have i lost my leo guy

I am looking for some advice.
I am a Virgo female born 28.8.67 who has been dating a Leo guy born 28.7.68 for a couple of months. We fell in love with each other practically straight away, so much that it was a bit scary for us both. He has a lot going on in his personal life, stuff that does at times take a lot out of him. He has told me a couple of times that because he has had so much going on that it is better for me that he ends it. after a few days he would call (under the influence of alcohol for courage)with some silly excuse. Each time i would tell him that it is up to me if i wanted to be involved with someone with all this stuff going on. Recently he has become a less affectionate and a bit moody and seems to pick fault with everything i do or say. He always says he is just joking and i should lighten up. Usually i reply back, but it does get a bit much sometimes. The only time he has been close to being affectionate was i gave him a gift that he adored, he kissed me like he really loved me and wanted me. He tells me loves me so much and does say we are good together. I constantly tell him how much he means to me i do a lot for him to allow him to chill on his days off. But the constant lack of affection and not being able to do anything right for doing wrong got to me. To the point i was going away in a fowl mood all he could do was moan about something he wanted me to do. I pointed out to him that he was being selfish and left. He txt to say i should be with someone else and i said ok. During the argument the gift i bought him was damaged he became abusive.
I really do love him, i have never loved anyone this much. But was confused about his behaviour towards me and got really hurt by this. he has told me never ever to contact him again.
Should i contact him,or leave him to cool down, do the leo guys out there think he will contact me if i leave him to calm down?
any advice would help i am scared i will or maybe i have blown it.

confused

You have some nice aspects; your moon conjunct his sun & your moon conjunct his venus but their is the moon square moon. His moon is in Virgo and he is a demanding s.o.b. More so than a sun can be. It could be worked out but what is this about all the stuff going on in his life? The details matter in this relationship. I read that a lot with women who mostly post here about their relationships that their Leo is going thru so much...what— Know that he is a drama king first of all , there will ALWAYS be something he's going through for the rest of his life LOL! 😉 If you think this will ever settle down into a comfortable relationship, think again. He'll find a way to stir things up just to do it so think if that is what YOU want. I can only think that he's not in a place where he trusts you enough or feels you aren't being supportive possibly to where he trusts you to let go and love you the way you deserve. There isn't enough here to know but take this into consideration and see if it makes sense.

The stuff that is going on in his life is siblings who are terminally ill and issues with his son...also he is doing a lot of DIY work which i must say have spent all my free time helping him with to support him....he works long hours so when he is off he does like to relax and have a drink......so it is me that does the running around if he needs something...

But reading your replies, we all have stuff going on in our lives that affect us, we all work hard and need support from someone we love......i think deep down my feeling is that maybe he doesnt trust me fully, but this is coming across as he doesn't like me, even if he loves me...

so i think if there is to be any contact it will have to come from him..



Thanks for your advice

Splitnconfused you are right...so if he did make contact things would have to change mainly from him...

thanks

Donna88.......The funny thing is he constantly goes on about how he hates it when people are dramatic, when in fact thats what he is when he has a problem everything else is affected or up in the air...If he doesnt trust me now i dont think he ever will...

Thanks again..this has helped make things clear for me.....even though i do Love him..

confused

Posted by BMM
I am looking for some advice.
I am a Virgo female born 28.8.67 who has been dating a Leo guy born 28.7.68 for a couple of months. We fell in love with each other practically straight away, so much that it was a bit scary for us both. He has a lot going on in his personal life, stuff that does at times take a lot out of him. He has told me a couple of times that because he has had so much going on that it is better for me that he ends it. after a few days he would call (under the influence of alcohol for courage)with some silly excuse. Each time i would tell him that it is up to me if i wanted to be involved with someone with all this stuff going on. Recently he has become a less affectionate and a bit moody and seems to pick fault with everything i do or say. He always says he is just joking and i should lighten up. Usually i reply back, but it does get a bit much sometimes. The only time he has been close to being affectionate was i gave him a gift that he adored, he kissed me like he really loved me and wanted me. He tells me loves me so much and does say we are good together. I constantly tell him how much he means to me i do a lot for him to allow him to chill on his days off. But the constant lack of affection and not being able to do anything right for doing wrong got to me. To the point i was going away in a fowl mood all he could do was moan about something he wanted me to do. I pointed out to him that he was being selfish and left. He txt to say i should be with someone else and i said ok. During the argument the gift i bought him was damaged he became abusive.
I really do love him, i have never loved anyone this much. But was confused about his behaviour towards me and got really hurt by this. he has told me never ever to contact him again.
Should i contact him,or leave him to cool down, do the leo guys out there think he will contact me if i leave him to calm down?
any advice would help i am scared i will or maybe i have blown it.

confused

Thanks you for the post.

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Well it seems that yous are all correct Leo guy txt today saying sorry it didn't work out between us and wishing me a merry xmas and hoped i found some1 nice and to look after myself xx. i didnt reply straight away. He then sent a second txt saying "you have a nice christmas. lol". i waited again and then txt back i will have a nice xmas and him 2. i then sent a txt saying i was unsure why he was txting me after the last conversation we had, and the way he treated me. His reply was he didnt want a fight just to wish greetings. i put it to him that having a discussion and opinions about something is not a fight, was i not meant to have opinions.

Still waiting for a reply..


Kittyknitter thanks for the reply...it was great to read....i know the txt today was because he knows he was wrong....he also knows that i will be the first to gorgive. But his behaviour was out of order...and i will not go back until he says out loud that he was wrong and behaved like a child...if this doesnt happen then it is his lose.

This has def helped me sort this all out in my head and to stay away from him....which has made me realise how moody he is at times when he cant get his own way....which in turn was affecting my mood...have been feeling great the last few days.

Thanks everybody