hate being me, the leo

hello people,
I haven't been in here for while. As you can see for some odd reason i hate being the leo dude. It's this "personality" of leo that i don't like about...i'm not saying that I have low self-esteem issue or something. I mean, I like me but at the same time I hate me due to my attitude. I tried to be humble person but somethings and some people just gets in my way. Why? I realized that i'm stubborn and impatient some times. I hate getting all these attention from "outside" world. Seriously, I mean...i have to get all these pressures from people and events. I also thought I'm a loving person who wants to shower some love but instead i'm being interepted as a lighting storm. damn it! What do i do?

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.

to the point: treetrunk em all

LUZ very good I like that. To be or not to be LUZ has answered the question.

oh god man, people aren't ruled by their sun signs alone! you can be anyone you want to! AND THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING A LITTLE "STUBORN AND IMPATIENT"... Man, the only time I ever really feal good is when I've lost my temper. butter, humbleness is a friggen joke. It's all crap, everything. Be who you want to be, stop complaining about who you are, and learn to live with yourself!

GROWL!!!!!!!!!!!

Meow?...lol jk...that's right..thanks

I always like a little Humble Sauce with my Crispy Tender Leo. 😛 Nothing wrong with humble; if this is a trait you'd wish to develop I applaud you and urge you to develop it. Confidence is fantabulous; Arrogance is detestable. Just my opinion. Good luck on the often butterty but ultimately enlightening experience of life. 🙂

My sister is a Leo. I love Leos, they are full of warmth and love. But they have to be showered with attention all the time, and don't necessarily give anything back. Is this always true? I am thinking I need to take my sister aside. At the moment, I don;t know what I am doing with my life. Therefore have distanced myself from my loved ones a little bit, to get some space, do some thinking. Its not much fun being around people when you are not firing on all cylinders, and feeling yourself, if you know what I mean?? Noone wants to give a false impression of themselves, or bring other people down by their mood. But she is taking it increasingly more personally-as I am not on top form, or showering her with attention at the moment.
I have always been there for her, but when its my turn, it feels like she can only think of herself. I wouldnlt even mind that, but she does things then because of that, like ignore me, freeze me out, make catty hurtful remarks and putdowns, and it does hurt. The thing is, I know why she is doing it, but what do I do? Should I take her aside?? Sometimes I worry that she musn't be very happy, if she is always that insecure. I feel incredibley guilty, because I know some people avoid her, and I can see that. For example, if its someones birthday, she will be the first one to arrange drinks and a night out. But its in a kind of overbearing way. She always turns people down for a night out, if it isn;t she who has organised it all. And she can have a habit of then just talking about herself all the time, and not really caring who else is there. I know its insecurity, and all that, but people are starting to avoid her and not go out with her. Then she feels hurt and excluded that noone wants to go out with her. Like I had to turn her down when she wanted to go out for drinks for her birthday, and I did feel guilty, but how do you tell someone what they are like?? I couldnl;t face sitting through all that. She could be SO great, if she just stopped thinking the world revolved around her. I mean, it is can see its bad for her also. She shuts herself away from people in her "castle" and always acts like noone is good enough for her. Then expects people to want to do things when she organises them, and is hurt when people avoid her or don;t want to show her attention. I mean I LOVE going out, nights out, and I would love to with her, but not as her sidekick or someooneto be patronised. What can I do? Seriously, on a practical level, what can I do? She is my sister, and I don't exactly, in ANY way, want to be those kind of sisters, that are feuding until they are old and spinsterd and in a house full of cats! Not my idea of fun! And I also don;t know if she is ever really happy, or is she just filling her life with material things? I don't know if I caould actually saythat to her though! I have tried to kind of, but hse always just acts like I am pathetic for having to talk about my 'feelings' all the time. Even thouh I don;treally! What can I do? Am I worrying way too much?? Its not just myself I am worryinog about

i think she needs a good "sister slap" to her. Maybe then she'll realize that she needs to change. jk...
but what can we say ...nobody is perfect.

I'm not a very good leo. . . I took one of those online tests, and it says that I should be a Scorpio. . . I don't care, they're both fixed signs. . . I just tend to be more introverted than extroverted. . . Yeah. . . Unless I really really feel strongly about something. . .

Hey Morgan

Where did you find that test?

I really can't remember now. . . It was probably emode...

verity i was wondering what your star sign was? I think you should just sit with her and talk to her like an adult about what's going on, it's all about communication and you just need to help her out she's probably a really outgoing funluvin leo in a bit of a rutt right now and maybe she just needs to meet the "right" types of friends...we are choosy about who we let into our life because we can give so much to those we love and want to see it back...like for me i'd rather just be close to my family and a couple of close friends than make uncaring half way friends. For me i can make aquiantances easily and they go easily and i'm totally cool with that, maybe there is something wrong with that, not too sure. Anyway, talk to her if you love her and she's your sister you gotta put it out there and keep the sisterhood going at 500% no half way, make sure it's all the way baby.

hey PC sometimes i feel the same way you do, i mean in the sense that i look all pretty on the outside but feel all icky on the inside...i do have low self esteem and the fact that i see so many couples get together makes me feel inadequate, like what's wrong with me? how am i so different?
i dunno man, life feels pretty shitty right now because of the fact that i feel so alone...i wonder if a leo is supposed to be with another leo so that we can get each other?

that butterty means bad