@eftn87
14 Years
What are my ex saggitaruis motives?!
Understanding Your Sagittarius Ex's Motivations in Breakups
Your Sagittarius ex may seek freedom and space, leading to inconsistent behavior and emotional detachment. His actions suggest he struggles with commitment and may not be ready for a serious relationship. Recognizing these patterns can help you decide whether to pursue closure or move on for your well-being.
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Chaos.
Don't even bother.
Posted by sheathedclaws
Chaos.Don't even bother.
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seriosuly, i had to read that wall twice.
either you both love chaos and thrive on it or your write chaotically. lol.
i think this is an example of, imma give you this car and get to do whatever i want cause you keep coming back cause i got you this car. either execpt the way he wants to live his life and dictate yours or hit the block and never look back. plus he can take back that car anytime he wants to, or just to pull rank on you.
if any dude kicks me out and i have to go live with my momma. naw, its a wrap!
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...
Posted by eftn87
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...
yeah, you have the car, i call the shots, cause you have the car. i sense some neptune in your synastry. how old is he? what is his venus sign?
Posted by DMV
seriosuly, i had to read that wall twice.either you both love chaos and thrive on it or your write chaotically. lol.
i think this is an example of, imma give you this car and get to do whatever i want cause you keep coming back cause i got you this car. either execpt the way he wants to live his life and dictate yours or hit the block and never look back. plus he can take back that car anytime he wants to, or just to pull rank on you.
if any dude kicks me out and i have to go live with my momma. naw, its a wrap!
I got him to sign ppw saying he wont take away my car...but I feel like he got the car to keep tabs on me..idk but he's not in love with me nomore I don't get it...
My first love is a Sagittarius. We dated 5 years ago.
Last week he's STILL trying to get in my pants. Telling me he's joining the military and dumping his virgin gf so he can get laid before leaving.
I've been engaged to a man for over a year. LOL,
Posted by eftn87
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...yeah, you have the car, i call the shots, cause you have the car. i sense some neptune in your synastry. how old is he? what is his venus sign?
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Hmm he's 26 born on November 24th..he tells me he's never tried to work on a relationship and he's tired of putting me through his indecisive ways yet he talks to alot of girl's and he doesn't care about my feelings ...I feel horrible
Posted by sheathedclaws
My first love is a Sagittarius. We dated 5 years ago.Last week he's STILL trying to get in my pants. Telling me he's joining the military and dumping his virgin gf so he can get laid before leaving.
I've been engaged to a man for over a year. LOL,
Omg what a jerk.. smh
Posted by eftn87
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...yeah, you have the car, i call the shots, cause you have the car. i sense some neptune in your synastry. how old is he? what is his venus sign?
Hmm he's 26 born on November 24th..he tells me he's never tried to work on a relationship and he's tired of putting me through his indecisive ways yet he talks to alot of girl's and he doesn't care about my feelings ...I feel horrible
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give back the car
Posted by sheathedclaws
Chaos.Don't even bother.
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+80313544 lol
Posted by eftn87
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...
I got him to sign ppw saying he wont take away my car...but I feel like he got the car to keep tabs on me..idk but he's not in love with me nomore I don't get it...
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I'm going to be upfront.
He's never going to come back and be a good man. He'll pretend to be, but you're better than that. You're a strong, gorgeous, & charming woman who deserves a life full of adventure, meaning, and passionate romance.
Don't allow the Disney movies dictate your perception of a man. He won't reform. You're far deeper than any Disney princess. Turn around, don't look back, and don't you dare let him come back again. I'm saying this as a woman who has felt heartbreak from a Sagittarius as well.
Lastly - PLEASE don't hook up with him anymore. This is not what you want to hear but PLEASE get tested for VDs ASAP.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
You got a nice car out of it, if a roll in the hay was that good you could get laid one last time and then drive off into the sunset maybe?
Only if she's wearing a cowboy hat, Mr. Eastwood 😉
Lmao.
Posted by aquansidenout
He could care less about that car. Sags are giving people. He's not going to take it from you. What he does want you to do is hop in that car drive out of his life. He said exactly what he meant and he's not coming back to you except to get laid. You've sacrificed your self respect amongst other things for this man. Pick yourself up and move on.
