gemini male and leo woman

how do i know if im in a friend zone or bf with this leo woman'

my chart
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Gemini 13.48 Ascendant Pisces 6.30
Moon Taurus 29.42 II Aries 23.53
Mercury Gemini 16.20 III Taurus 24.50
Venus Cancer 28.10 IV Gemini 17.38
Mars Leo 2.28 V Cancer 8.23
Jupiter Scorpio 24.59 R VI Leo 1.56
Saturn Capricorn 5.15 R VII Virgo 6.30
Uranus Leo 13.08 VIII Libra 23.53
Neptune Scorpio 4.37 R IX Scorpio 24.50
Pluto Virgo 1.47 Midheaven Sagittarius 17.38
Lilith Taurus 22.19 XI Capricorn 8.23
Asc node Libra 11.04 XII Aquarius 1.56

sorry had the wrong chart for her,this is the right one
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Leo 28.56 Ascendant Gemini 23.09
Moon Gemini 25.47 II Cancer 12.34
Mercury Leo 18.21 R III Leo 1.47
Venus Libra 3.15 IV Leo 24.43
Mars Scorpio 1.07 V Virgo 26.11
Jupiter Gemini 26.13 VI Scorpio 9.32
Saturn Pisces 14.58 R VII Sagittarius 23.09
Uranus Virgo 14.11 VIII Capricorn 12.34
Neptune Scorpio 17.23 IX Aquarius 1.47
Pluto Virgo 15.30 Midheaven Aquarius 24.43
Lilith Aquarius 5.13 XI Pisces 26.11
Asc node Gemini 10.07 XII Taurus 9.32

Ask her what your guys status is....

i did and she said she didnt know

can you tell me what these two charts mean if we would be good for each other

No, I am not good at charts. Still learning myself. Her response could mean friends only, or she is still evaluating you. I usually can weed someone out quickly, but if there is an interest, I could take a good amount of time to evaluate that person. See if they meet my needs and wants. I am very selective on who I give myself to because when I give I give all and I have to make sure they will not take advantage of it and appreciate it. Did you ask her why she didn't know?

this all started back a few monthes ago i came in to her place of work,she started flirting me,i flirted back..me started texting each other,flirting than everthing stopped,she wouldnt back for a few days,the chase thing, cat and mouse,,than i was going away on vacation and she gets kinda taken back i was going away for 10 days,we did text twice while i was gone,i come back she starts,flirting wants to come over to my house,we set a time,,we go in my hot tub,bathing suits on,she goes in my house,than comes back out on deck naked,,than tells me she has to go,and leaves,she has come over a few times after.nothing happen as of yet,a lot of hot and cold going on also,to speed things up a little,last sat i was working she texts me and say hey baby hows it going,than texts back and wanted to know if it was a right to call me that,,than hot and cold all this pass week,i told her i was off the next fours and if she wanted to get together,,she didnt say,than yesterday she tells me she really really likes me,,,i don't get it , ,

she also said when she was over my house..not looking for a relationship but shes open, and told her i wasnt looking to be in a relationship either

i still would like to know what the two charts mean,,

thanks Jynja for your input,

Hi Rod,

I have Sun in Leo and Merc in Virgo like you Lioness. When she said she didn't want to be in a relationship, you were supposed to tell her you did. She needs reassurance. I do it al the time. You see I am not going to disclose my true feelings to someone until I know they are "all in" too. I'm not going to risk standing there with egg on my face. So this is what is going on...

She likes you and she thinks you like her too. However, with Merc in Virgo her brain is going...wait, stop, pull back he said he didn't want a relationship.Yes, she said it first but that was merely a defense tactic to protect herself in the event you said you didn't want one too which is fact exactly what you did. So she didn't lose face.

If she came out of the house in her birthday suit, calls you babe, texts you..she likes you.

What's so sad is I just did this very thing last night and the guy said what you said. He wasn't supposed to say that. 😢

Men are supposed to ride in on white horses and grab you and throw you on the back of the horse and ride off into the sunset while telling youhow pretty and wonderful you are. At least in my world.

nala13 thanks for the imformation...so how do i reverse this,,,i only told her i didntwant do be in a relationship thinking i would lose her ,,,but i do want to be in a relationship with her

hi nala13 that was her wrong chart,,the right one is posted

Will agree with what Nala is saying.

I don't get the part either when the guy just gets too timid. It's your role to take on or let go. It seems just the nature of things.

It is not just about the chart, rod. There is more than to what is calculatable. Use your intuition.

i didnt come to her work all last week, now she tells me i make her feel unsafe,and that she shut down..how is going on with her?...with both our chart up..can anyone tell whats going on with this friendship...

also how do i make her feel safe with me again.and not shut down

ok update on friend zone with leo woman,three weeks ago i told her i wanted to be just friends,,two days later she tells me she wants us to be more than friends..so i said lets talk and see what is has in mind..for the last three weeks ive been asking her to meet and talk..always something comes up..she texts me the last week and say she has a lot on her plate.. lets be friends for now and see what happens,she say she really likes me alot,,i see her yesterday day at her work..she tells me she would come over my house and talk..she never showed or texted,today i see her again at her work,she say she wants to come over she would text me.....she texted me and said sorry i cant make it.say was nice to see me today..my question is.....why is she doing all this..and should i just walk away from her..every time i text her tell her goodbye..she starts texting me.which she hardly ever does..im i permently in her friend zone..and how do i get out..please send some in put...

