Is this a Leo thing?

Is this a Leo thing?

....sorry my computer is whack......

This is in regards to two conversations Ive had with two male leos. I noticed that in regards to women and relationships they both said the same thing. Maybe it was a coincidence. They both stated that when they are looking at a specific female that it better not be "easy" to get. The second leo male explained it better than the first to me. He said...I dont care if she turns me down 12 times, it better not be easy. I feel like if its hard for me to get then it will be hard for another guy to get as well.

Usually I bump heads with leo males, but we really had a nice conversation. Hes very laid back and he just kinda stands back observing everything going on. Hes always trying to feed me. He will stand by me at games...wander off for a little and then come and stand by me, give me some more food and then wander off again. He has this quiet force about it...cant explain it. I really like talking to him. We have crazy conversations.

Do not confuse hard to get with being taken by the way. Our jealously is phenomenal when this happens. You have to be emotionally available at the very least to our advances. I've had girls try to make me jealous when we are out and i've gone cold or something. It ends very badly and i'll take a different girl home. Leo's tend to make challenges out of nothing. I remember once a girl spent all night in a club with me and then told me to go home with her. I said to her 'Is that all you spent all night with me for? what makes you think i wanted to go home with you?' I got slapped. The next week my god was she a challenge to conquer. And yes. Conquer her i did.

By feeding me, I mean he always asks if I want something. Or if he is eating.... say sunflowers seeds, he will just pour some into my hand and walk away. Not like him putting food in my mouth or anything.

There is a gemini at park too who likes me. I actually would like to just hang out more with leo guy. Its not romantic or anything. He says he enjoys being single and he feels like it takes at least two years to really know someone. I actually liked that he said that. I enjoy just sitting and talking....makes me feel like I have a no pressure male friend. I am not currently dating and have told him this as well. He said he would be my friend. Im like good. No sex, no dates and no commitments.

Now the gemini kinda cock blocks him. Hes like always talking and throwing money around and blah blah blah. Leo guy is just chill. Hes just relaxed taking it all in. I tell him the little astrologically I know of leos and hes very interested. He says hes laid back unless hes pushed.

I think he was referring "easy" as in easy to get with. Im not sure.

Meekimoo please read my gemini thread too....

I wish i had this info earlier.....

I agree with what u are saying. The leo guy asked me why i wouldnt go on a date with the gemini. Hes like...he seems like a nice guy. I told him I didnt want too and that I wanted to remain single. Im not looking for anything romantic with the Leo, I just would like friendship. He is handsome and the whole nine but I gotta clear my head a little at this point. I just like the connection. I like how we talk to each other. I like how laid back he is. Its so easy. I feel like I could just have a real good time and it be like no expectations. Im not talking sex or anything.

He told me about some girl that was chasing him and trying to be his sugar momma...wanted some female advice. He brought out like a big bottle of channel cologne she had brought him. Im like..hmmmmm, I think she really likes you.

I aksed him if he slept with her, he said three times.

I mean...u see what I mean? Its just easy and nice. Hes super funny too.

He said we could be friends. I said ok, no sex, etc....

I just laid out what I wanted.

So i guess we will see how this goes.......

Ill keep that in mind Leoliza. I dont want to be hunted, just friended. Maybe this is the wrong sign?

I'll be honest here. The only female friends i have are married women that i would never do anything with. Every other girl i talk to is someone i would bed. I will be nice to less attractive girls only to be in a position to talk and get to know the attractive friend they have. I only do this to eventually bed them. I am a typical leo man though. I'm not sure what this other leo is like but what i can say is the only reason i like being single is i can have sex with whoever i want whenever i want. I also bring other acts of a sexual nature into conversations with a potential mate because i want to see her reaction. I do it because i want her wanting to be that girl.

wow thanks Neurath....

Imma think hard about that. He did mention this other woman having a attraction to him so thats why i asked if he slept with her. He admitted that he had.