WOW..I just can't understand why he'd get a car for me in his name that I'm paying for ..plus him and share insurance because its cheaper ... he's so indecisive ..I'm confused ..y'all think he's gone for good huh?
Posted by eftn87
I just wonder if he thinks he can do this to me because I have a car in his name...and maybe one day after he's done being a player he'd try to come back...I got him to sign ppw saying he wont take away my car...but I feel like he got the car to keep tabs on me..idk but he's not in love with me nomore I don't get it...
I'm going to be upfront.
He's never going to come back and be a good man. He'll pretend to be, but you're better than that. You're a strong, gorgeous, & charming woman who deserves a life full of adventure, meaning, and passionate romance.
Don't allow the Disney movies dictate your perception of a man. He won't reform. You're far deeper than any Disney princess. Turn around, don't look back, and don't you dare let him come back again. I'm saying this as a woman who has felt heartbreak from a Sagittarius as well.
Lastly - PLEASE don't hook up with him anymore. This is not what you want to hear but PLEASE get tested for VDs ASAP.
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Hmmm I know you're right girl... its just sad... to know that he's over me and ok with it...
"but I can say that on Sunday and Monday we hooked up"
SMH..Keep on doing what cha doing and he gone keep on giving you what he's giving you.
So many ppl have already told you in your other post about this man, TO LEAVE HIM ALONE..
This is no longer about him my dear but totally about you now..You need a love intervention..lol
would you forget about that damn car. give it back and go get your own car. cut ties and move on.
Posted by aquansidenout
He could care less about that car. Sags are giving people. He's not going to take it from you. What he does want you to do is hop in that car drive out of his life. He said exactly what he meant and he's not coming back to you except to get laid. You've sacrificed your self respect amongst other things for this man. Pick yourself up and move on.WOW..I just can't understand why he'd get a car for me in his name that I'm paying for ..plus him and share insurance because its cheaper ... he's so indecisive ..I'm confused ..y'all think he's gone for good huh?
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who cares what he wants. you dont really care what he does or does to you because you keep accepting whatever scraps (as good as they might be)as whatever.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
You got a nice car out of it, if a roll in the hay was that good you could get laid one last time and then drive off into the sunset maybe?
Lol! You're a fool!
Yes .. I do have issues but I'm not dumb..I'm in love.. so y'all think he got the car for me because he knew I needed it and he's not keeping tabs on me he just wants to move on...no I'm not giving the car back I've paid too much money on it and that's stupid. . Some of you are rude ass hell
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And no we wont hook up again.. he ignores me so I don't see that happening
And yea I hooked up w him..because he's the only one I've been w for the past three years... I can't and wont do it with anyone else.. I posted this issue because I wanted to hear from someone who knows about astrology to tell me what's really going on here... because I feel like whenever I try ti get information out of him he runs away....
I think that he pushes me away so he can do him for a little bit because when I lived there he told me the reason we broke up is because he's always in a relationship and he wanted to have sex with other girls and once he gets it out of him he will then want to settle down... so that's why I think he got the car to keep tabs on me...
I find men with that cusp dangerous.
My first boyfriend was one and all he did was cheat on me with this crazy ass cap chick who would come up to me and tell me she wants to kill me.
whateves
Girly, why did you PRETEND to get the hint the last time you asked this question?
By the sounds of it, I thought you were waking up and moving forward. What made you come back to this within the last few days?
Posted by eftn87
I think that he pushes me away so he can do him for a little bit because when I lived there he told me the reason we broke up is because he's always in a relationship and he wanted to have sex with other girls and once he gets it out of him he will then want to settle down... so that's why I think he got the car to keep tabs on me...
we need more of his and your chart to really get a idea of whats going on. i think much of us are getting frustrated with you because we seem to keep repeating ourselves with you and you keep feeding back the same bs about this car. omg, leave the car be. act like the car doesnt even exist. why would u even accept a gift like that? unless.... i feel like im talking to someone with a mercury in pisces or something. i feel like im on a episode of judge judy.
he is a young sag man. probably witha venus in sag. he may settle down with you, but him foolin around with other girls is never gonna stop. he cant be tied down. its like you keep trying to convince him and yourself of something that none of us see. sag men dont grow up till maybe 40— lol. if they ever do. hes told you flat out, he wants ot bang other chicks. that isnt going to change a year from now.
yeah he may be extremely generous and lay good pipe, but what else has he done for you lately? he has you hook line and sinker. im detecting some scorpio in him 2. which is probably why your so mystified.
