Hi fellow mercurians!

So the gem board has been in some conversations on the virgo board recently, and I realized I haven't been over here in a while. I hope you guys have been keeping yourselves out of trouble. 😉

Posted by gemtaur
LOL We try, we really, really try. But trouble to Gem is like a moth to a flame, or is it the other way around? If we're not IN it, we're kitty corner from it, or on our way there...

How's it going with Cancer guy, Candeh?

How, wow, I haven't mentioned the cancer in ages gem, I'm surprised you remembered. Well, we have a strange, yet satisfying thing going on. Still call each other friends, but we obviously like each other. He's been very busy this week, so I haven'tr seen him in a little, but that's fine to me. He's definitely a figure where if nothing really worked out, we'd still be close. Kind of like how all my cancer relationships turn out hahaha.

And I agree: behind those angelic, pretty smiles, there is always mischievous devil.

How do you know it would be his loss?

If two people aren't compatible, and they cannot be together .. then one of the two isn't a potential loss.

Seriously .... what's up when people purposely go out of their way to stroke someones ego? don't you guys know that egos are the worse things in the world to have, so why would you want to make it bigger?

And second .. do people who make nice like that, just superficially for no actual benefit whatsoever for the other except to baske in an inflated ego .... realize that doing that is actually creating negative energy?

Actually, I don't believe it'd be his loss if things didn't work out. I'm not pushing for anything because I know we are in slightly different places, and things can always change. Either way, I would look upon him with fondness and adoration. And P, I don't understand your second question.

Hey TV! Haha, I just might be. 😉 I never did get one anyway. Also, I always wanted to know, what is your sign? I've been trying to figure it out...

Ccdarling .. I wasn't talking about literally .. I was talking in concept.

I am unclear why people always take things so goddam personally.

Do I have to simplify everything in order for it to be understood?

I was talking about in theory .. and not in the actual creation of energy.

Geez ..

Candeh .... it is all about truth.

If you lie to somebody it is creating negative energy .. even a little itty bitty white lie .. that is still a falsehood, and it is still creating the negative energy.

Truth, even if it's cold and brutal is still truth = positive.

Think about that.

If you tell somebody something that isn't the truth, take for example, someone tells you that it's his loss if it ends .. that's a lie, because it's not a loss to him at all is it? Because if he thought that much of you that you would be a loss then he wouldn't lose you, he would keep you, right? Ok, so that's a lie = a negative.

That is what I meant.

Alright, that makes more sense. And I agree; however, and this is hypothetical, if the other person who supposedly left with "no loss" wanted to come back, what would that be called then? Would it still be his loss for walking away and realizing that wasn't the decision he wanted, or would it still be a lie?

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Posted by Candeh15
Hey TV! Haha, I just might be. 😉 I never did get one anyway. Also, I always wanted to know, what is your sign? I've been trying to figure it out...

Candeh, I'm a Gemini...don't hold that against me k?

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Oh wait! Now I remember, you did say that hahaha. And don't worry, I won't. A while back, I might have. But I like the gems, and you sure, are quite alright. 😉

Posted by gemtaur
P, if a Cancer man can't appreciate that a logical Virgo is just the thing he needs in his life to balance out his emotional structure, then, yes, it's HIS loss.

Mother's breast is great and dandy as a boy, but if he wants to become a man he needs to introduce REASON into his existence and that's where Virgal comes in.

Plus, Candeh can kick it with Gems, so I'm a touch biased. Sue me.

Awww. I really like how you articulated that, Gem. And I do like you gems. You guys are always fun-loving.

Hey Sometimes things just don't work out dats all 🙂

I'm surrounded by cancers, so I know what you mean. Ironically, I love that they think with their heart even if they just throw logic out of the door (which is the most frustrating thing; it's like they can't see what I can, so they are always dissatisfied). They give me what I always (secretly) desired, while I can at least help them rationalize a little, lol.

Ah well. I'm glad none of my relationships with cancers end horribly haha.

I just realized that this ISN'T the cancer board, so we should get back and track and have a virgo/gem party. Mercury, unite!