ex leo boyfriend

we broke up sunday... i would really like to talk to him .. but my pride wont let him even tho we broke up we never went this long with out talking ... its killing me in side.... i just want him to say hi or something

do they even do that or wait for the other

I was w/ my Leo a long time. I initiated the break-up and he was very sad about it. He has NEVER initiated contact w/ me and its been almost a year. I have initiated w/ him and he has always responded but he has NEVER been first. Even when he had packages for me he'd send them to me via a 3rd party w/out contacting me.

SO YOU THINK HE MIGHT BE WAITIN GON ME TO DO IT

I dont know but it would make sense w/ their pride that they wouldnt do it. I can only say what my experience was, however, I was the one who broke up w/ him so could be an altogether different situation yet it is what it is. He has never reached out first and we were like we were married - LTR, ring, house...

Now that I think about it, w/e we'd fight he'd give silent treatment and I'd have to open the dialogue....that coulda just been my guy tho'....and since we've broken up, while I have contacted him, I've not done so to reconcile but I have done so to be friendly on occassion.

MIA ..I WROTE HIM AN EMIAL NOT THRU MY FB BUT ACTUAL EMIAL TELLING HIM IM OK WITH THE BREAK UP AND I DO KNOW HE NEED SPACE APART.. BUT I STILL CARE AND DO WANT TO BE FRIENDS..I ALSO DEACTIVATED MY FACEBOOK FOR A WHILE THERE FOR HE CAN LOOK AT MY PG AND KNOW IM DOING OK BECAUSE IM ONE OF THOSE FACEBOOKERS THAT POST EVERY FEW MINUTES LOL BUT I WROTE TO HIM TELLING HIM HOW I FELT... MY LEO IS LIKE THAT IF WE FIGHT HE WONT SAY SORRY OR NOTHIGN IF I TALK TOHIM HE WILL TLAK BACK BUT NEVER FIRST.. ONCE HE DOES TALK HE WILL GO BACK TO NORMAL .. NOW MY FAMILY HAS BEEN AQSKING BOUT HIM AND ITS MAKING IT WORSE SO ON MY STATUS I SAID UGH FAMILY ISNT MAKING ANY EASIER IF YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT HIM ASK HIM CALL HIM WELL HIS BESTFRIEND(GIRL)WRITES ON HER STATUS SAYING IM NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BUT WHAT EVER .. GET OVER YOU SELF TAKE THEBREAK UP AND MOVE ON .. I DON KNOW WHY SHE WOULD WRITE SUCH THING THEN ON HIS PROFILE PIC HE PUT HIMSELF WITH HIS DAUGHTER WHICH IS CUTE BUT THEN SHES LIKE OH I LIKE YOUR DEFAULT BETTET THEN THE REST LIKE WTH

You've said your peace now you have to give him his peace and IG THAT B&TCH. She should mind her own business. Let him be, make no more contact unless he responds to you. Try to keep yourself active & busy w/ other things...journal your feelings if you have to but leave him alone and see if he contacts you but dont hold your breath. Try to move on and you'll be much more attractive 😉

I TEXT ED HIM SAYING I MISS YOU .. HE SAID :-) SO I SAID I DONT KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS .. HE SAYS I MISS YOU TOO i said yeah?? he said yeah... so is that a good sign or is he just saying to say it

on top of it all .. iwas like well i wrote to just say i missed you andhe says if it makes you feel better i thought about you to .. what the hell why he has to say if it makes you feel better... so i said no its ok to tell me how you really feel .. he said I AM BEING HONEST in capital letters

Girrll...u need to lighten up! If you keep wearing him out/draining him he'll only be reminded of why he let you go. If you leave him be he may miss your energy and excitement but you need to calm it down a bit.

wow .. what is so weird .. is that after a week of break up .. i deleted him off of fb .. made my account on this dating website we met on which he still uses .. well he said he stoped any ways .. so friday comming up.. we talked on the phone .. then his phone died..normaly when we were together and his phone dies he dont try to write me on yahoo messanger.. cause he never use it .. but this time he loggged in and said sorry my phone doied then he asked me if i wouldnt mind joining him to go walk down town i was like sure we talked for 4 hours... we had alot of issues with him giving out his number and girls texting him so when i asked him so what did you do this week he said him and roomate went to strip club i said ohhhh cool .. so i was like did you get a number be honest he said yes... isaid wow ..already has not been a but a week .. so he knew how that rouined out relationship so he deletes it in front of me .. then sat morning he was invited to a party .. (now to remind you it will be girls there ) well since i stayed the night .. i was like ok well since you have to go .i am going home he was like wait you dont want to coem with me ?>??(this suprised me )so i said i have no clothes atleas none that are clean so he said i washed your clothes you left her..so we end up going .. sunday morning (the day i was pose to leave)he told me how he left me because we argued alot and this and how i dont trust him now with that i told him you have all random chick s texting you and you dont do nothing about it and you want me to trust you.. with all this being said i was like if you was going to wait whole month to talk to me why do you talk to me now he said i would wait because i dont want mixed feelings like i am having now .. i know when your not here ..i miss you but i go do somehting so i dont think about it but now that you are here i am happy.. minus the arguments... so its true ... now that i deleted him .. he cant see what i am doing so he comes back