Posted by lnana04
Girly, why did you PRETEND to get the hint the last time you asked this question?By the sounds of it, I thought you were waking up and moving forward. What made you come back to this within the last few days?
"pretend" is a good word. but i honestly think she is this naive.
Posted by eftn87
I think that he pushes me away so he can do him for a little bit because when I lived there he told me the reason we broke up is because he's always in a relationship and he wanted to have sex with other girls and once he gets it out of him he will then want to settle down... so that's why I think he got the car to keep tabs on me...we need more of his and your chart to really get a idea of whats going on. i think much of us are getting frustrated with you because we seem to keep repeating ourselves with you and you keep feeding back the same bs about this car. omg, leave the car be. act like the car doesnt even exist. why would u even accept a gift like that? unless.... i feel like im talking to someone with a mercury in pisces or something. i feel like im on a episode of judge judy.
he is a young sag man. probably witha venus in sag. he may settle down with you, but him foolin around with other girls is never gonna stop. he cant be tied down. its like you keep trying to convince him and yourself of something that none of us see. sag men dont grow up till maybe 40— lol. if they ever do. hes told you flat out, he wants ot bang other chicks. that isnt going to change a year from now.
yeah he may be extremely generous and lay good pipe, but what else has he done for you lately? he has you hook line and sinker. im detecting some scorpio in him 2. which is probably why your so mystified.
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The car is a issue because I have to be in communication with him each month about the insurance until its paid off..I have to have full coverage on the car which is why the insurance is in his name...because its 300.00 cheaper than if it was in my name. This breakup is hard to me because I've never had to deal with this abuse then turn around and talk to him again .. I guess I'm weak minded when it comes to him
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Posted by eftn87
I think that he pushes me away so he can do him for a little bit because when I lived there he told me the reason we broke up is because he's always in a relationship and he wanted to have sex with other girls and once he gets it out of him he will then want to settle down... so that's why I think he got the car to keep tabs on me...we need more of his and your chart to really get a idea of whats going on. i think much of us are getting frustrated with you because we seem to keep repeating ourselves with you and you keep feeding back the same bs about this car. omg, leave the car be. act like the car doesnt even exist. why would u even accept a gift like that? unless.... i feel like im talking to someone with a mercury in pisces or something. i feel like im on a episode of judge judy.
he is a young sag man. probably witha venus in sag. he may settle down with you, but him foolin around with other girls is never gonna stop. he cant be tied down. its like you keep trying to convince him and yourself of something that none of us see. sag men dont grow up till maybe 40— lol. if they ever do. hes told you flat out, he wants ot bang other chicks. that isnt going to change a year from now.
yeah he may be extremely generous and lay good pipe, but what else has he done for you lately? he has you hook line and sinker. im detecting some scorpio in him 2. which is probably why your so mystified.
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The car is a issue because I have to be in communication with him each month about the insurance until its paid off..I have to have full coverage on the car which is why the insurance is in his name...because its 300.00 cheaper than if it was in my name. This breakup is hard to me because I've never had to deal with this abuse then turn around and talk to him again .. I guess I'm weak minded when it comes to him
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Plus I don't have any friends and no family he was all I had for three years he was my bestfriend..now without him I feel lost and confused ..but sense he made it clear last night that he wants nothing to do with me I'm accepting that..I'm just confused which is why I asked y'all ..yes he is a sag/scorp cusp
Sun Sagittarius 2.22 Ascendant Aquarius 15.43
Moon Taurus 1.53 II Pisces 26.26
Mercury Sagittarius 11.55 R III Taurus 1.35
Venus Scorpio 18.55 IV Taurus 29.26
Mars Libra 17.33 V Gemini 23.21
Jupiter Aquarius 11.21 VI Cancer 17.15
Saturn Sagittarius 0.55 VII Leo 15.43
Uranus Sagittarius 17.16 VIII Virgo 26.26
Neptune Capricorn 2.14 IX Scorpio 1.35
Pluto Scorpio 5.46 Midheaven Scorpio 29.26
Lilith Taurus 19.32 XI Sagittarius 23.21
Asc node Taurus 8.59 XII Capricorn 17.15
birth time set to noon. damn girl you gots a venus in scorpio and mars in libra. SUTEKH, you are need on this one.
Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 9.32 23
Sun Conjunction Saturn 1.27 144
Sun Conjunction Midheaven 2.56 282
Moon Trine Neptune 0.21 137
Moon Opposition Pluto 3.53 -222
Mercury Sextile Jupiter 0.33 157
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 5.21 143
Mercury Sextile Ascendant 3.48 5
Venus Square Ascendant 3.12 -23
Mars Trine Jupiter 6.12 17
Mars Sextile Uranus 0.18 117
Mars Trine Ascendant 1.50 32
Jupiter Square Pluto 5.35 -6
Jupiter Conjunction Ascendant 4.22 113
Saturn Conjunction Midheaven 1.29 136
Uranus Sextile Ascendant 1.32 37
Neptune Sextile Pluto 3.32 10
1353 -251 1102
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/natal?member=&recalc=&name=&sex=t&d1day=24&d1month=11&d1year=1985&d1hour=12&d1min=0&citylist=Orlando% 2C+FL+% 2812% 29% 2C+United+States&lang=en
read this girlie.
what is your birthdate?
Mine is December 22 nd... I read the article it's r eally. Confusing
Mine is December 22 nd... I read the article it's r eally. Confusing
what year were you born
12/22/1987
smh @ mercury conjunct neptune.
I can tell by how she writes. She also definitely doesnt communicate with him well or very directly/explicitly.
she reminds me of Jo and Ms Teeq...
Posted by eftn87
Mine is December 22 nd... I read the article it's r eally. ConfusingThats my birthday too, Im almost dec 21st as I came out shortly after the clock struck 12. So Im a Sag.
Need your birthtime and year, place. Because you may be a sag, or you may be a zero degree cappy.But the amount of torment you seem to be going through seems like Mars Scorpio and/or venus scorpio. Seem like an earth moon. Idk we have to see
@ DMV LOL
I kind of think I know what this guy is doing. He wants ass and wants her ass as well as others but is on the fence smh but is manipulating the whole situation.
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clearly ....smh
damn venus in scorps. chew you up and spit ya out
Posted by DMV
your chartSun Capricorn 0.19 Ascendant Pisces 21.57
Moon Capricorn 27.16 II Taurus 0.46
Mercury Sagittarius 29.58 III Gemini 0.20
Venus Aquarius 0.33 IV Gemini 24.49
Mars Scorpio 18.47 V Cancer 18.35
Jupiter Aries 19.51 VI Leo 15.56
Saturn Sagittarius 24.23 VII Virgo 21.57
Uranus Sagittarius 27.06 VIII Scorpio 0.46
Neptune Capricorn 7.27 IX Sagittarius 0.20
Pluto Scorpio 11.45 Midheaven Sagittarius 24.49
Lilith Leo 13.59 XI Capricorn 18.35
Asc node Pisces 27.30 XII Aquarius 15.56Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 0.21 487
Sun Conjunction Saturn 5.56 68
Sun Conjunction Uranus 3.12 353
Sun Conjunction Neptune 7.08 137
Sun Conjunction Midheaven 5.30 180
Moon Conjunction Venus 3.17 301
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 5.35 148
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 2.52 220
Mercury Conjunction Neptune 7.29 71
Mercury Conjunction Midheaven 5.09 109
Mars Conjunction Pluto 7.02 187
Mars Trine Ascendant 3.10 54
Jupiter Trine Saturn 4.32 39
Jupiter Trine Uranus 7.15 7
Jupiter Trine Midheaven 4.57 19
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 2.43 204
Saturn Square Ascendant 2.26 -24
Saturn Conjunction Midheaven 0.26 153
Uranus Square Ascendant 5.09 -4
Uranus Conjunction Midheaven 2.18 92
2829 -28 2801***i had a feeling you have neptune on your mersury
smh @ mercury conjunct neptune.
I can tell by how she writes. She also definitely doest communicate with him well or very directly/explicitly.
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I was born at 8pm at night but I'm nothing like a full Capricorn ...that's were our problems are..because whenever I talk to him about something deep he shuts down and runs away..but I see he never loved me I was just his toy..
I'm so confused ..
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.
