sayuloveme
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Pls give me advice on Leo man/ Aquarius woman
Should I Make the First Move with a Leo Man as an Aquarius Woman
Making the first move can work well if you are straightforward and genuine. Leo men appreciate honesty and confidence. Be clear about your feelings and avoid playing games. Mutual respect and clear communication help build trust in this relationship. Understanding Leo's need for admiration and your directness creates a strong connection.
Hi sayuloveme,
I am a leo female, there are alot of qualities with both the leo female and leo male. If I were U, to keep him around longer, don't stroke his ego. So what if he steps away for the moment! It will make him a stronger person and you will get alot more of his true feelings. In time stroke his ego. But, not right now. Learn him earn that. I am with a capricorn male. Whew! Real cold natured. No I don't mean, or not loving. Just not going to compliment your every move. Some unaffectionate feelings will help bring out his feelings. Big time. I have been involved with a capricorn for 10.5 years. He now shows more affection that he used to in the beginning of the relationship. I feel as if I earned that respect from him. I wouldn't be unaffectionate for years and years because he will seek more affection from other women, but not necessarily sleep with them or leave you for them. Shower him periodically with gifts. Not a whole lot, just some to let him that is how you show some affection. It's like I care but, until you release all of your feelings, I won't release all of mines. Tag him along. If you can promise him the world through actions instead of words and dangle the best over his head, he will appreciate you more. Don't do it to much or he will start feeling like you are forcing the issue of keeping him around. It's like keep a piece of steak dangling over his head, when he is good, GIVE it to him, when he is not let him know that he hasn't earned it. You can't be a DOG to this man. He will not like that kind of behavior and will leave you cold. Just be strong, very stable, and gentle with your actions. Let him have his freedom. Leos are the most faithfull signs in the zodiac. They SEEM like players, but it is because they get attention from everywhere. He can't help that, that part of his nature. Don't act possessive or jealous or that will turn him off. Just trust, main word trust him. If you don't, he will give you what you desperately want him to do (find someone else or THINK about cheat). Mental stimulation is good, but backing off is a good idea. Keep him guessing. Don't do everything to fast, give him time to THINK about what his gameplan is next. If you give to much, he will back off, and get mad about you playing mind games with him. If you want a very faithful lover, give it a shot. Don't be unaffectionate forever, it you don't want him to roam. Just enough to let him build up the tension of releasing his own.
I am a leo female, there are alot of qualities with both the leo female and leo male. If I were U, to keep him around longer, don't stroke his ego. So what if he steps away for the moment! It will make him a stronger person and you will get alot more of his true feelings. In time stroke his ego. But, not right now. Learn him earn that. I am with a capricorn male. Whew! Real cold natured. No I don't mean, or not loving. Just not going to compliment your every move. Some unaffectionate feelings will help bring out his feelings. Big time. I have been involved with a capricorn for 10.5 years. He now shows more affection that he used to in the beginning of the relationship. I feel as if I earned that respect from him. I wouldn't be unaffectionate for years and years because he will seek more affection from other women, but not necessarily sleep with them or leave you for them. Shower him periodically with gifts. Not a whole lot, just some to let him that is how you show some affection. It's like I care but, until you release all of your feelings, I won't release all of mines. Tag him along. If you can promise him the world through actions instead of words and dangle the best over his head, he will appreciate you more. Don't do it to much or he will start feeling like you are forcing the issue of keeping him around. It's like keep a piece of steak dangling over his head, when he is good, GIVE it to him, when he is not let him know that he hasn't earned it. You can't be a DOG to this man. He will not like that kind of behavior and will leave you cold. Just be strong, very stable, and gentle with your actions. Let him have his freedom. Leos are the most faithfull signs in the zodiac. They SEEM like players, but it is because they get attention from everywhere. He can't help that, that part of his nature. Don't act possessive or jealous or that will turn him off. Just trust, main word trust him. If you don't, he will give you what you desperately want him to do (find someone else or THINK about cheat). Mental stimulation is good, but backing off is a good idea. Keep him guessing. Don't do everything to fast, give him time to THINK about what his gameplan is next. If you give to much, he will back off, and get mad about you playing mind games with him. If you want a very faithful lover, give it a shot. Don't be unaffectionate forever, it you don't want him to roam. Just enough to let him build up the tension of releasing his own.
krobe03,
I am a leo woman speaking here, NO I don't need lots and lots of attention from the man I am with a capricorn, however, we both can't be two emotional torments. Emotional people make us feel weak and we DOG the sh-- out of those kind of MEN. He-- if I am emotional, U don't need to be too emotional too! PLUS I will expect it ALL the time. However, WHEN i express the need that I am not getting attention enough and he realizes it, he understands, does what he needs to provide it and I appreciate it. I APPRECIATE attention more when I don't have it showered on me all the time. If you stroke my EGO all the time, when U don't I get emotionally hurt and expect it all the time. TRUST ME if you don't do it ALL the time, when I ask for it OK, but if I know not to expect it from you constantly, I will accept it, realize that you are just not going to do it, AND appreciate it more when I get it. DON'T Do it at first. BIG MISTAKE!
