Dating a Leo Guy

Got swept away to fast to realize he was a total ******

Never Again.

That is all.

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LOL The lion hate is strong in this one.

I just hope not all leo guys are arrogant, revengeful, insensitive, selfish, defensive, and possessive as this guy I met. I told myself I would never date a Libra ever again, but i think i would rather date another libra then cross paths with another leo. Sorry guys I'm sure not all you leos are like this. ( I hope not)

You picked a sour apple.
It's best that you go find another Leo so that you can disprove your theory. 😄

I thought I would walk off in mid sentence if a guy asking me out turned out to be a Leo.
But after the Sag, Scorpio and Taurus; I'm willing to give it a try.
There are butt-holes in every sign.

If you don't mind sharing what exactly happened between you two, could this be a clashing of egos.

Posted by LunarMaiden
You picked a sour apple.
It's best that you go find another Leo so that you can disprove your theory. 😄

I thought I would walk off in mid sentence if a guy asking me out turned out to be a Leo.
But after the Sag, Scorpio and Taurus; I'm willing to give it a try.
There are butt-holes in every sign.

If you don't mind sharing what exactly happened between you two, could this be a clashing of egos.

I'll try to make this short. This leo was coming on very strong. Would text me non stop, want to always be around me, always complimented me blah blah blah. I really liked him because he was affectionate and we would talk for hours. So I decided to make it official. OH BOY! after i made it official did things change. He became less affectionate, stopped txting me, didn't want to be around me as much. If i called him out on him acting different he got defensive told me i need to stop over analyzing blah blah blah. I even posted a few days ago what people thought about a guy that doesn't cuddle after sex cause this guy just stormed out of the room after we would have sex and to me that's not normal. It's fine if you don't cuddle with me but atleast stay in bed for a bit. Called him out on that and he gets all fired up. I can't express myself around him he will not talk problems out its his way or the highway pretty much. He stopped making plans with me I haven't seen him this whole week so I ended it with him and told him he wasn't making me happy and i was going to find a man that was going to and all he said was fuck it go for it. So I am. Fuck him. There's more crap i went through with him but It just gets worse...

Posted by GandalftheGrey
that sucks. leo have big ego but also a big heart.

I would see his sensitive side at times but his ego got in the way most of the time. Sucks..

Posted by CrabPrincess

Posted by LunarMaiden
You picked a sour apple.
It's best that you go find another Leo so that you can disprove your theory. 😄

I thought I would walk off in mid sentence if a guy asking me out turned out to be a Leo.
But after the Sag, Scorpio and Taurus; I'm willing to give it a try.
There are butt-holes in every sign.

If you don't mind sharing what exactly happened between you two, could this be a clashing of egos.

I'll try to make this short. This leo was coming on very strong. Would text me non stop, want to always be around me, always complimented me blah blah blah. I really liked him because he was affectionate and we would talk for hours. So I decided to make it official. OH BOY! after i made it official did things change. He became less affectionate, stopped txting me, didn't want to be around me as much. If i called him out on him acting different he got defensive told me i need to stop over analyzing blah blah blah. I even posted a few days ago what people thought about a guy that doesn't cuddle after sex cause this guy just stormed out of the room after we would have sex and to me that's not normal. It's fine if you don't cuddle with me but atleast stay in bed for a bit. Called him out on that and he gets all fired up. I can't express myself around him he will not talk problems out its his way or the highway pretty much. He stopped making plans with me I haven't seen him this whole week so I ended it with him and told him he wasn't making me happy and i was going to find a man that was going to and all he said was fuck it go for it. So I am. Fuck him. There's more crap i went through with him but It just gets worse...

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Thank you for sharing CrabP, I'm sorry you are going through this.
Did he ever say what was bothering him?
I remember commenting on this relationship in an earlier thread where you were concerned with his excessive compliments. What has he complained about regarding the relationship and you? Did he say why he complimented you so much earlier in the relationship?

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Posted by CrabPrincess

Posted by LunarMaiden
You picked a sour apple.
It's best that you go find another Leo so that you can disprove your theory. 😄

I thought I would walk off in mid sentence if a guy asking me out turned out to be a Leo.
But after the Sag, Scorpio and Taurus; I'm willing to give it a try.
There are butt-holes in every sign.

