Cant stop pursueing my LEO!! Help! =)

Okay, so i've posted about this leo guy(8-11-87) already, and i know leo men love attention, (i've been working on it)LOL.i have a little pride issue, but already he's gotten me to let that down 2x. I've already told him i had a crush on him. We've spent time, kissed(french), hung out, no sex(i refuse, im no booty call). But so far its been almost 3 wks since we've seen each other (face-face) and almost a week since we've spoke. Maybe like 5 days since i confessed my crush for him. He told me he thinks im cool too, and extreamly sexy and he'd definitely see me when he's back in the city. But thats it. I know i should prolly lay this one down by the riverside, but if i posted a pic of this guy, you'd understand why i simply cant get him out of my brain. I mean he'd never know how much i think about him, because i refuse to call and i text every blue moon just so he wont forget about me. But thats it. I dont wanna smother him. I'm a libra gal(9-23-88), so i believe in giving space to breathe. But i want this guy, and i dont know how to get him, but i gotta have him.lol. So i guess, i just want all LEO's...leo male,leo female, or anybody thats ever even delt with a leo to share their opinion about these people. Because im on a mission. Thanks everyone!! =)

I think Leo + Libra is an obsession. The Libra air fuels the Leo fire and it gets very heated, very quickly and the chemistry is magic. But I think it changes when the spell wears off and reality kicks in.

I don't know alot about Leo men (and they are different to the girls), but I dated one a very long time ago and i don't see any issue with initiating contact with them, they are not like a Libra who will dissapear and withdraw when you show interest. Leo will usually make it clear where you stand though, If they like you they will chase and if they don't they will ignore you. We can fall in love just as quickly as we can fall out of it. Leo females are known for changing their men alot when they are younger it may be the same for the guys. If we're in demand then it can tend to get to our head and our standards aren't realistic. Meaning we don't really care because we can get someone else with the click of a finger. So if something isn't sitting right we move on very quickly but this changes as we get older. But we have a weakness for persistance and someone who makes the effort to chase us. I don't know if this is very helpful but good luck.

Zerox "you are done for ". ummm....
lol. okay i guess in a way you might be right.

Lioness, im not sure why your comment posted 10x but, thanks girl! I do think as a libra if i really really want something or someone bad enough i usually get it. I will pursue them in every sweet, genuine, sexy and passionate way possible. Of course always a lady and moving about like a goddess around my target until he gives in. Which in due time they normally do. However, sadly when in the wring with leo or saggitarius i can honestly say i've met my match. With Sagg it works in the beginning, be they are extreamly smart, and often thinking 2 steps ahead of their partner. Its a mind race, once he learned all my tricks i was a goner, (but a sexy libra always has some more stored) that relationship stayed fun for ages. Im a little new to the leo males...i've met my match with him, because i've found someone who looks just as good as me, and is just as proud of it as me, and of the same social caliber of me. Its perfect, but scary...we compliment one another. But if he doesn't innitiate after this weekend, then i just might give up like you say.

Lovebucket, i understand where your coming from. And your right, i too dont think it's smart to show a guy attention if he obviously giving you the cold shoulder. But the leo doesn't do that. I simply get the feeling he's just out to have fun, my goal is getting him to see me as more than a pretty face. I dont smoother him, i barley make contact, except every now and then just to let him know he's on my mind and i haven't forgotten about him. I know leo's like the attention so hopefully its not hurting any. But i get what your saying. Basically give enough, NEVER too much. Girl its the code i live by.lol. As i stated i believe in giving my partner space, however after reading up on leo man he's the one man that loooooves the attention. Wierd...

Samiamscorpio, i got your message. I replied, which you might've seen. Thank You so much for all your help. I'm working on letting a little of my pride go to at least show him interested so he can at least feel comfortable in pursueing me, by knowing i like him back. The only thing thats(thats where you guys on here come in) keep the comments coming. Thanks.lol

Wowwwww sorry guys.... i think my thingy was playing up last night. 😢

Lol. Zerox, thats what im actually trying to avoid. When me and this guy are alone its like tearing loose-leef paper from dried up school super glue, NOT EASY! It be all him, and naturally i find him hard to resist. But im determined to get him to see past my pretty face...thats the issue,leo's are so shallow in the beginning in my opinion, most will admitt it too. They Go for looks first, and its worst in the guys because after i kissed this guy, everytime he see's me i can see the lust in his eyes. Its a turn on in other area's, but a turn-off to my heart. Im not looking for a one night stand, or fb, or to be his groupie...i want a chance at his heart. I need suggestions on getting past this little wall...

by the way everyone, i forgot to mention we stay 2hrs away from one another, and he's not too fond of long distance because his last relationship was long distance. But this isn't long distance to me, I have fam that i see on a regualar that stays 2 hrs away. Plus he and i both have cars....but (here's the twist) when i told him i wont force him to try "long-distance" he told me, BUT the right woman can make ANY man change his mind...im like ummm...okkk...

LOL!! I sure did say that didn't i—lol. Well its true Zerox, but i didnt say libra's dont enjoy the attention.lol. However, im going to take the advice. The big event with he and i is this weekend. We will be linking up for the first time in almost a month (actually its been 3 weeks to be exact) But im excited...samiamscorp has been encouraging me to keep the passion flowing, and compliment him as much as possible. I know i have to look my ABSOLUTE best, so i've already made a hair appt, and me an my girls will prolly hit the mall sat. Anything else they like that will win them over, and other encounters or stories to help me land this guy i'd be happy to hear them. Keep em coming THANKS! =)

Posted by zerox
And to my suprise ........SCORPIO woman are quickly becoming a leo male FAVORITE as well AS LIBRA . I thought that would be impossible but i am proven wrong so many times .

i think they both are huge fans of intensity, passion, and intense passion! i am at least... could be my mars in scorp too. hm.

Posted by pinklibra
LOL!! I sure did say that didn't i—lol. Well its true Zerox, but i didnt say libra's dont enjoy the attention.lol. However, im going to take the advice. The big event with he and i is this weekend. We will be linking up for the first time in almost a month (actually its been 3 weeks to be exact) But im excited...samiamscorp has been encouraging me to keep the passion flowing, and compliment him as much as possible. I know i have to look my ABSOLUTE best, so i've already made a hair appt, and me an my girls will prolly hit the mall sat. Anything else they like that will win them over, and other encounters or stories to help me land this guy i'd be happy to hear them. Keep em coming THANKS! =)

Hey pinklibra,

I'm a newcomer to this site and I LOVE IT. I've been quite intrigued by the comments of so many, especially the libra forum. I read your post about the leo guy and had some insight/opinion on the situation but I'm curious...how did everything work out with your leo guy? Last I read you and he were going to be seeing each other. I have some interesting feedback on the subject of the leo guy. And, you and the LIBRA gang can give me some tips also on a pressing subject similar to yours.