness and no questions asked policy so I can honestly say that I've given this my best given what I had. No lingering what ifs here.

Plus, whenever I feel like I'm backsliding -- I just read this article called "God's Plan For Your Mate". It's nice. I'll probably post it in a new thread.

I won't deny it, I'm hurt. Just as well that I don't have to see him in person because I wouldn't be able to look him in the eye. I tend to do that when I'm really hurt. For self-preservation, I have to deny your existence. It drives the people around me crazy because they see the difference between my treatment of them and the others I don't have a beef with.

But, oh, well. I am tapping into my inner stores of joy and love and compassion to share with others. Life is too short to be miserable.

I'm so glad you said that..
I know it can be difficult losing someone special to you but if he was willing to end it over something so damn trivial
then that says something..

You're a Gemini girl, you're as fierce as fierce can get!

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I need to summon my inner Gemini for this... sigh... and at the same time suppress my moon in Taurus. That's just really making me want to hang on when it's clear that I have to be airy and breezy and float to someplace good. 🙂

Anymore news girl?
Did he try to call or anything?

Nope. 😢 I've been hiding out most of the time anyway. Mostly because I read his horoscope today and it said that Virgos will talk to their favorite people today and make holiday plans. It hurts too much to think it isn't me he's talking to.

Anyway, I'm trying to distract myself. Old boyfriends trying to get back with me have been popping up (yeah, like they sensed it), and I agreed to go out with one tonight. I don't plan to fool around though but it's nice to feel wanted. Besides, like I have reason to feel guilty since i'm single and free. Pshhhhh.

I hate horoscopes. I vow to never look at anything Virgo again!!!!!

Awww well it's good you're going out and all, you don't have anything to feel guilty of you're damn right..
WORK IT!

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