My best advice at this point is to quit chasing her. Stop all contact. I know it's hard. Perhaps she is very busy, but if she was interested in something with you she would MAKE time for you. Let her do the chasing. We are Lionesses. Be the Alpha male you are which is Gemini for sure. I know it's hard but just test it and see what happens.

I should add that she is probably not feeling too assured or comfortable with you. I know how Gemini and Leos both work. The "chase" is fun but only for so long, then it gets old. You both need to just be up front with your feelings. Quit playing games or you will both end up walking away totally hurt.

thanks wendyDarling

You're welcome! Best wishes and a good outcome.

still having problems figuring this out,,Monday before thanksgiving,,seen my loinness at her work,,very had a good time.in the morning...left and did my thing..she calls me out of the blue in the afternoon tells me where she was,,and tells me she talked to her mother on the phone about me..i was surprized,,her mother lives out of state..my would she talk about me to her mother?.Anyway i go to her work on Wednesday before thanksgiving had a visit..she wants to stop by for lunch,great..she texts me at 2;30 say she will be there at 3;30..she doesnt show up until ten to 4..didn't want me to kiss her because she as a cold,she doesn't want lunch just wants to visit.we talked a little,than she wants to leave,,own stilled for hour and half,said she was tired,texted her thanksgiving no responce,texted her Friday a few time no responce, Friday nite texted again telling her it was rude not responding to my tests,and coming over for a hour and half every couple of months just to say she came over.and that i care alot about her i wanted more from where we are at..with in 4 minutes she texts back,say im rude insuling,anger texted her,she didnt want to see me ever again,i texted her back a told her the text was not anger,or insuling..i just wanted more from where we were.she said thats not how she read it..she said needs some space..i have herd from her since that text last Friday,,i really dont know what to make of this..i have always treated her like a queen,why the sudden change in her even about i send the text..would i just walk away from her..i was just telling her my feelings,,thats had for a Gemini to do..can anyone put some input to this for me..

sorry for the missed spelled words...lol

what is with the hot and cold with her..i have never treated her bad in any way..and the first time she say im sending her a bad text she wants to quit me that easy...what is up with that

im very confused on this..i have never had ..until this one..and of corse i fall for her..i really need to know why she doing this..just to let u know also..she did tell me she BI.which that does nt bother me one bit...

im hoping to get some more feed back from this..problem with my leo woman...

im i being played by her—

i think she is bi polar also..she told me her mother was..does that run in familys

i told her i wanted to be just friends..that what i thought she wanted...two day later she say she wants for than just friends with me..i told her we would talk..but she would not tell me when she wanted to talk..than three weeks later she say friends for now and see what happens..that the say,,she has alot of work to do,the holidays,trying to find a place.she lives with her ex boyfriend and three other people,but has nothing to do with ex at all,she has been seperate for 5 years working on her divorce she say to much on her plate..she wants to get thru all that..a lot of baggage,..i guess i should just walk..you thing...

any in put on this up date..im i just spin my wheel with this one—

Rod, I was on your side in the beginning. I think something is wrong with you not the Leo.

I count 3 different times where you said...you told her you just wanted to be friends. So you are confused by her behavior afterwards. Please go back and read what you wrote on each one of these posts.

9/27/2013 10:29:42

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12/5/2013 6:18:41

BTW, How old are you?

You are 50.

I seriously thought you were 19 and she was 18. Dude if you don't get outta here. You want to stop playing games....it's real simple..STOP PLAYING GAMES.

im not playing games with her..i laid every thing out to her the other day...telling her i wanted her.and only her.not just as friends,i havent herd from her since.. no responce from her as all...its been a week..whats up with that..

Posted by Jynja
She feels like you don't understand her, but she understands you.

Her Mars is square your Venus... meaning she's conflicted. Your love style could be a bit confusing for her.

Aside from that, anything could be the matter. We don't have much to go on here.

I agree these could be signs of not being sure or she just isn't fully interested in you. It's best just to be honest and ask? We can be flirty, nice...naked lol and all this stuff without being serious about you so trying to interpret won't help much.

Posted by Nala13
You are 50.

I seriously thought you were 19 and she was 18. Dude if you don't get outta here. You want to stop playing games....it's real simple..STOP PLAYING GAMES.

I should've read the last page before I posted. Some adventurous 50 year olds haha

thanks for your in put...still very confused about this woman..im sure you being u may not understand it..but thanks anyway

i did ask her intentions..and she said she didnt know..go figure..haha

I told her how I felt about her...in a text...she texted back she didn't want to see me again. Than texted back I said a lot of kind and understanding things.....it's been two weeks no word from her...what's up with this woman...any help out where..should I just walk away for ever

aw i love seeing gem/leo couples.

she probably didnt like you for sure.
ive found out of all the signs leos are the quickest to want to jump into relationships if they really like you a lot.
never seen them as ones to take things slow.