I am a leo woman speaking here, NO I don't need lots and lots of attention from the man I am with a capricorn, however, we both can't be two emotional torments. Emotional people make us feel weak and we DOG the sh-- out of those kind of MEN. He-- if I am emotional, U don't need to be too emotional too! PLUS I will expect it ALL the time. However, WHEN i express the need that I am not getting attention enough and he realizes it, he understands, does what he needs to provide it and I appreciate it. I APPRECIATE attention more when I don't have it showered on me all the time. If you stroke my EGO all the time, when U don't I get emotionally hurt and expect it all the time. TRUST ME if you don't do it ALL the time, when I ask for it OK, but if I know not to expect it from you constantly, I will accept it, realize that you are just not going to do it, AND appreciate it more when I get it. DON'T Do it at first. BIG MISTAKE!
krobe03,
Because we are emotional people are selves. Why in the HE-- do I need another person with emotional baggage . ITS like shut the FU-- UP! I don't want to hear this sh--. Be strong and help me deal with my problems. I don't want NO cry baby as- around me. That sh-- will drive me crazy. F That! Be confident, be strong this is MY weakness, help me overcome this weakness. Don't add something to me in my life that I am already weak with myself. For the best advice, keep your feelings at a distance. A Real distance. HE will eventually confide in enough trust to let all of them out if U have a STRONGER side of him. This WILL help him find the stronger side of him. If He complains tell him to shut the FU-- UP. He is a man, and U don't want NO cry baby a-- man around U or in your life. Deal with it! He may get MAD at first, but it will be the best for him in the long run. This is life, let him find confidence. And he will respect U for that and in time with that level of self confidence HE WILL. And HE WILL NEVER leave U for it because U made him find the better half of HIM.
Because we are emotional people are selves. Why in the HE-- do I need another person with emotional baggage . ITS like shut the FU-- UP! I don't want to hear this sh--. Be strong and help me deal with my problems. I don't want NO cry baby as- around me. That sh-- will drive me crazy. F That! Be confident, be strong this is MY weakness, help me overcome this weakness. Don't add something to me in my life that I am already weak with myself. For the best advice, keep your feelings at a distance. A Real distance. HE will eventually confide in enough trust to let all of them out if U have a STRONGER side of him. This WILL help him find the stronger side of him. If He complains tell him to shut the FU-- UP. He is a man, and U don't want NO cry baby a-- man around U or in your life. Deal with it! He may get MAD at first, but it will be the best for him in the long run. This is life, let him find confidence. And he will respect U for that and in time with that level of self confidence HE WILL. And HE WILL NEVER leave U for it because U made him find the better half of HIM.
I wish you could see me at my desk, my co-workers are like what are you reading, I can't stay still, this brings it all to light, this brings so much clarity to what i have dealt with....oh my 'n gawd!! You really don't know how this has brought so much clarity to me
krobe03,
anytime, just send msgs and I will help!
krobe03,
anytime, just send msgs and I will help!
krobe03...gives me a perspective on my Leo as well!!! When he quit talking to me, I was talking about emotional feelings as well!! Thanks for the insight!!!
krobe03,
DO something with your life if possible where U don't even think about your relationship. My capricorn male has feelings at a distance. OH my GOD, I don't know how much more of a woman he has pulled out of me. THIS has had to be the best part of my experience with him. HE doesn't express his feelings much. Which in return makes me think about what I want to say to him, what I want when I say it and because I just don't pour out everything at once, he listens to me. WHEN, and if I do complain, he does everything he can to please me, and gives me everything I want to accommodate for the feelings I feel as if I lost. But, since he is the MAN, make him give U everything U want, and everything U need to compensate why he doesn't get U to express yourself more. LEO men, if U let them are independent. Make him if he is not GO out and DO something for hiself. MAKE HIM. DO not spoil him or U will get a spoiled as- man who is depending on U. My capricorn man we really never saw each other, I went to school fulltime, I earned my degree, I worked two jobs. Sometimes we only got 2-3 hours of seeing each other. I was content because he came home every night, cooked, keep the house clean, keep our baby and gave me my freedom. Now since I have earned my degree, I want to share all the wealth I have earned and give him everything he deserves in life. Our problem is he doesn't want me to do that. He wants to be the one to pay basically, all the bills, give me what I want. It's enough, he is a good man, but It upsets me that he won't share the power with me. It makes me feel as if we are settling for less. SO IF HE wants to provide you with everything. Let him. Because he feels as if U deserve it.
