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so i sent my brief message saying i hadn't been so well and was suprised to hear from him again, especially via facebook and he responded a few hours later with 'hi foxy, wots wrong?? saw (name of boss) on tv the other day...lol'. i responded with a few quips about my boss and said that it was nice to hear from him (the leo not my boss), even though he's a pain in the arse. no x's although playful yeah....cos i can't help myself 😛

that'll do for me at the moment. he's out there. i'm still on his mind but i'm just not in the best place to take this further right now. slowly, slowly, catchee monkey, LOL.

ffs...i've waited long enough already, what's a few more months...he's not going anywhere.

yeah...i wish i had a centimo for everytime i'm called foxy though, lol....or for everytime someone sings 'roxanne' by the police.

If he didnt think you were foxy he wouldn't have said it. Go get that lion with your bad self, gurl!!

no bgp...i've decided he has to come and get ME 😛

^^ said the spider to the fly 🙂 Good thinking...and the way to make that happen is to lean back and wait. Just like you've been doing. Focus on you, do you and let the universe do it's thing.

That;s how he came after you on FB, right? Uhh huh...

How you feeling today?

today, i am mostly feeling angry with my ex husband who is a gigantic butt pain with a cherry on top...plus a little battered and bruised from my senior moment in the shower over the weekend, lol.

thoughts?

ME
Sun 09??42' Scorpio
Moon 13??51' Libra
Mercury 20??22' Scorpio
Venus 02??05' Libra
Mars 27??51' Leo
Jupiter 22??27' Taurus
Saturn 28??27' Aquarius
Uranus 13??47' Virgo
Neptune 17??14' Scorpio
Pluto 15??46' Virgo

HIM
Sun 27??02' Leo
Moon 23??12' Libra
Mercury 09??13' Leo
Venus 06??05' Leo
Mars 26??42' Cancer
Jupiter 23??08' Cancer
Saturn 28??31' Pisces
Uranus 18??33' Virgo
Neptune 19??28' Scorpio
Pluto 17??29' Virgo

i have a virgo ascendant and i think he has scorpio but i'm not sure of his time of birth.

Don't know too much about it all but no fucking wonder you two can't get together - both moons in Libra 🙂 How hard is it to make the decision. Double the trouble in looking and analysing the negativities maybe?

Your venus and his mars don't seem compatible either - or maybe just different enough to keep the spark going. You should post this on the astrology board Rig and get some real chart readings there.

having said all of that BTW - the aries and I have uber compatible placement and look where that one headed 🙂

had to look this up for you 🙂

Oh. This guy is so dangerous. He can be number one, numero uno, in passion, love, romance, and lovemaking. But it's like that sweet, nice guy in high school you never thought could turn into a bastard. Though he could. And did. This guy is the last man left standing to part the Red Sea. He has special powers. Boredom, to him, is death. Drama. Drama. He needs it. It has to just about drown him. Here's why. He's more than special. He's Adonis, with a tan. Achilles, without the problem heel. Midas, with an extra-golden touch (that will touch you in all the right places). BUT. BUT. You??re not the only one who thinks so—and he knows it. Here's the deal. No joke. You must torture this man—not just to have him, to keep him. All through life. He craves one life-changing scenario after another; this is what makes him feel his love for you. Otherwise, he retreats into a fantasy world to get his rocks off. He creates spies, an underworld, and paranoid afflictions until you don the Inspector Clouseau persona and call him on it. You??ll never understand his capacity for true strangeness until you??ve lived through it. One day, you may realize that you wasted your time with a totally romantic, completely f*ckedup, weird, creative, incredibly-lethal freakweirdo. If you can make this guy feel special—at the same time showing him you??re not dying for him, or too much in love (he must be the one to woo you)—he??ll be a rock-solid partner when he senses that his brand of once-young, hot Elvis, now freakishly bloated older Elvis, has left the building.

boyfriend potential rating: High if you can crush his spirit like an Atkins dieter in a donut factory. He??ll crave you more. This guy can go the good-guy route, but he can also be evil. Make sure you know which before you get embroiled like the Diff??rent Strokes kids (in criminal activity for the remainder of their lives). Low if you??re his first (or second) wife . . . Unless you can work the drama like a Jerry Springer guest.

^^^^ That's Sun Leo, Venus in Leo

oh LOL!!! well i'm deffo up for that kind of challenge but if it's all gonna be about him, forget it. marriage to an aries put me off that kind of man indefinitely. take note CL 😉

thing is...two can play at that ^^^ game 😛

we did acknowledge our mutual lack of decisiveness when i realised we both had libra moons. we decided that he would make all the decisions but if they sucked, i would do what i wanted anyway LOL. good to set boundaries don't ya think?

i have a feeling he just prodded me to see if i'm still ready to fall at his feet when the mood takes him. thankfully, i didn't respond as he may have expected me to. in my last message i asked no questions and didn't mention us 'catching up' like he suggested, as i suspected he would back off for a while and for once i won't have unanswered questions hanging in the air.

btw..he's not quite fat elvis yet but he's in the white jumpsuit era already so not long now LOL.

funny about being the last man standing to part the red sea considering we are both red sea pedestrians.

ian: i only ever play to win. besides, this is hardly gameplaying. i am merely considering my words which is something i should do a lot more, lol.

i got a message tonight: 'pain in the arse!!'....i replied: 'i thought i was being very generous 😉'

i won't report any more on the 'he said, she said' but just wanted to ask you guys....how long do you think this acting like nothing bad has happened is supposed go on for? obviously, i'll raise whatever issues i want to with him when i get to see him but does he seriously expect me to just pick up where we left off like nothing happened?

i hope not cos i won't be giving even the slightest indication he's off the hook until i let him off it!! grrrr.

why did he say "pain in the arse". Did you reply to his last message re: the boss? Or did the pain in the arse just come out of the blue?

i said at the end of my message...nice to hear from you again, even though you're a pain in the arse...aren't all leo men mahoosive butt pains....seems to be my experience, lol.

It will only continue if you let it. We teach people how to treat us. If he is playful, and you are playful back he will think "Hey, we're playing...its all good".

I gave you my advice privately...pull back time, imo. Lean back...

i don't think i was being overly playful back cos i was being generous just calling him a pain in the arse when you know as well as i do, i actually call him the KNOBHEAD, lol!!

i'm definitely backing off now though bgp.....i am a small chunk of swiss chocolate, LOL 😉

i may have to eat myself

omg i hate how these embarrassing cringeworthy threads keep appearing.

loooove macaroons though 🙂

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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
omg i hate how these embarrassing cringeworthy threads keep appearing.

I'm surprised I didn't comment in it. 😉

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Why you did not , Seraph --?

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Jeez, so who or what is it this time?

what are you implying blingy?? this is oooooold and you know it.

these days i am a single pringle 😄

in the US, a pringle is a delicious, salty potato chip. nom nom nom..cant eat just one.

Just like you, Roxi 😉

pringles are universal. i'm a sour cream and onion flavour single pringle. very moreish but there's only one of me 😄

oh yeah. paprika pringles are LUSH!! don't you get them in the states then intrigued? NOM!! you don't know what you're missing 😄

bling: of course i forgot pringle golfwear in vile pastel shades. obviously a sport for the colour blind! if you can call hitting a ball in a hole and then taking it out and hitting it in another hole 18 times over a sport!!

you're having a whale of a time on this thread bling!! talking to yourself?

i'm still around, occasionally lurking 😉