Aqua female Leo male

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by SoftCookie on Wednesday, August 1, 2007 and has 28 replies.

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I met a very cool Aqua girl recently and need tips on the best approach seeing as I have not dated one in the past. She has the naughty librarian look going on and is very cool and reserved. But with a bit of an edge. Brainy women are the cat's pajamas. I already know that we have a lot of the same nerdy interests.

I've only met her a couple of times, she is friends with my roommate. I think that I need to be around her a few more times before I make my interest known. I'm not one to come on strong anyway (not all Leos are pushy), but I don't want to play it too cold.

Any thoughts? Any chance?

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@~devil's_the_name~
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i was with a leo girl once.the other way round story.haahaa

she was brainy too,but and we shared a lot of interests,but it was like trying to fit two swords in one case.it didn't work out,because she was not willing to let go of her controlling nature,and i was not very good at taking commands.

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sounds like a lot of work...why can't Aquas be easy like their air sisters? ๐Ÿ˜‰

I'm just going to be nonchalant for now so as not to make a fool of myself...

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That's good, I'm usually my own court jester... ๐Ÿ™‚~๐Ÿ˜ข

Do Aquas believe in lust at first sight? I think I might have caught her staring a few times when we first met, but it could also be wishful thinking...

Are Aquas cerebral at all times? She seemed a bit serious, but I've heard some interesting stories... I don't want to overdo the goofball routine before she knows that I'm not a complete idiot...

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Funny is always good...brains are even sexier.
The combination of both i fireworks.

Staring is always good also. Not necessarily lust all the time, but more like curiosity.

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True, she seemed to have a look on her face that said "WTF is this guy's problem!?!?!?". Could have been my midnight purchase of beer, toilet paper, and toothpaste (we ran into her the first time at the grocery store).

I'll assume that she's madly in lust right now for ego sakes, but I'll hold off on the sexy pix until just the right time...

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I know that Leo and Aqua are very different, but I'm not looking to take the express train to Pantyland. I actually respect her...sexy, intelligent women are hard to come by. That's why I want to approach things the right way and have fun. She's kind of shy, as am I until I get to know someone. I'm just going to put myself in her general vicinity and see what happens.

BTW, who's Origami man?

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@Lady_M
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awww, other aquas are fun to play with.::reminisces on good times, 'le' [throwback] sigh::
He's sounds interesting to say the least!
Have fun Aqi. ๐Ÿ™‚

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OneFineAquarius, Austin is a pretty cool town, I'm sure it rubbed off on your BF.

Hopefully I'm beyond the stage where I need ego-stroking, compliments actually make me suspicious. I can always call my mom if I need to hear how wonderful I am. ๐Ÿ™‚

I'll see what happens, there's no rush. I don't want to cramp her style any more than I want her to do the same...

que sera sera

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I'm tired of party girls, I want a woman with substance ... I have a few good aqua guy friends, hopefully the females are just as intelligent and fun (minus the annoying dangly parts)...

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@tiki33
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yeah he will have fun! I'm still hanging in there with my leo, things I learned, don't hurt his pride, don't pressure him, Aquas tend to have a hard time relaxing and just going with it, give him space but play with him and tease him at the same time, oh and theirs more but i won't hi-jack the thread, please keep us posted!

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@tiki33
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oh no softcookie you don't have to wait too long, give her attention, when i say attention, call her a few times, make her laugh, go to a movie, art musuem, find out what she likes and what makes her happy, she will love it on a subconscious level, yeah on the surface she may squirm a bit and seem uncomfortable but deep down most Aquas crave attention, crave that emotion of he's really into me and he should be because i'm all that lol! No you don't have to wait, she will pick up when your actions say your digging her and only her, she will soon pick up and open up, yes I come off shy like your Aqua but all it takes is a great smile, easy personality and don't be afraid to talk about yourself, not too much but some Aquas love great stories and interesting people, make sure to give her lots of attention when your around, be relaxed around her which will make her feel comfortable....try it, see what happens.

jus be yourself and most leos are charming, beautiful and good looking, don't fail to use that to your advantage, don't over do it but she will love your confidence b/c afterall your her opposite, so she will admire your positive traits because she will more than likely not feel she has strengthened those traits that you have within herself and will be drawn to that and vice versa.

if you ever need some advice, feel free to hit me up, I been with my leo for awhile now and we struggled in the beginning, things are great now.