DO something with your life if possible where U don't even think about your relationship. My capricorn male has feelings at a distance. OH my GOD, I don't know how much more of a woman he has pulled out of me. THIS has had to be the best part of my experience with him. HE doesn't express his feelings much. Which in return makes me think about what I want to say to him, what I want when I say it and because I just don't pour out everything at once, he listens to me. WHEN, and if I do complain, he does everything he can to please me, and gives me everything I want to accommodate for the feelings I feel as if I lost. But, since he is the MAN, make him give U everything U want, and everything U need to compensate why he doesn't get U to express yourself more. LEO men, if U let them are independent. Make him if he is not GO out and DO something for hiself. MAKE HIM. DO not spoil him or U will get a spoiled as- man who is depending on U. My capricorn man we really never saw each other, I went to school fulltime, I earned my degree, I worked two jobs. Sometimes we only got 2-3 hours of seeing each other. I was content because he came home every night, cooked, keep the house clean, keep our baby and gave me my freedom. Now since I have earned my degree, I want to share all the wealth I have earned and give him everything he deserves in life. Our problem is he doesn't want me to do that. He wants to be the one to pay basically, all the bills, give me what I want. It's enough, he is a good man, but It upsets me that he won't share the power with me. It makes me feel as if we are settling for less. SO IF HE wants to provide you with everything. Let him. Because he feels as if U deserve it.
krobe03,
That's what astrology says, U can believe it to a certain extent, Fire signs if you really think about it just help build fuel to fire, they are alike in so many ways that all they do is help U build a bigger fire, add more fuel, and basically U can't find yourself in that but gossiping, stirring up sh--, living the same life style . BUT with a different type of energy a different force, you can and WILL find yourself in that stronger force. U can find a bigger better part of U instead of the same U. FEEL ME. My capricorn's distance without me even realizing it has brought a better half out of me. I just hate he doesn't want to share indepency. I have to make the decision of can I settle for this or go roaming. IT's A sad thing with us leo's but its true. An aqua will help settle for more of what WE both want. Capricorn's are more stern.
That's what astrology says, U can believe it to a certain extent, Fire signs if you really think about it just help build fuel to fire, they are alike in so many ways that all they do is help U build a bigger fire, add more fuel, and basically U can't find yourself in that but gossiping, stirring up sh--, living the same life style . BUT with a different type of energy a different force, you can and WILL find yourself in that stronger force. U can find a bigger better part of U instead of the same U. FEEL ME. My capricorn's distance without me even realizing it has brought a better half out of me. I just hate he doesn't want to share indepency. I have to make the decision of can I settle for this or go roaming. IT's A sad thing with us leo's but its true. An aqua will help settle for more of what WE both want. Capricorn's are more stern.
sorry for the typo's....of course I'm more willing to listen now or I wouldn't be here but I know first hand how stubborn Cap men can be.
My daughter is a Capricorn and I tell you she can be the most stubborn girl I have ever seen. She is an adult now, but as she was growing up and into her college days, she was so determined. I have to say I admire her tenacity because I don't think I ever heard her say 'I give up'!!! She always wanted to do things her way and in spite of the fact I would of said the heck with it along the way, she always perservered, even against the worst odds. What an awesome spirit she had. She still has that 'can do' attitude and usually succeeds at whatever is before her. So, your Cap man sounds like he is being true to his sign. Embrace his determination and his can do spirit.
I wish I could tell you how to remedy it but I'm on the cusp of Capricorn and I'm stubborn as hell, I know I can be coaxed into it doing something but even then it might now work, I don't catch onto how beneficial something is for me until later down the line when I discover it ON MY OWN...very very stubborn at times.
krobe03,
He is not very stubborn, his ascendent is sagittarius. He just doen't like change. AT ALL. He is very confident, very strong, a great provider, LOVES our daughter and his other children like I have NEVER seen another male. He just wants to be in control. To some degree, I CAN accept that. But, right now I am in the position of one of the BEST jobs on the market, I can travel for FREE, pay NO bills, get a rental car insurance, bills, rent, food EVERYTHING basically for FREE PLUS earn 100+ a year NO GIMMICKS! IN one year's time I could pay our house off, get us almost completely out of debt and in the next 5 years, we can be living a very, very, wealthy life. However, because this gift from GOD is not from his work, his determination, HIM. He doesn't want that for us. He feels like it is a opportunity for me and doesn't want to be any part of it. IT IS TO HARD of a challenge for Leos's to settle for the lesser value. NOT happening. If someone else with the right qualifications comes along. I'm sorry, its not about your life or what makes U happy, its about US and what makes US happy.
krobe03,
He is not very stubborn, his ascendent is sagittarius. He just doen't like change. AT ALL. He is very confident, very strong, a great provider, LOVES our daughter and his other children like I have NEVER seen another male. He just wants to be in control. To some degree, I CAN accept that. But, right now I am in the position of one of the BEST jobs on the market, I can travel for FREE, pay NO bills, get a rental car insurance, bills, rent, food EVERYTHING basically for FREE PLUS earn 100+ a year NO GIMMICKS! IN one year's time I could pay our house off, get us almost completely out of debt and in the next 5 years, we can be living a very, very, wealthy life. However, because this gift from GOD is not from his work, his determination, HIM. He doesn't want that for us. He feels like it is a opportunity for me and doesn't want to be any part of it. IT IS TO HARD of a challenge for Leos's to settle for the lesser value. NOT happening. If someone else with the right qualifications comes along. I'm sorry, its not about your life or what makes U happy, its about US and what makes US happy.
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