When you mention this gemini does the leo's demeanour change even a fraction? The slightest change you can detect will tell me what he is actually trying to achieve...

Don't get me wrong though Dimplez. When i find a girl to commit to no woman will get between us. All the skills i am developing will be for her exclusively. I may love females to a fault but i'm not one of these cheating leo's. I check out everything available so that i know exactly what woman will work best with me for the long haul. How else can a man be certain? I don't want to experience grass is greener syndrome 😛

Well our sons play football at the park. So we usually all sit together. At first the leo would ask me questions like...how can i tell if a woman is a gold digger...and id answer him. we all sat and watched kids play.

Then, the gemini starts to codblock the leo. Hes like for instance man, if u take my wife away from me ill cut u off. I mean hes just making blanket statements but we just all talking u know. So the leos like true, oh yes.

Whenever the leo did something the gemini tries to outdo him. WHen he(leo) put the sunflower seeds in my hand, the gemini looked and said...i didnt know u like sunflower seeds. I said oh yeah. So as soon as i finished eating them, the gemini dumps some more in my hand. Then when I finished those he(gemini) dumps some more in my hand. Now the leo had walked off after he gave me some originally. When he came back I did see him do a double take when he looked at me hand and saw them seeds there. Leo just observed. But i observe him observing.

Man i didn't realise this was direct competition going on like this. The leo is leading, making the gemini use all the tricks he can but the leo is keeping ahead of the game. Man i love this trait we have. This leo definitely finds you interesting enough to do this. I mean i survey the women i want all the time. If they are taken i will catch their eye to make them know that i may not be chasing them but they are definitely wanted. If he wanted simply friendship he would talk to the gemini and you at the same time - he would entertain you both. Instead he goes to survey the rest of the field like he's been born to do. He keeps a glance on you to make sure no boundaries are being crossed. He will respect the fact that you do not want sexual relations with him right now but he will still be wary and potentially jealous that the gemini is sat there when he has had to withdraw to stop doing something silly. This will keep escalating. The gemini is a boundary pusher when the leo is a boundary protector. Both these men have their qualities about them but the leo is always the wild card. We are reserved because we can be but when the time comes to shine we will outshine them all.

Keep careful watch on this situation!

Thanks neurath!

I did make a thread about the gemini. I just made it actually. He invited the leo and I to his house to watch the fight this saturday. A fight party. Im not going. Im so glad i didnt because who knows how he would be acting infront of the leo.

The leo is so quiet, but watchful. I notice him more than the animated gem.

Im just gonna stay by myself, try to diffuse the situation. He prob thinks i already screwed the Leo anyways. I had sat with leo when the gemini wasnt at park because his son was sick. Anyways I left my id in his car and card. SO i get to the store to buy some rain boots and who calls me....gemini saying I left my id in Leos car.

Ill be careful. Imma just stay in my car by myself.

Gemini's are very two faced. Their anger will match a leo's any day of the week. My dad and brother are gemini's and everyone thinks they are nice as pie. Those people want to come to a family argument when it literally ends in me being double teamed. My father was very physically violent to me growing up yet never touched my brother. I don't regret this because i can hold my own when i have to as an adult now. This is why leo's learn to be reserved - we get so much flak and we're rarely facing issues on a 1 on 1 basis. This is why i say to be careful. A gemini and leo in conflict is extremely dangerous indeed.

Im an aquarius.

Honestly It may have been like six weeks that ive even known these guys. Maybe two months at the most. I do like the leo, but as a friend at this point. I wasnt looking for a romantic connection when i signed my son up for football. It was just two football dads that happened to be cool that knew a sport that I did not. We started off having fun just sitting, talking and watching our kids having a good time.

It just somehow changed from that into this......

When I was talking with the leo and he made that comment( my original post) it just had me curious if that was a leo
thing or not.

