@troubledleo
18 Years
We saw eachoter in passing several times and he finally decided to ask me out; but it was the day before he was leaving for Cali! We've been text messaging daily and a phone call a day...He's sent me pics and other trinkets too! I've never been in a relationship that was based on text messages and phone calls and other familiarities; but I'm kinda liking it! The conversations are very stimulating and we enjoy the same things; which is odd! I've tried to date two Gems in the past, but they came off very clingly which is what I wouldn't expect in them at all! COMPLETE TURNOFF FOR ME! This one has the typical characteristics of a Gem; and maybe that's why I like him because it is long distance and he's not here to invade my personal space. He came back a week ago and the chem was so strong he had me at HELLO! I'm the one that normally have people wrapped; but we hit it off so well! I enjoyed him and his friends! He did get a bit jealous when I took some of HIS attention. But I blew it off! It's only been 8 weeks and I'm flying to Vegas to meet him again this month; I needed to know before I go if its a lost cause for me to even try! I know its just based on him being a GEM; but I believe in that so strongly!
He'll be back next summer, his entire family is here! 2 year Work commitment he couldn't turn down. He didn't want to go and after he met me; DAMN and why didn't I say something months ago is what he keeps saying. Not sure of his...Mine?
SUN - Leo
MOON - Taurus (SO TRUE!)
MERCURY - Virgo (TRUE! TRUE! TOO TRUE!)
VENUS - Libra (NOT SURE ABOUT THIS ONE!)
MARS - Leo (WELL!)
Yes! So true...Learning a new love sign after only dealing with CANCERS for years has me out of my CONTROLLING ELEMENT! HA! My mercury in virgo has kept me grounded for years...but dealing with this GEM? Well he has me spent! He's so god damn charming its ungodly.
Hey ladies, HIS?
SUN: Gemini
MOON: Aries
MERC: Gemini
VENUS: Taurus
MARS: Gemini
I think this maybe a little too much GEM for me to handle. I also think I've seen that other person so many times already, only 8 weeks; and I KNOW that I'm the reason he's been here at least 4 times; well 5 counting today.I don't think he's used to someone being able to consume his charm but not be in a trance over it!
He asked last night if I could come see him sooner than expected; being spontaneous I said sure! Then I get an e-mail, we NEVER e-mail, this morning stating that he'll have to let me know about the trip I REALLY WANT TO ATTEND! If I cant have both, typical MEO, then I don't want anything at all. He hit me on this one, I didn't see this coming...
leokitty, I might have to go back to my predictable cancer men...
OH! Clearly his TWIN that becomes missing in action and withdrawn when unsettled; then the tolerable one, the charming one, resurfaces after awhile with an "I'm good" attitude.
Thanks PL - this fairs us so perfectly!
I wish my attitude was a little different right now; I felt he was somewhat deceptive last night! For what its worth; I think he new that MY DREAM TRIP/VISIT would be cancelled and tried to make up for it with this short noticed NOT SO GOOD TRIP/VISIT! I even put it on the table that I would understand about my dream trip; but he insisted that both were a go & not less than 24 hours later its a different story!
I can and probably should and probably will give in; but deception and disappointment is the worst thing to do to MEO - even with good intentions. Can I spell BRAT? Well, that's my middle name + play name + last name + $ itchy name! HA!
I sulked all day tuesday and I just booked both trips...I know my visit will probably match his visit here...AH! I can't wait.
Yeah, I sulked because I wanted to go to Vegas and he wanted me to come to Cali instead of Vegas. I've been looking forward to our Vegas trip since we met; there's a basketball game I wanted to attend. It was a mere misunderstanding on my part and we reached an agreement on BOTH trips. He explained that there's a chance that we probably will not get to spend ANY time together-alone. I insisted that I still wanted to go; for the game of course and if I got to see him then its gravy. Suprisingly, we understood eachother, talked, and reaffirmed that we were looking forward to seeing eachother. He seemed so endearing...So I'm headed to Cali next week and Vegas soon afterwards.
Hi-Ho! Hi-Ho! Its off to Sacremento I go...Details forth coming!
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Can this work? It's long distance too...