Feeling Twisty - About Leo Male

This topic was created in the Leo forum by woodenmeow on Thursday, September 5, 2013 and has 8 replies.

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

So I still having heard from my Leo, and I have not texted him in over a week.
He isn't ignoring me, just not starting text convo. If I text he does respond. Still trying to make sense of it all. He did say he wasn't ready for a relationship. Just wants to take a step back. Which I have respected and not pushed him in any way.
Tommorrow is the 1 yr anniversary of his divorce. Should I text him anything tommorrow?
If so what would I text him?

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@missnia08
13 YearsPisces

No you should not. Just let him be. I'm trying to tell you. If you keep on contacting him, you might be slowly turning him off. He will miss you more if you go ghost on him for a while. He'll wonder what you're up to and contact you. You should really find other things to do so that you can get your mind off him for a while. Are you interested in dating other men? Maybe you should try a dating site. If you don't mind me asking, how long have you known him? Just curious. 🙂

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

@ Missnia08 - I have known him for 18 years, but we never dated or anything. We were always involved with other people.

@ JustALeo - Thank you. I will leave him be. Today is the anniversary. I am trying to understand what he is going through even though I have never been married/divorced myself.

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

To All my wonderful Leo Peeps...

I am healing my wounds from last night. My ex-boyfriend (Taurus) and I went out for dinner. Threw some emotions on the table. He said some really HURTFUL things. We has some unresolved issues between us.
Then it has been two weeks and a day since I have heard from Leo. Should I still wait for him to come to me?
After last night and waiting for the Leo.. My heart can't take much more.
Any insight would be great...
I need some support.

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

Jynja,

I did a little bit of a test. I posted a pic on fb and he was the first one to comment and it was even a question. I will respond to the comment. Should I text him or maybe wait since the fb thing?

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@woodenmeow
13 Years

Thanks Jynja...
I am still conflicted with texting him to check in or stay away. Maybe distance will make his heart grow fonder. Also, he posted that he was out with one of his friends who is a girl. I actually met her at his Bday party. She and him have been friends since HS. So I dont think anything is going on. I am starting to feel like a detective.
With the conversation between my ex-taurus and this... my little heart doesn't know what to do.
Can't handle any more conflict or rejection at this point.

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@FUM
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I wouldn't text him.

It will turn into an ever-dragging relationship.

If he had interest in you, he would have pursued you more strongly.

You don't want to bargain yourself starting on the lower end of the ladder.

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

i agree with FUM.. if he head some sort of interest, he wouldve shown it, its hard for a leo to hide things sometimes, we're not as good as pisces people at hiding our feelings. i would suggest texting maybe to just check with him, other than that, keep your distance for now. in the end, your heart is more important, and if you cant take anymore, then perhaps a break is needed. but text him to check on him to sort of let him know you're still around