any leo ever been in a relationship with aquarius?

i have, for a year, and ive noticed some re-occuring issues between us. he pisses me off by flirting around with other girls, and i piss him off by becoming very angry and making a scene.

i have learned to control my anger to a point, i dont freak out the way i used to, but sometimes, out of the blue, i say some very nasty things to him because i cant stop dwelling on his wandering eye problem.

he, in return, becomes very distant, but never really admits that hes upset with me. i have to drag it out of him. i have to say that i do appreciate the fact that he dosent seem to hold a grudge against me when i lash out at him.

i try not to let my ego get the best of me, i like to be adored, romanced, and all that good stuff, and alot of times, my aquarius lets me down when it comes to that stuff. im working hard to appreciate the times that he is rather loving towards me, rather than expect it 24/7. even so, his lack of compassion really gets to me.

it boils down to the fact that i have a hard time believing that he really loves me. i will admit that he has put forth a great effort to become a more attentive boyfriend, but i cant help but feel that the nice things he does should come standard in a relationship. if that makes any sense....basically, i dont think one should have to put forth an effort to be loving to their partner, it should come naturally. if it dosent, how can they truly be in love?

i am really crazy about this guy, even though he brings out the b**** in me. im just curious to see if anyone else has felt similar to this in a leo/aquarius relationship

"you will never be the primary focus. ever.

-i disagree with that statement. i think it goes back to the immature aqua vs. the mature aqua. until an aqua male truly knows what he wants, his significant other will NEVER be a top priority. but once an aqua male has matured or knows what it is he wants...it's a different story.

i think a relationship with an aqua man is frustrating for a lot of women b/c it is so unconventional...and i will admit that i too was extrmemely frustrated for a long time b/c i was not getting what i needed to feel satisfied in the relationship. but, now i am completely ok with everything and much more laid back, and it has been 100% better all around. i think one must come to terms with the fact that it is not your typical relationship...and it moves at a MUCH slower pace with an aqua male!!!

Very good points moonchild! You have picked up well *wink*

it seems distance makes a relationship harder, I have never seen were an entire country makes a relationship seem great especially when it's real deep emotions and real love involved, distance can be very frustrating.

MC it's funny how you say your Aqua is the flirt, I have heard it's the other way around, now I can be a flirt (i'm an aquarius dating a leo) but it's not something I go out of my way to do, he's not going to stop flirting, I would say pick up and use your leo charm and start your own flirt fest until he gets the point, the whining about it is pretty much a turn off for him and brings distance between you and your partner and I can assume your trying to be closer to him not bring more distance between the two of you.

Meet him at his own game, Aqua's are air signs (90% mental) and when it comes down to it, we typically love a mental challenge, he will start to see the effects of his behavior b/c we are THINKERS, you don't have to out do him in flirting, jus pace yourself with him, your behavior will get him to thinking about his behavior and how it affects you, I promise you he will stop....when you react well it's like telling little boys don't open that box or don't touch that hot stove, your reaction will make him want to do it, so stop reacting and pick up your game.

My leo is a flirt, well no complaints from me b/c hey thats cool with me and I'm not trying to change who he is, I'm a bit of flirt too, so I had the opportunity to flirt with a few fire men, oh leo's confidence was shaken, so he altered that behavior real quick, we laughed about it afterwards, don't make it an angry situation, it doesn't have to be okay, Aqua men like to be challenged a bit in the mental department, give him that stimulation, if he's not picking up and giving affection etc well it's b/c he's more mental than physical and your the opposite of him...you do know this combo are opposites? Well feed his mind and I promise you he will pick up and alter his behavior, I helped a few combos like this so I know you can handle him 😄

fyi

one of the main reasons I am so in love with my leo, well he knows how to feed my mind, communication is key with this combo, he knows how to stimulate my mind and soothe me and I have learned to pick up a bit of fire to feed him (someone taught me how to do this) I have some nervous energy and this leo can get into my head and calm all that down, might be due to his Aqua moon, I been hanging with an Aries co-worker and she typically doesn't take well to Aqua females so we do her chart the other day and she has an Aqua moon and I have a leo moon and of course leos and aries are compatible so we hit it off well, might need to get your charts done, if you have your dates of birth and city/state you were born you can compare your charts to see how compatible you are with him.

a great site to start with is http://www.adze.com/VenusFiles/ ...don't worry if you don't have the times of birth, jus enter 12pm

I agree LK you definitely make valid points...moonchild is back on track with her man and he's making huge efforts to be in the relationship..hope it's okay to reveal that moonchild.

"it seems distance makes a relationship harder, I have never seen were an entire country makes a relationship seem great especially when it's real deep emotions and real love involved, distance can be very frustrating."

-thank you tiki!!! i agree...how could distance make a relationship better/easier— i think it is a test to see how strong your love for each other really is, and it is a test to see how strong of a person you are. it is NOT easy to do long distance, but i think if you can get through it...you can get through just about anything.

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Hey -LEOS- n othrrs

yea what do you think of this. This topic is similar to the other post bout whether
Leos-Aq relationship successul. What "type" of leo n aqu. get along?
what characteristics in them?
Juzz wondering.

What is this about the "postive" and 'negative' aquas? like there is a good and bad aquarian? Explain.. I have come across them. (the females are usually the "positive" ones i guess, with the honest behaviour n all that). The aquas who are 'bad' don't realize they're being bad or something,,