Are Leo's cautious?

So its a Leo Man at the gym..I always see him looking at me...and he comes and over and talks to me quite often. I've notice he leaves when I leave and his car is always parked by mine...Lol..But for some reason I dont get the creepy feeling like I normally do..maybe because he is attractive...Anyways this has been going on for awhile. Its obvious that he likes me and attracted to me. Well yesterday he comes over and talks to me..I told him I may go get in th ehot tub...so when I go to the hot tub..guess who is there? Him....We talk..he asked me my relationship status etc and all that.mere conversation about my love life. I tell him I'll talk to him later and get out. My question...what is he waiting for. Why hasnt he asked for my number or anything? I know he wants too.

Well isnt he already feeling you out? My question is why the rush? On your part?

Guess I'm not used to this process. No rush I supposed. Just curious to know why.

I think men are generally cautious if they like you more than just a one night thing. And if he did jump at you all guns blazing, you'd probably freak!!! Let it happen for what it is and take the time to get to know each other first 🙂

He is trying to figure out if you like him. Leos don't like to waste their time with people who are not interested from the start.

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I'm starting to think he is kinda cute..and funny too. Today I lost the key to my locker at the gym...He asked me what I was looking for and I told him..He goes out his way to find it for me (: I thought that was very sweet..and he gave me a big hug when he gave it to me...wow....but still hasnt went any further. Still didnt ask for my number. So not used to this, but something about it is intriguing.....

Posted by sweat.lioness
He is trying to figure out if you like him. Leos don't like to waste their time with people who are not interested from the start.

spot on! don't forget that most leos are proud creatures and don't appreciate rejection... they're not used to it!

he's playing his game well then! wouldn't u agree softy? he's getting under ur skin and hoping to be on it too!

LOLOLOL...YES HE IS....and now i am getting impatient...is there anything I can do to speed it this up...omg!

He has even gone as far as to sit at MY table when I'm eating in the cafe after working out...Just making mere conversation with some flirting in between......he is starting to drive me crazy....QUESTION...does he know that he is building up my attraction to him...or is he waiting for me to give him some type of green light..

I had this EXACT same scenario with a Sag guy, even down to the fact that it was at the gym. I'm the Leo in this equation, but I did pretty much what your Leo is doing and it was because I was interested and trying to feel him out to see if he was as well. Even though I pretty much figured he was due to the fact that he kept conveniently ending up near me as I worked out, it took weeks before we actually ended up communicating outside of the gym. AND it took me initiating conversations until he FINALLY asked me to join him for a bite to eat after the gym. Trust me, I threw out plenty of hints.

Like Ninja and Sweat said above, Leo's dont like rejection and dont like to waste our time. He's interested and is feeling you out. He is also playing a bit of a game as well. We like the hunt and we are cats, so.... cat and mouse. One other thing to consider, maybe he is being cautious due to the fact that it's the gym. If he's comfortable there, he doesnt want to risk creating an awkward situation for either of you. Especially if it doesnt work out well, he knows the two of you will be in the same room after the fall out, if there is any. IMO, anyway.

Out of curiosity, what is your sign?

Nevermind the last question, I see by a previous post that you are a Cancer. Fire and water are normally not a good romantic match, but I do have an experience to share. I would be curious to see your moon and venus signs for you both.

I have a very good Cancer guy friend that I casually dated. Things did not work out for us in a romantic relationship but we became really really close friends. He has even been my FWB in between my relationships. He is one of the only exes that I NEVER have to worry about being around me when I am in a relationship (and vice versa) and it being awkward for either of us. I can TOTALLY invite him in my house right there next to my current boyfriend and never even think twice about it because we are so close to one another and we just have that sort of relationship. We dont ever disrespect the other when in a relationship even though we are so comfortable that "going there" would only be a matter of just saying it without much thought to it. We have even lived as roommates and did the FWB thing while dating others and the benefits portion not occurring when we were in relationships. Its kinda weird, but we just have that.

What Im getting at is this.... regarding my comment about the gym... IF you feel that you will be okay and be able to remain civil if things happen between you and do not work out then chances are, so can he. So, if this is an obstacle for either of you, making that clear could possibly even nudge things forward a bit on his part. Not sure, but maybe. Even though water and fires arent typically great romantic matches, in my experience, they are very GREAT and LOYAL friendships... even very deep seated ones.

Hope this helps!

I told him I was single by choice....He said dont you get loneley at night and want to cuddle up...I said sometimes...But not with just anybody. I have to REALLY like them

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Posted by sweat.lioness
He is trying to figure out if you like him. Leos don't like to waste their time with people who are not interested from the start.

spot on! don't forget that most leos are proud creatures and don't appreciate rejection... they're not used to it!

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omg. seriously.

he's trying to get you to hit on him. leos will make all the innuendo and flash all the sexy looks, but it's pretty rare that they make an actual move.

this is how he wants it to go
him: don't you ever get lonely
me: you should come over tonight and keep me company

frankly, i'm not into leos because i think they're too cocky, and i don't like guys who expect women to throw themselves at them. but whatever. if you like him, you'll have to put your dignity away for a little while. don't throw it out or anything, cos it probably won't last longer than a few romps.

he's trying to get you to hit on him. leos will make all the innuendo and flash all the sexy looks, but it's pretty rare that they make an actual move.

YES CV!! That's exactly what i have found! not sure that that's my style of man either!?!?

oh i have no problem making a move - when i'm sure the other person is what i want.

The leo guy i know has this problem with physical closeness. He said he finds it weird when girls he doesn't know hug him when he's out etc...one time i caught him when he was frustrated because of work issues. He looked upset so as i was leaving i held out my arms and he looked at me for a few seconds then said "you can hug me if you want" hehe...and i've noticed he doesn't let any other girl at work hug him lol

OMG Ive not met a single Leo (and I am also one) who doesnt know how to make the moves.....Im dating a Leo at the moment also and he's been putting the moves on for a very long time....he had no problem.

I have many leo friends also and not a one has a problem getting what they want.....we never expect anybody else to do the moves....its natural for us.

Sure the Leos you know havent got Virgo in their chart? if so, it would make sense coz they take a lifetime to know what they want and then even think about doing anything about it LOL.

For Leo to sit at the same table, to ask if you get lonely, etc? he's already made the moves....perhaps next time you could simply say "I like cuddling up in front of a good movie with a glass or 2 of wine".......If he wouldnt pounce on that by saying "what movie shall I hire?" then he is a coward LOL.

I'm not sure if the leo guy i know has virgo in his chart. I guess if he's not as confident making the first than thats the way to tell right?....would you mean moon in virgo?

My leo guy makes it known by the way he looks at me (holy crap...might i add lol)...but in the last month it feels like he has become more shy. We have talked about our experiences on dating in the work place. We both have done it...and he has been the one to start the flirting (doesnt happen all the time though)

I wouldn't be surprised if he has a heavy virgo placement somewhere but then again...i still dont know much about leo so.....