Sun Capricorn 0.39 Ascendant Leo 3.25
Moon Aquarius 2.15 II Leo 27.02
Mercury Capricorn 0.30 III Virgo 24.37
Venus Aquarius 0.58 IV Libra 26.36
Mars Scorpio 19.00 V Sagittarius 0.40
Jupiter Aries 19.52 VI Capricorn 3.22
Saturn Sagittarius 24.25 VII Aquarius 3.25
Uranus Sagittarius 27.08 VIII Aquarius 27.02
Neptune Capricorn 7.28 IX Pisces 24.37
Pluto Scorpio 11.46 Midheaven Aries 26.36
Lilith Leo 14.01 XI Gemini 0.40
Asc node Pisces 27.28 XII Cancer 3.22
8pm birth time
Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 0.09 709
Sun Conjunction Saturn 6.14 63
Sun Conjunction Uranus 3.31 337
Sun Conjunction Neptune 6.49 153
Sun Trine Midheaven 4.03 49
Moon Conjunction Venus 1.17 558
Moon Opposition Ascendant 1.10 -157
Moon Square Midheaven 5.39 -5
Mercury Conjunction Saturn 6.04 189
Mercury Conjunction Uranus 3.22 292
Mercury Conjunction Neptune 6.58 121
Mercury Trine Midheaven 3.54 41
Venus Opposition Ascendant 2.27 -102
Venus Square Midheaven 4.22 -19
Mars Conjunction Pluto 7.15 174
Jupiter Trine Saturn 4.33 39
Jupiter Trine Uranus 7.16 7
Jupiter Conjunction Midheaven 6.44 65
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 2.42 204
Saturn Trine Midheaven 2.11 29
Uranus Trine Midheaven 0.31 28
3058 -283 2775
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.
then again, taking the car from him was very opportunistic and caps are opportunistic.
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.
How could I be a Pisces? ??
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.then again, taking the car from him was very opportunistic and caps are opportunistic.
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I'm a Cap, and unless you are a millionaire/billionaire I'm not taking a car, or much of anything else, from NOBODY. My opportunistic ways would only surface if there were REAL opportunities, in that nothing the other person would care/trip about. I wouldn't say her taking his car is a Cap trait.
Posted by DMV
you dont come off as a sag. you come off to me as a pisces.How could I be a Pisces? ??
pisces Asc.
think like a pisces /mercury conjunct neptune.
The materialism is the cap sun and moon. A car is not something that can be really used as a bargaining chip for Sags IMO . Ive totalled 2 cars and each time was over it in a matter of hours. Mars Libra imo also is indifferent about a lot of things many times.
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lmao. ive totaled 3 and 1 wasnt even mine!
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me and my ex had an okay relationship ...it seemed to go downhill once I moved in with him and he got a car for me in his name. I'm a Capricorn -Saggitaruis cusp and he's a Saggitaruis -scorpio cusp....30 days after he got the car for me in his name he broke up with me because he needed his space..so I moved in with my mother for 3 months but that didn't last... I then had to move back in with him cause I had no where to go... While I was there him and I agreed to not speak or have sex with anyone else..I found out he was having sex w someone .. I ended up forgiving him we got back together for 1 week then I broke up with him because he wasn't trying to change for me as I tried everything to make him happy ... I ended up pregnant ...I moved out and got my own apartment ... I ended up getting an abortion because he was calling or keeping in contact with me like he should have..he was and still talking to multiple girls ... he keeps telling me that he just wants to be friends and once we overcome the past we can be together ..he hates talking about our relationship ..he never calls he just texts every now and then..he always tells me I need too much attention ..I just don't know what to do... my gut tells me to ignore him and then he will miss me and come back...but then I'm scared if I ignore him he will just forget about me...the reason I care so much is because he makes me better and I just don't understand why he does this to me... I feel like because I have this car in his name he thinks ill always be around ...now I do have jealousy issues because he has done me wrong in the past.... ..but I can say that on Sunday and Monday we hooked up... I brought him food over because he had none... then on Tuesday he told me he has love for me but he's not in love with me anymore ..yet he asked me was I trying to get into a relationship with this new guy I'm with and if I had sex with my new friend .. I'm like..wtf if you don't love me why do u care? Then last night he said we should just move on and he hopes the next guy will treat me better... do you think he will regret this—