If you don't mind sharing what exactly happened between you two, could this be a clashing of egos.

I'll try to make this short. This leo was coming on very strong. Would text me non stop, want to always be around me, always complimented me blah blah blah. I really liked him because he was affectionate and we would talk for hours. So I decided to make it official. OH BOY! after i made it official did things change. He became less affectionate, stopped txting me, didn't want to be around me as much. If i called him out on him acting different he got defensive told me i need to stop over analyzing blah blah blah. I even posted a few days ago what people thought about a guy that doesn't cuddle after sex cause this guy just stormed out of the room after we would have sex and to me that's not normal. It's fine if you don't cuddle with me but atleast stay in bed for a bit. Called him out on that and he gets all fired up. I can't express myself around him he will not talk problems out its his way or the highway pretty much. He stopped making plans with me I haven't seen him this whole week so I ended it with him and told him he wasn't making me happy and i was going to find a man that was going to and all he said was fuck it go for it. So I am. Fuck him. There's more crap i went through with him but It just gets worse...

Thank you for sharing CrabP, I'm sorry you are going through this.
Did he ever say what was bothering him?
I remember commenting on this relationship in an earlier thread where you were concerned with his excessive compliments. What has he complained about regarding the relationship and you? Did he say why he complimented you so much earlier in the relationship?

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He doesn't open up to me, but all he says is" You don't know what I've been through" He doesn't go into further discussion. I think his excessive compliments were

idk what happend about my response got cut off

He doesn't open up to me, but all he says is" You don't know what I've been through" He doesn't go into further discussion. I think his excessive compliments were to lure me in or something.. maybe he did that with his ex girlfriends it worked for him who knows. But he just txted me and started to pick a fight with me. He just asked me how my search for a new guy was going and i told him it was going well hahaha then he flipped out and insulted me

Have you asked him why he won't open up to you?

Yeah and he said he doesn't want to talk about it. Supposedly he got hurt in all his past relationships and now he's taking it out on me for it.

Furthermore, did you ever reciprocate verbal praise, compliments, vocal expressions of appreciation once the relationship got off the ground?

Posted by CrabPrincess
Yeah and he said he doesn't want to talk about it. Supposedly he got hurt in all his past relationships and now he's taking it out on me for it.

Supposedly? You don't believe him?

I'm also curious, does he express an interest or ask how your day is going or what you are feeling and thinking?

Posted by LunarMaiden
I'm also curious, does he express an interest or ask how your day is going or what you are feeling and thinking?

He used to in the beginning of the relationship when he was doing the courting. When we started the relationship he said something nasty to me so I said something nasty right back. That's when everything turned in the relationship and It wasn't the same. I honestly think he had horrible relationships cause he has alot of growing up to do. His ex of three years left him and got married 6 months after and his latest ex of 2 years left him for another man.

Posted by CrabPrincess

Posted by LunarMaiden
I'm also curious, does he express an interest or ask how your day is going or what you are feeling and thinking?

He used to in the beginning of the relationship when he was doing the courting. When we started the relationship he said something nasty to me so I said something nasty right back. That's when everything turned in the relationship and It wasn't the same. I honestly think he had horrible relationships cause he has alot of growing up to do. His ex of three years left him and got married 6 months after and his latest ex of 2 years left him for another man.

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Damn what a track record with women.

Sounds like he's trying to push you away. How old is he?
This seems to be a theme with Leo males, after the BS they went through with other women (guessing by the cheating, probably an Aries, Libra or Gemini exes), they get a Crab to torture.

Tell him to GET OVER IT! "You have a real woman now!"
Get it together or lose it! Final offer.
You are not his therapist.
Sounds like he needs one, and IT'S NOT YOU!!!

I noticed Leo males like to banter sometimes.
Not sure if your response to his nasty comment went a bit too far for his ego to handle.

The push pull is exhausting between these two signs.
This is what you call a working relationship. You will WORK!!!
You two won't GET each other.
You will have to communicate and tell each other what you are thinking and feeling.
Tell him this. Ask questions, you will need to humble your ego a bit; cardinal sign.
And then he sounds immature, giving this relationship extra stairs to climb.
You may need to ignore some of his comments too, or just roll your eyes at him.