I do think hes handsome and all, but i really need to regroup and just chill for awhile. So right now, Im only wanting friendship. I hope im not sending him mixed signals because thats why i told him no dating, sex and commitments. I dont know how else to say it.

Well they have practice this wed and thurs and a game friday so we will see. Ill just stay in my car or drive off.

Thanks neurath...i will heed your warnings.

I just want the kids to have fun and a great season.

I guess no friends then.

Ill leave both them be. Its prob for the best.

I did a compatibility chart and well I share mars square pluto with gemini and mars trine pluto with leo. Intersting reading on that matter.

But ill bow out gracefully and just let them eat their sunflower seeds and hopefully remain friends without me.

Posted by size zero superhero
I'm borderline astounded at the headcount of Leos & Geminis with mutual dislike, up in this thread. Damn. And here I was all along, thinking Gemini and Leo were well documented astro-BFFs.

Hell, the majority of Leos & Gems I associate with IRL can't get enough of each other!

Yes it does work well so long as everything is up front and on the ball. The problem is leos are very open, honest and pretty straightforward. The nature of gemini's is different in that what they say and think are often completely different. When this comes to light conflict occurs because the foundation of trust - and trust is a vital thing for leos, has suddenly become very weak. I've dated gemini girls and they have often been very secretive about very vital details. Hell one of them was throwing up every night and i didn't find out until she stayed one night and forgot to clean up properly. That's when her eating disorder came to light. Another of my female girlfriends got raped by some lad she knew and refused to explain why the police kept coming to my door. Naturally i wanted to kill the bastard and that was probably why she wouldn't tell me but to have a woman crying in some hidey hole while i think everything is fine is not good. Not good at all.

Just leave the Leo guy alone-trust me. Just leave him alone. (coming from a Leo guy)

Posted by Neurath
Do not confuse hard to get with being taken by the way. Our jealously is phenomenal when this happens. You have to be emotionally available at the very least to our advances. I've had girls try to make me jealous when we are out and i've gone cold or something. It ends very badly and i'll take a different girl home. Leo's tend to make challenges out of nothing. I remember once a girl spent all night in a club with me and then told me to go home with her. I said to her 'Is that all you spent all night with me for? what makes you think i wanted to go home with you?' I got slapped. The next week my god was she a challenge to conquer. And yes. Conquer her i did.

I am rolling over here. Oh, when I was much younger. Yes, even us female Leo's want to have something stand out about our mates. Let's face it, we are magnets of attraction. We want the other person to have something that sets them out to be special above the other. When I was younger, one guy was really trying me hard. I asked him, "what make you worth me getting to know you?" His face and then he still was trying.

Yes... i think at this point it might best to just call this all a wash. I posted a thread about the gemini in the gemini thread,but its all really been playing on my mind. The gem had invited the leo and me to his house this week. After what happened to me wuth gem,i was gonma tell leo to warn him, like watch guy. Two of my friends i told said the gem might have tried to put something in a drink. I mean this guy was out out sleep...wouldnt wake up. The gem text me last night at 1130 inviting me to party again..

Ill just let leo and gem be friends and ill fade out of this.

*** sorry...on phone. ......
He texted me inviting to come to house party again.

Posted by size zero superhero
I'm borderline astounded at the headcount of Leos & Geminis with mutual dislike, up in this thread. Damn. And here I was all along, thinking Gemini and Leo were well documented astro-BFFs.

Hell, the majority of Leos & Gems I associate with IRL can't get enough of each other!

My sister and youngest daughter are Gems. When that evil twin comes out. OH man ~ not a good trait for a Leo.

Yes... and most Leo women are hard to get and not by playing games. We need to feel we're the ONLY one... ask my Taurus guy. 🙂

Posted by pssymonstaa
God fuckin Leos piss me off!

LoL

Cold water while the whole chart is gonna matter in general Leo's and Aquas get along fabulously. Just trust me 😉

Of course it's a lot better if the guy is the Aqua