Just Wondering..

Okay, so for a while me and scorp broke up. We are now back together and things are fine but during that time I met a leo girl. And never dealing with a leo I just had to ask this question.

We only hung out about three times but right away I thought we had a good connection. I thought she was beautiful, smart, sweet and we mentally really got eachother. However she was

always kind of flakey about returning txts and would come on strong and than back away. Physically nothing really happened with us because I was trying to take it slow with her but than I think she thought I was disinterested. She was very hot and cold with everything.

Than the last time we hung out as she was leaving I told her I wanted to kiss her but I didn't know if she would be okay with it. She replied with " you should of 🙂 " than a few txts later she said she didnt think we had a connection and she didnt want to see me anymore?

I was sort of taken back by that and said I wouldn't contact her again than. But than she replied with " Don't be silly we can still be friends " so I said ok.


Since than I have tried to take her up on that offer and she never really replies to my txts. The last thing she said was " I'm on vacation I'll txt you when I get back " and that was on july 7th and I haven't heard anything since than.


So I'm wondering are all leos like this? Play games, like or is she just not interested at all and just trying to be " nice " I have a leo moon myself but I do not understand her.


This is her Chart :

Sun Leo
Rising Sag
Moon Taurus
Merc Leo
Venus Leo
Mars Leo

So she is pretty leo. I know this is somewhat in the past but I just wonder. I feel played.

You're a lesbian?

I thought the scorp was a man?

Is this "As the world turns?"

lolz..

What's it matter what the leo chick is doing anyhow if you're back with himmmmmmmm—

Huh...? huh....? Huhhhhhhh?

Posted by Jynja
Maybe she's bi curious and not yet sure if she wants the full deal. She came on strong when she felt she could really get into it and then withdrew when she saw that you might take things all the way.
Or else, she could also be afraid to trust you just yet, thinking she might lose your friendship if "she" doesn't respond to the relationship the way you'd expect.
I think she might just be hiding away because of some insecurity.

Also, the trick with the Leo woman is to dominate her fully. From experience, I can imagine she is afraid to be the initiator because she doesn't know what is expected of her and how she would need to proceed. You could make amends by offering friendship, and when you think she's fully comfortable, you could go directly for the kiss again.

Remember the mood counts a lot! If you have her laughing and happy it would be a better experience than if things are more serious. Maybe she'll enjoy going for a window shopping spree and ending up getting pushed into a changing room for a smooch (Oh, the good ol' days. 😉)

** This whole thing could well be trolling, too. Eh? 😛 If not, my bad.

Thanks

Posted by BigGirlPanties
lolz..

What's it matter what the leo chick is doing anyhow if you're back with himmmmmmmm—

Huh...? huh....? Huhhhhhhh?

You obivs didnt read it

Posted by Jynja
Bisexual is the new black 😉

I can be attracted to whoever I want

Posted by Jynja

Posted by Sag89

Posted by Jynja
Bisexual is the new black 😉

I can be attracted to whoever I want

Actually, that would be pan-sexuality - a very new concept in which strict L, G or T and Q can inter-love. In BDSM circles, Qs are already able to introduce some subs and bottoms to pan-sexuality.

Glossary

L - Lesbians
G - Gays
T - Transsexuals
Q - Queers

A Sub is a submissive in Bondage and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism (BDSM)

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Wow your so smart! Everything needs a label huh? It's that simple!

What a twit.

You're not a priority is what that translates as. It's not (usually) intentional but it looks shady. If she straight up said that she doesn't feel a connection then that's it. Game over. Don't hold your breath. She sure as hell isn't holding hers. Things might not have run as smoothly as she liked and that can turn us off for good if it's really new. Patience is not in our list of traits and the only way she will focus on you, and wait around, is if she feels you are truly worthy. She will respect her more if you don't put up with her shit. It's true. In a way, we need to be dominated.

Respect YOU more

Ok that was helpful thanks n

Pansexuality is not a new concept. Don't pretend like you know what you're talking about.


And Sag.. give me this girls number 😉 But sometimes cat likes to just cat and mouse, period. I'll openly admit that I'll flirt because it's just in my personality to. Her Lioness driven Mars/Venus may drive her to attract.. since it very could well be her nature to - regardless of her actual interest in the other party. Hopefully this makes sense - just finished a 12 hr shift. 🙂

There is no such thing as TMI in my book, but I respect your privacy and hesitancy.

If it's a matter of not wanting to publicly post, I'm free to message. If it's a matter of being hesitant to share and keeping to yourself, then that is just as understood.

I admit that I am oftentimes quick to challenge others in their statements on pansexuality, panromanticism, and gender binaries. It comes from finding myself needing to correct and assert the misconceptions that others display after I reveal my own placement (or lackthereof) within those various classifications.

I'm sorry if it seemed hasty. I didn't intend it that way, especially since I've found your posts interesting in the past. 🙂

Uh, dear - read my last post. You're responding to already covered things. I only made that one small comment in reference to your post on the matter. I didn't stretch it out further until saying that I was in the wrong in my reaction and that I was sorry. I don't find any reason to say more about it since I extended my honest apologies.

