Are People Merely Interchangeable?

most of the people i've known before, i'm either not in contact with anymore or only speak to them on speacial occasions e.g wishing them a happy christmas/new year and then making conversation from there, like asking what they've been up to etc. i tend to move from place to place and meet new ppl so sometimes i kinda forget about the ppl i knew before especially if i'm not around them as much anymore, it becomes a drag to meet up with old friends for old times sake, i'm more about "now" rather than "the past".

hmm, I dunno. I tend to keep people around forever. Probably longer than I should sometimes.

maybe becoming a leo and acting like one will make you special with them as they think they are the most specialist ppl in the whole world

ahh yeah forgot to mention some of them, my fault...

The scorpio is the most sexy and beatyful creature for a leo. You could not resist i promise, if you find him. As you know, you do not recognise shy people straight away.

to get straight to the point, i never view people as interchangeable. it's not like i collect people as trophies and trade them for better ones. but i suppose i can understand why someone would think i see things that way. allow me to explain:

what makes a person irreplaceable to me: being genuinely caring and decent. someone who has shown that they are worthy of keeping around due to the fact that they can reciprocate the kindness, thoughtfulness, and support that i show them. someone who not only has never betrayed my trust, but who is trustworthy to all people they're close to. someone i can respect. and since it takes a lot to earn my respect (which does not necessarily mean being 10 steps ahead of me; walking beside me is fine, too 😉), there are very few people i consider irreplaceable (but i make it very clear from the beginning who is who and where someone stands).

there are many people i prefer not to waste my time on/with. they may remain acquaintances, but, if we should drift apart, i will move on from them very quickly, and, chances are, i will meet someone else i like more and i may become closer to them. but that does not make the initial acquaintance "interchangeable" in my mind. i'm just not going to waste time and energy on people i don't consider trustworthy. and yeah, i move on from those people as though they were never part of my life (because, when it comes down to it, they weren't - i don't allow them to become close enough to truly impact me). from my point of view, if they have a problem with that, it's not my fault if they can't tell who they are to me, because i communicate it thoroughly.

i guess that would be hard for a more clingy or emotional person to accept, but it's just how i am. it's not even something i do consciously.

Hiya Wheelo !....Howve U been ?

"i guess that would be hard for a more clingy or emotional person to accept, "


Hmmmmmmm.

well, thanks...why the "hmmmmmm"? 😛

" guess that would be hard for a more clingy or emotional person to accept, "
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"why the "hmmmmmm"? "

And I thot U were sentimentally into Cancerians. 😉

what, are you worried about the cancers i come into contact with? hehe...maybe you should be...

haa haa...am anyday more worried abt U.

"am anyday more worried abt U."

that's just 'cause you loooove me 🙂.

LOL...Since now U know that ....Stay away from the crabs.

oh, stop. you act like there's a big storm cloud of impending doom over my head. 😛
you really don't need to worry about me - i can handle myself, i promise.

I could only alert U cutie.

"Wheelies seriously stay away from the crabs they are the abusing types ."

kris, tell me, are you afraid of the big bad cancers? think they're gonna blow your house down? 😉
they don't scare me in the least. i appreciate the advice and i realize that you're trying to help me from being hurt, but i don't take abuse. hi; at the end of the day, i'm a leo.

gosh...leos and abuse. do we ever take it? i mean really. i will put up with it for a while, if only to attempt to stop it, but if my attempts fail, see ya later. no lasting damage will be done to me, that's for sure.

well thank you both very much for underestimating my both my intellect and fortitude. hehehe

well, under the circumstance that it was in my best interest, i suppose i can overlook this one offense. 😉