He could be worried you will cheat and leave him too.

Good luck to you both; wherever it leads. 🙂

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by CrabPrincess

Posted by LunarMaiden
I'm also curious, does he express an interest or ask how your day is going or what you are feeling and thinking?

He used to in the beginning of the relationship when he was doing the courting. When we started the relationship he said something nasty to me so I said something nasty right back. That's when everything turned in the relationship and It wasn't the same. I honestly think he had horrible relationships cause he has alot of growing up to do. His ex of three years left him and got married 6 months after and his latest ex of 2 years left him for another man.

Damn what a track record with women.

Sounds like he's trying to push you away. How old is he?
This seems to be a theme with Leo males, after the BS they went through with other women (guessing by the cheating, probably an Aries, Libra or Gemini exes), they get a Crab to torture.

Tell him to GET OVER IT! "You have a real woman now!"
Get it together or lose it! Final offer.
You are not his therapist.
Sounds like he needs one, and IT'S NOT YOU!!!

I noticed Leo males like to banter sometimes.
Not sure if your response to his nasty comment went a bit too far for his ego to handle.

The push pull is exhausting between these two signs.
This is what you call a working relationship. You will WORK!!!
You two won't GET each other.
You will have to communicate and tell each other what you are thinking and feeling.
Tell him this. Ask questions, you will need to humble your ego a bit; cardinal sign.
And then he sounds immature, giving this relationship extra stairs to climb.
You may need to ignore some of his comments too, or just roll your eyes at him.

He could be worried you will cheat and leave him too.

Good luck to you both; wherever it leads. 🙂

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I'm not going to put up with it he can go find someone else to torture. Thank you for the advice 🙂

He's 27. Just read your question regarding his age.

Posted by GandalftheGrey
leo men are not really that complicated. unfortunately leos who have other placements can act all emoey and weird. a basic Leo likes romance/sex, success in his field and recognition and a woman he can be proud of. we also like a kid or two to pass the genes and preserve the bloodline 😛

if a Leo guy has lots of water then he can start getting all insecure/ doing all this sensitive confrontation type of crap. your basic leo has a good heart and big ego that likes recongintion for something he is good ta like all men.

he has scorpio rising, gem moon, mercury in cancer, venus in virgo.

How can you be mad at him, you picked him and from what I gather while you were eating up all those delicious compliments smothered in attention like a bag of chocolate chip cookies you failed to get know who he is, that can be problematic.

Why blame Leos when you didn't do your part in the first place for example figuring out if he was relationship material to begin with.

It's not a Leo problem, it's a picking problem, you're responsible for who you pick as a mate.

You might wanna check his entire chart since his venus affects how he treats you alot. As for the leo part, not all leos are like that. Ive dealt with too many leos in my life and i'd have to say they sometimes drive me nuts. However,thats mainly because they demand too much attention but i've learned how to deal with it eventually. Hope you find the right one.

CrabPrincess,

Dating world is just a game. So choose your game wisely.

If he sees bad to you. Do the same thing. Hold on to your policy and don't give up to what you think

is biased on your behalf.

I was dating 5 years ago. A leo man. He did the same thing. sending me a msg too nasty and I did the

same. I even manipulated him just to bounce harder and I was in extreme revenge. until 6 months of not

contacting him. He contacted me and that was February 14. He even cried in front of me how I accepted

his invitations regardless of how bad he was to me. He even knew that it was me who disguised to be

somebody else just to put him down. lol... It breaks his heart when I walked away after Valentines

Day.

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Posted by LunarMaiden
You picked a sour apple.
It's best that you go find another Leo so that you can disprove your theory. 😄

I thought I would walk off in mid sentence if a guy asking me out turned out to be a Leo.
But after the Sag, Scorpio and Taurus; I'm willing to give it a try.
There are butt-holes in every sign.

If you don't mind sharing what exactly happened between you two, could this be a clashing of egos.

cause this guy just stormed out of the room after we would have sex and to me that's not normal. It's fine if you don't cuddle with me but atleast stay in bed for a bit. ..

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Maybe he was rushing to the bathroom to clean your vomit off?