If you ever do seek knowledge on pansexuality feel free to message me. At this point it's pretty evident that I am pansexual, and have been open about it for years. There isn't much accurate and thorough information in the mainstream for general knowledge on the matter, unfortunately.

well this thread has disappeared completely up its own ass....err i mean it's pansexual ass of course dahling!!

FAAAAAAASCINATING!!

*head hits desk*

yeah....i find i am CONSTANTLY making statements on pansexuality, panromanticism and espcially gender binaries....i mean what ELSE is there to talk about—

"It comes from finding myself needing to correct and assert the misconceptions that others display after I reveal my own placement (or lackthereof) within those various classifications."

"At this point it's pretty evident that I am pansexual, and have been open about it for years."

you know huntress, your english sounds pretty good when you read it but when you look at what's being said, sometimes it makes absolutely no sense. how can you go from a 'lack of placement' within the 'classifications' you mention to being very evidently 'pansexual' and how do you correct AND assert misconceptions— i mean it sounds great but IT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING!!!

and furthermore, who gives a crap? i mean seriously...do we have to label every single thing in life and then spend the rest of it carrying the banner? what do you want.....a medal—

definition of pansexual - i'll just fuck anything, LOL. yeah, wear that badge baby. be loud and proud!!!

Posted by Huntress
Pansexuality is not a new concept. Don't pretend like you know what you're talking about.


And Sag.. give me this girls number 😉 But sometimes cat likes to just cat and mouse, period. I'll openly admit that I'll flirt because it's just in my personality to. Her Lioness driven Mars/Venus may drive her to attract.. since it very could well be her nature to - regardless of her actual interest in the other party. Hopefully this makes sense - just finished a 12 hr shift. 🙂

It does!

Haha ya I just was always wondering what happened there. Like I said I have never delt with a leo so I had no idea like you know, like what they are about. So you say your pan?

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
and furthermore, who gives a crap? i mean seriously...do we have to label every single thing in life and then spend the rest of it carrying the banner?

Exactly! Sexuality is so complex!

some people just go through life 'having' to belong to some factional group they've invented to give them a sense of belonging and 'oneness' with like-minded people. then occasionally, they like to rant about it and claim no-one understands them...unless ofcourse you belong to the same club....when in fact no-one DOES understand them cos no-one CARES.

i mean really!! do you know how ridiculous you sound?? pan-sexual...bdsmq....asexual....ffs how many segments do you want to break sexuality down into exactly—

yeah it's great to be different. it's fantastic to be an individual. JUST GET ON WITH IT!!!! NOOOOO-OOOOONE CAAAARES!

despite being a 'catholic' country, spain is extremely tolerant and easy going with a live and let live attitude. there is a huge gay community here and a fantastic carnival in malaga during the summer which is world famous...bigger than uk's gay pride or notting hill event.

i've not known of any pansexual event though, lol...most spanish would be very confused by the term and would wonder what exactly the difference is between that and bi-sexual OR a-sexual or BDSMQRTUVWXYZ-sexual. ffs, the goatmen have intimate relationships with their goats!!! anything goes as long as you don't ram it down anyone's throat 😄


lol @ ram...unintentional pun

it is funny how most straight guys use manbags and are completely manscaped over here....even most of the brits fall into line unless they're northerners, lol.....a fooking manbag??!! that's what them there wimmin are for.

did you like my authentic accent? lol

actually, i know i can safely slag off the brummie accent to you bling..i think you're further north? omg, this guy who is chasing me is a brummie with a fucking STUTTER!!! when he phones, i feel the red mist descending and don't answer. i don't get how he is a top salesman cos i have no clue what he's ever talking about but he sounds sooooooo THICK!!!

If I had gone about it the way I was to, half of the terms I had would be in apostrophes. I put it without such because I expected to have that in itself shit on.

You're funny r1g - within a period of a few months you claim that you're being attacked but then go onto do it yourself. You said 'who cares' and that it doesn't goddamn matter.. yet you're going on and on about nothing. Geesh. You make no sense yourself, dear. 🙂

Sure, I'm aware I discuss it alot. That's my choice. You also have a choice to read it or not, and since you obviously don't give a fuck.. why read it, let alone rant about it? You've already wasted enough on it.

I can understand Sag - I quite often feel the same about Sagittarians.. even after dealing with one! 😛

I reread your original post and was thinking about how 'flitty' (lmao that came to mind for some reason) she seemed in her actions. I know that I personally will say I'll talk/contact someone and wholeheartedly mean it through and through - but sometimes I'll get caught up in whatever is going on in life OR the silence between parties will become too unsettling for me to follow through. But she seems more cerebral and planned in such. I'm surprised her chart doesn't hold Scorpio.. or even Libra or Pisces for the changes and distance. Her Rising Sign is pretty evident in her patterns.

And yes. Lol.